Lots of things shouldn't be said but this is why this thread was started (I believe). To give us a safe space to just vent our frustrations. Sure my sister isn't the lazy slobby mooch that I lead everyone to believe she is... oh wait SHE IS. But this is the place I can say that. Right?
I also think it's rather selfish of my coworker to get knocked up and then apply to work on my project and then let us know she's expecting after her probation period is up and we'll need to replace her in 6 months... sure its not legal to discriminate against her, but it's a big bitch move to do that to us. And I feel confident that I can say that here because it's a safe and supportive space.
Also, my mom was/is a selfish careless person and had 3 accidents, myself included. She gave the first 3 up for adoption and then kept me, but really even though she was technically an adult, she has the maturity of a teenager. And let me tell you, that's not a fun house to grow up in. I've been taking care of her since I was taller than her. I turned out alright because I wanted to be nothing like her. So sure those teen moms that are irresponsible and think a baby will be their doll to love them forever may have kids that turn out just fine, but maybe they won't. My father wasn't in the picture, my mom went on welfare before I was 8. And she smoked through her entire pregnancy, and I had asthma as a kid and now I'm seemingly having difficulties conceiving. I have yet to go for testing but I suspect there's plumbing problems. (That was an interesting piece of info posted a page back...one more thing I can blame her for now)
And for all those who have read this thread and got offended... you don't see the Christians and the Atheists trolling each other's support threads do you? No you don't. So why are people trolling our vents? Now I'm going to get worried that I'll get kicked off because I will offend someone who has a sister, or a mom, or a coworker?
Or how about my post a few pages back where I got offended, miffed and frustrated and down right pissed off with the post about the 'magic trick' of 'just stop trying'... she didn't come on here and yell at me... and I kept my vent to this thread so as not to be a debbie downer and call her out for saying something that everyone that's TTC can't stand to hear ON MORE EFFING TIME!
Let's move on ladies. Vents are vents because we're hormonal, irrational and (speaking for myself) a little obsessed. If you don't like what's being said, move on and let us get on with our bitch-fest!