MinxyChick
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MummyW - Glad you've got some sleep. And if your stuck in hospital plenty of time to snooze if you can. I bet you must be getting bored to. What's the food like?
Just think everyday you've got those babies in your belly they are getting bigger & stronger. Your doing so well. You'd think after all we'd been through us IF ladies deserve easy pregnancies! I know it doesn't work that way. The finishing line is in sight, though its a tough slog to it.
2have4 - Sounds like it went well. My heart would have felt like it was exploding out of chest! I can see why you'd prefer a known donor, it would be a lot nicer for you all.
Ducktales - how are you?
Bundles - sorry I forgot to say before, sorry you've got to wait so long for your FET. Hopefully the rest from drugs will do your body good so its ready for FET.
Melbram - also forgot to say, I agree with your post on IMSI to me. It does seem a handful of places rate IMSI and the rest aren't sure. There's only been a few studies on its success rates and though it comes out similar to ICSI for those with multiple fails, this is not enough to put us through this again.
AFM: Can't remember if i said it in my last post but me & DH had a wonderful holiday. The weather was perfect, we were really busy going out & about in Washington and NYC. We didn't discuss ttc the whole time but I did have it at the back of my mind only in the fact I wanted to really think over the whole donor thing. Thinking it through away from everything else, seeing families, going to the world trade centre memorial & having a 75 minute tour by 2 survivors made me feel even clearer in my mind. I just feel life is too precious & short to do another cycle that no one can give me any idea of true success chance. I'm just not a gambler, time to move on & use donor and hopefully get a better result. Next weekend is the donor weekend in London so hopefully that will really finalise the decision for DH but he's pretty much there. Then we're back to the clinic 30 Oct to tell them & then it depends how long it takes to find a donor.
Can't remember if I said but we also told the inlaws about the donor thing before our holiday & they were fine with it. Basically it was up to us & they'd support whatever we chose. MIL pointed out the toll it was having on me should be a consideration. Very impressive reaction I thought.
Just think everyday you've got those babies in your belly they are getting bigger & stronger. Your doing so well. You'd think after all we'd been through us IF ladies deserve easy pregnancies! I know it doesn't work that way. The finishing line is in sight, though its a tough slog to it.
2have4 - Sounds like it went well. My heart would have felt like it was exploding out of chest! I can see why you'd prefer a known donor, it would be a lot nicer for you all.
Ducktales - how are you?
Bundles - sorry I forgot to say before, sorry you've got to wait so long for your FET. Hopefully the rest from drugs will do your body good so its ready for FET.
Melbram - also forgot to say, I agree with your post on IMSI to me. It does seem a handful of places rate IMSI and the rest aren't sure. There's only been a few studies on its success rates and though it comes out similar to ICSI for those with multiple fails, this is not enough to put us through this again.
AFM: Can't remember if i said it in my last post but me & DH had a wonderful holiday. The weather was perfect, we were really busy going out & about in Washington and NYC. We didn't discuss ttc the whole time but I did have it at the back of my mind only in the fact I wanted to really think over the whole donor thing. Thinking it through away from everything else, seeing families, going to the world trade centre memorial & having a 75 minute tour by 2 survivors made me feel even clearer in my mind. I just feel life is too precious & short to do another cycle that no one can give me any idea of true success chance. I'm just not a gambler, time to move on & use donor and hopefully get a better result. Next weekend is the donor weekend in London so hopefully that will really finalise the decision for DH but he's pretty much there. Then we're back to the clinic 30 Oct to tell them & then it depends how long it takes to find a donor.
Can't remember if I said but we also told the inlaws about the donor thing before our holiday & they were fine with it. Basically it was up to us & they'd support whatever we chose. MIL pointed out the toll it was having on me should be a consideration. Very impressive reaction I thought.
they both seem to be growing well and fx the smaller lil baby will progress well once born. sometimes they say the smaller baby come on better
just want my body back now. Brother in Law turned up last night to annouce he and SIL are expecting again. She is 12 weeks so no wonder why we didnt hear anything from them when my FET didnt go to plan few weeks back think they both felt really bad. They have lil Edith who is 15 months and now baby no2 which was unplanned. Its difficult but other people's life doesnt stop because we are struggling. I know I will have my bundle of joy one day
not long now hang in there
There is so much to catch up on which I'll try and do 
