waiting for ivf and struggling!

[Pinkie 33]

Wonderful stuff! xxx

(dont know why I used that smilie, it made me giggle!)

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Haha it's cute and nearly Easter x

 

[Ducktales]

7- fab news
Glad the injection was bearable
Xxx

 

[bundlesofjoy]

7
That is great I am so happy for you, roll on Tuesday.xxx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Thank you hope I get more good news Sunday xx

How's everyone doing?

Getting easier duck tales? X

 

[Ducktales]

Thank you hope I get more good news Sunday xx

How's everyone doing?

Getting easier duck tales? X

I'm sure it will be good news
Yes injection was much easier today and felt better. Tmi but the drugs make my stomach quite upset like everything I eat is just going through me- sorry tmi
Xxx

 

[2have4kids]

Mummy, does the specialist decide to go 3,4 or 5 days incubation or how does that work? They say the less time the better because the womb is the best place to grow but I had a friend who did 4 tries at 3 days and it only worked on the 5th try for 5 day incubation. How does one decide this?
Ducktales, I'm sorry you're having a bout with the runs. Rice maybe? Ug.

AFM, just waiting to test Sunday, skiing tomorrow, dentist today, lost 2 more pounds yesterday...just keep on keeping on!

 

[mummy.wannabe]

There are pros and cons for both.
They might do better in the body but if you wait until day 5 they can see which 1s have gone to blastocysts and they are the eggs that take the most because they are the best quality.
My hospital like to do day 5 only unless they are rubbish then they will just risk it and do day 3.
Eggs that are brilliant quality at day 3 can all of a sudden change and be rubbish, we're as the ones that don't seem to be doing much can change and be the best ones.
That's why they wait because the are guaranteed to pick the best eggs for the best chance to conceive.

Well done on more weight success!!
Is it wise to go skiing? I'd be terrified I'd fall x

Ohh duck tales your not having a great time. Can you try just dry foods. Toast, rice, plain stuff, you'd have to google it.
I feel for you.
Nothing's tmi, don't worry we all have to go through it x

 

[Melbram]

Great news mummy x hope you get a good report tomorrow and they are all dividing nicely x

Ducktales: sorry to hear your not having great side effects

2have4kids: everything crossed for tomorrow! x

Hi to everyone else...FX we will be celebrating mothers day as mothers this time next year xxx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

2 have 4 kids best of luck for tomorrow! Let us know.

Yes let's hope we can all celebrate Mother's Day next year x

 

[2have4kids]

I'm up late, it's 1:50am!! We didn't go skiing, had a small tiff in the car, he didn't bring my pants and mitts and he was in charge of that stuff. It's not like he didn't remember, he said oh they are sitting on the floor under the ski bag (that he'd dumped to pack for the cabin last weekend). So in repacking it he took my goggles, helmet and all of his stuff and left my pants and mitts right next to it on the floor. On our way home i asked if we could just have a ski bag and I could give him another duffel for the cabin and he said I should just pack my own ski bag?? For 2 years now we have a routine, I make breaky, he showers and gets the skis/bag into car, we eat, I get dressed and we go. I just don't get why he was so arrogant about it and went with knowing my pants were left behind. I always ask him if he's got all my stuff too, can't be too careful, I just trusted this time everything was the same, we got gas and then 5 minutes out I asked him and he said no. Then no apology, then I should just get my own bag. I fed the cats, made our lunches, I can't ask him to put the ski bag + skis in? I asked him what are we going to do when we have kids? I have to care for them too and pack all of their things and mine while he puts his skis in? So ridiculous. He has issues.

I don't think I'm preggers, my boobs aren't sore and that's usually the strongest sign. I'll test again tomorrow, will know for sure then it's cdc29 of 32/33.

 

[Pinkie 33]

Sorry you've had such a rubbish day. Sometimes I think men just arent very good at admitting they made a mistake and saying sorry. Hope you have made up. Sending you lots of luck for your test, I hope you are wrong!

x

 

[2have4kids]

Sorry you've had such a rubbish day. Sometimes I think men just arent very good at admitting they made a mistake and saying sorry. Hope you have made up. Sending you lots of luck for your test, I hope you are wrong!

x

Thanks Pinkie, actually I awoke to an empty house this morning, he snuck out and when I called to ask where he was he said almost at Sunshine ski resort. I emailed that I just want someone who cares for me and shows some compassion when it's needed and told him that this def isn't going to help me trust him.

Men are shitheads sometimes! I couldn't go skiing today as I have to pick my folks up from the airport.

I tested and as i thought, no go. There's nothing there and it's cd29. That's OK, I have plan B which is IVF and I wanted to try IVF anyway in hopes of getting some frosties.
I'll go work out today and blow off some steam. Thanks for listening you guys, I'm so grateful to have you ladies in my life

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Ohh 2have4kids we all have days when we fight with the hubby's. none of them think because they were used to there mothers doing it.
If I have a boy I vow to teach him to cook, do all the things we do in life to make him a better person when there older.
I employ these young lads at work and they haven't a clue about a lot of things. It frustrates the hell out of me!
They do not a lot because they know they can get away with it.
They do not think!
My hubby is very caring etc but he has to have things spelled out to him.
I talk to the ladies at work and that seems to be the general issues all there partners have.
Don't rule yourself out just yet, I did not get boob pain at all. I had heartburn in the evenings and lots of wind.
Everyone is different.
I hope you burned off a bit of steam.
Are you quite close to the mountains to ski then? And you go regularly. My hubby would love that. He wants me to go, as he has always gone to France with his family since he was young and then just him and his dad.

It was so busy today at work. Mother's Day always is and wasn't feeling my best today x

Embryologist rang this morning and all 7 eggs are still alive and doing well. They are all 6 and 7 cells. Very happy with that and having transfer on Tuesday x

 

[2have4kids]

WHOLLY moly, 6-7 6/7 cell eggs - I'm jumping up and down for you mummy!!! YEAY!
I LOVE what you said about teaching your future boy to be a good man, a man who knows how to cook, show compassion, a man who thinks is really the kind we need in this world. My guy's mom was a borderline shcizophrenic and it's left an impact on him. He has a hard time apologising or connecting really emotionally with people. I love him and know he loves & cares for me but there are moments I know he's got problems. I forgive and forget - it's not worth it. Eye on the prize, to have a little boy of my own and teach him to apologise, teach him to use his heart to it's max capacity, to give him tasks like cleaning the washroom, vacuuming and washing the dishes. There are ways to teach these valuable skills and it will happen! lol

I'm really looking forward to entering my new cycle, getting on the pill on CD5 (I've already filled the prescription), doing the stims and getting some twins sorted out Oh yes, I can dream.

 

[mummy.wannabe]

At least you know why your partners that way. It would be even more frustrating if he was like that for no reason or you just didn't know.
If me and hubby argue which isn't very much but on the occasions when we were younger, he would not say a thing!!! And I would talk and talk and get no reaction from him and that's truely frustrating for me. I like someone to have there opinion and say but he just doesn't know what to say. That's his mother! Can talk the hind legs off a donkey, so he never got a say when he was younger.
Your also going through a hard journey and it makes us snappy and not as much Patient as usual. So you pick up on the little things that annoy your more, if your anything like me anyway x

Yes I feel more positive this time about it all, having responded well, a good few eggs, good quality eggs and doing the progesterone injections which are more effective. I just generally feel better about this cycle and suppose I know what I was doing x

I have the twin dream! Hope it comes true.
Hubby and I would be ecstatic x

 

[2have4kids]

I'm going to ask about the injections, I'd much prefer them to the messy supps. Yes I can relate to everything you said above as we'll as having less patience with his games. I know the big picture is when I'm stressed or unhappy to work at something that makes me feel better ASAP like working out, taking a walk, even taking the cats outside was great yesterday-it was so sunny!

Fx for you on Tuesday!!!

How's everyone else? Melbram you're starting tomorrow. Pinkie, Minxy, bundles, ducktales and everyone else that I've missed?

 

[Melbram]

2have4kids: Sorry you didnt end up getting to ski. I think if my OH just upped and left on test day I would wallop him even more so after the day before

Sorry you didnt get your BFP but great that you have your plan B and throwing yourself into it - everything crossed for you.

Mummywannabe: embies are doing fab and transfer at Blast stage again

afm: final day of no injections for a while - so so hope I get a BFP this time

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Good luck melbram!!! It's all go from here. Hopefully you'll respond beautifully and it all goes to plan xxx
Let us know?
Who else was starting tomorrow too?
Pinkie? X

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Minxy
Ducktales how you getting on?
Better I hope.
Is hubby away? X