VENT THREAD! Things you wish you could say but can't

[4magpies]

Fuck off AF.

You horrible horrible witch.

 

[J_Lynn]

Today, my Drs nurse called me to check up on me after the HSG and I told her I was still bleeding - she said most likely it's my period that came back from having things done to my cervix; and that this cycle was a bust. I've been bleeding since Wednesday She said if I am still bleeding thursday, that I can call and I'll come in and see my Dr.

I have spent the morning crying. Nothing ever works out for me.

 

[kassiaethne]

ugh so all those positive tests I got were either super earily or whatever but all the doctor tests say nopers. can't do anything about fertility though until we are for sure certain that I am not pregnant....so I get to wait another week in limbo to be sure I don't get my period (if the spotting at 7dpo wasn't a period) and then test again to see what comes out on a magical pee stick...

so my rant: Fuck you sticks....either give me a positive and be positive or give me a negative so I'm not in pregnant limbo....I want my baby already and you teasing me like this is hurting my heart....

 

[jcombs35]

Oh Kass. I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Sounds like you're going through what I did. I'm still waiting til Friday when AF is due to go back for another doctor's test, and I'm up to 17 positives.... but still very nervous. Praying for you hun.

 

[kassiaethne]

yeah thank you, I am just so confused on everything and I really hope I am pregnant, this limbo is killing me. I had 4 positives but then I went to the doctors and they were like nope negatives. so now I'm just told wait a week and test again and we will go from there. ahosidaoshdao why can't I have an answer now!!!! thank you for your prayers they are certainly appreciated and make me feel less alone in all this.

 

[tamithomas]

vent: oh joy,bumped into our 35 week pregnant friend at the mall. Whom I have been purposely avoiding since she started showing. I hate the curtious "how's the baby?" talks, they're like nails on a chalk board.

 

[HWPG]

have you guys seen this article? why didnt one of US make/market this?

https://www.hlntv.com/article/2012/08/02/unbaby-scrubs-facebook-baby-photos?hpt=hp_t3

 

[kassiaethne]

lol yeah I posted a thread about that a little bit ago for everyone to get ^_^ I know its helped me alot

 

[laurac1988]

Sick of peoples inability to use google or a forum search function!

 

[Gunnhilde]

have you guys seen this article? why didnt one of US make/market this?

https://www.hlntv.com/article/2012/08/02/unbaby-scrubs-facebook-baby-photos?hpt=hp_t3

I installed it on my Chrome. Didn't work

 

[kassiaethne]

clear cache then reopen chrome, it should work after that

 

[Odi]

random vent for the day......

AAAAAAHGGGGHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! stoopid offshore work!!!! why do you have to do this job DP?????money is not everything.... far out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cant do this by myself.. i cant be alone for 2 months and have u home for 2 weeks....

please please .... find another job.. one where i can see you and get a cuddle from you when i honestly need you here with me.. i cant do this alone.. i need you home.........

 

[Knightcla]

I am also tired of pregnant people bragging to me about their wonderful baby bumps,
and then complaining about how terrible it is to be pregnant.
When there's people like us who are trying and trying and want babies.

every one around me is getting pregnant and I wanna crawl under a rock and give them the evil eye.

 

[4magpies]

Worst AF pains ever this month.

Sucks.

Also confused to why my temp didn't drop below cover line before AF and still hasn't dropped!

xxx

 

[jojolabobo]

Vent for today!

WHY has it been 2 and half weeks since my GP referred me to the fertility specalist about my PCOS and I still havent heard anything!!!!

Maybe I'm being impatient but honestly...I'm literally going insane!

I've become an obsesive compulsive googler...today I can't stop googling clomid! Just want to have something to work towards I'm soooo sick of waiting around.

Worst part is I work with a Psychiatrist and he keeps giving me funny looks, if this goes on much longer they are going to realise I've lost it and admit me onto one of our psychiatric wards haha!

 

[LizzieJane]

I HATE the fact that my lack of periods are probably due to stress and I HATE the fact that there seems to be nothing I can do about this!!! ARGH?!

 

[4magpies]

Vent for today!

WHY has it been 2 and half weeks since my GP referred me to the fertility specalist about my PCOS and I still havent heard anything!!!!

Maybe I'm being impatient but honestly...I'm literally going insane!

I've become an obsesive compulsive googler...today I can't stop googling clomid! Just want to have something to work towards I'm soooo sick of waiting around.

Worst part is I work with a Psychiatrist and he keeps giving me funny looks, if this goes on much longer they are going to realise I've lost it and admit me onto one of our psychiatric wards haha!

I'd expect to wait a while for a referral tbh. Maybe a month of more.

Also they won't give you clomid straight away. You'll need a hsg first. Hope time passes quickly for you.

xxx

 

[LKPone]

WHY has it been 2 and half weeks since my GP referred me to the fertility specalist about my PCOS and I still havent heard anything!!!!

Maybe I'm being impatient but honestly...I'm literally going insane!

I've become an obsesive compulsive googler...today I can't stop googling clomid! Just want to have something to work towards I'm soooo sick of waiting around.

Just to give you a snapshot of what you could expect - you probably haven't been referred to a FS, but rather to the a general gynae to start with. I was referred to a gynae ward first from the GP - completely useless exercise, but that's the NHS for you. I think it took about 2 or 3 months before I actually saw anybody. Spent 5 months with them, saw them at the beginning and end of those 5 months and achieved absolutely nothing at all before being discharged from there and referred to the Fertility Specialist - now we're talking! BUT.... there was a waiting list of 18 weeks! But I convinced them that since I'd been given Clomid by my private doctor in South Africa, who I'd gone to for an opinion (I can't even say 'second opinion' because the NHS STILL hadn't diagnosed my PCOS yet!), I couldn't wait that long to have another round of treatment, so they gave me an appointment in 3 weeks.

But it's a long, hard road on the NHS and all I can say is that you'll get there eventually, but I don't doubt that you'll have loads more rants about the process - in fact, my first vent on this thread was about that exact thing!

 

[LKPone]

Also they won't give you clomid straight away. You'll need a hsg first. Hope time passes quickly for you.

xxx

Not necessarily... I haven't had my HSG yet and I've been given 6 rounds of Clomid to get me going That's because the Lap & Dye has a waiting list of 3 months - I went for my FS appointment over a month ago and I still haven't heard anything about my lap & dye appointment.

Depends on each individual case, but I mostly agree that they probably won't give you Clomid until you're with the Fertility Specialist.... in fact, I know that, because the gynae ward I was with told me that they aren't allowed to prescribe it!

 

[4magpies]

Lap and dye isn't a hsg. The NHS don't tend to waste clomid so they like to know your tubes are patent. Plus there's no point in wasting time trying clomid if your tubes aren't damaged.

If you've already been perscribed clomid they tend to assume you have no tubal issues as you should have been checked for that.

I've been right through the NHS gynae and FS system as I've had gynae probs since I was 20. Just waiting to get re referred as had to start again with my new partner. I got as far as being perscubed clomid last time after it taking them 2 years of consultant care to diagnose me. Idiots. This is after 3 laps, a hsg and an ectopic!

xx