Back again, I seriously LOVE this thread!!!
Ok, we live in a small town and we have one of *those* families, you know the type....
Scruffy, loads of kids, neither parent works, live off benefits, moan that the house they are GIVEN to live in isn't big enough.... Most places have at least one of *those* families!
Well found out yesterday that she is expecting baby number 10!!!!
Seriously!!! 10!!!
In all honesty it's actually her twelth but the first two were with a previous partner and were taken into care. He also has about six from a previous relationship but they don't live here.
But yep, baby number 10, how is that fair?!
Once those poor kids reach a year old she loses interest in them and has another baby.
The kids are always grubby and full of nits.
Apparently their dad would love to work but he does everything at home, the cooking cleaning looking after the kids, all she does is sit around SMOKING and playing around on fb!
We put off properly trying for #2, until we were in a better position.
Argh!!!!! It's just so unfair!!!!!!
Although I do think it would be cheaper for the council to have Sky installed for them to give them something else to do a night ! Lol
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I hate to see how this woman is doing a year from now. Those poor babies!! What an idiot. Has she told her bf yet?? I'd love to be a fly on the wall when that convo takes places, lol.
i mean i dont know any of them personally but i think its safe to say that most (if not all) of their pregnanciees were "oopsies" and they are more likely to not have the fathers around, drop out of school, and end up on benifits which just makes me sad for those babies- and the girls! i know not all of them will end up with a bad life and im not saying they will be bad mothers but the odds are stacked against them and their situation was 98% preventable (if they properly used birth control and condoms!)
Its not like i'm against having kids young, i'm 19. The difference between me and them is that i finished high school, im married, me and my husband live on our own and are financially stable and have BOTH agreed to start TTC. But of course i have PCOS and my body doesnt cooperate with a damn thing i want it to do!! Lucky me! And i really feel bad for being so judgemental because if it wasnt for my PCOS we would have probably been teen parents ourselves (although i think we would have still gotten married)! I wasnt on borth control and we never used condoms! Watching every other girl in my class have "oopsie" babies (and the fact that i was getting one period a year) is how i knew something had to be wrong with me! and there is. I feel horrible that i'm judging these girls but now that i know im having trouble TTC i kind of wish i would have been like them, even though i know that would have caused even bigger problems. Ughhhh.. Jealousy is an ugly confusing green monster!!! Ugh, this is more of a rant against myself i guess. Any body else share in my feelings??
