Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D
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Nina83
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Blue, what did they say after you didn't ovulate? Did they just shrug it off as a one time thing? How odd and frustrating.
How is everyone this week? I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend!
We had a niece's birthday, geez, for a 5 year old it was a bit much! They are so materialistic, she didn't even look at her presents, just kind of rolled her eyes after opening each one.
Nausea is bad this morning, I think I might go home early today, if I get most of my work finished and my boss comes in.
I am so freakin tired of my sister sending me pictures of her kids, sending me voice messages with them gurgling and talking. No, it is not cute, it never was. Even worse, when she send me a picture of her new kid wearing something I knit for her previous daughter and saying- It's too small, how about a new bigger version?
Suck it and screw you. Seriously. SERIOUSLY?!
I am so embarrassed to say, but I didn't even get one birthday present his year, not from anyone except work- and that's because they were so traumatized by forgetting it last year. Not even from DH, no flowers even. What a sucky year. Obviously I did something to deserve zero attention whatsoever.
I'm just in a foul mood. I know I told DH I don't want anything for valentines day, but he better get me something.
How is everyone this week? I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend!
We had a niece's birthday, geez, for a 5 year old it was a bit much! They are so materialistic, she didn't even look at her presents, just kind of rolled her eyes after opening each one.
Nausea is bad this morning, I think I might go home early today, if I get most of my work finished and my boss comes in.
I am so freakin tired of my sister sending me pictures of her kids, sending me voice messages with them gurgling and talking. No, it is not cute, it never was. Even worse, when she send me a picture of her new kid wearing something I knit for her previous daughter and saying- It's too small, how about a new bigger version?
Suck it and screw you. Seriously. SERIOUSLY?!
I am so embarrassed to say, but I didn't even get one birthday present his year, not from anyone except work- and that's because they were so traumatized by forgetting it last year. Not even from DH, no flowers even. What a sucky year. Obviously I did something to deserve zero attention whatsoever.
I'm just in a foul mood. I know I told DH I don't want anything for valentines day, but he better get me something.
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Hi Nina.
sorry u are feeling so bad. I'm glad u can vent here. I feel the same about my nieces & nephews. I love them to bits but it hurts being all happy for them when I want a child so much. My brothers little boy is one and his wife keeps saying how he is growing up too fast and she wants her baby back! Seriously, he is only one and still tiny and I feel like saying that I want my babies back!
Sorry u didn't get any birthday presents. U don't understand why no body bought you anything. Men definitely take it literally when u say u don't want anything. U may need to drop some hints for valentines. My dh would be the same xxx
sorry u are feeling so bad. I'm glad u can vent here. I feel the same about my nieces & nephews. I love them to bits but it hurts being all happy for them when I want a child so much. My brothers little boy is one and his wife keeps saying how he is growing up too fast and she wants her baby back! Seriously, he is only one and still tiny and I feel like saying that I want my babies back!
Sorry u didn't get any birthday presents. U don't understand why no body bought you anything. Men definitely take it literally when u say u don't want anything. U may need to drop some hints for valentines. My dh would be the same xxx
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They shrugged the one time off saying that its a one off.
Nine - im sorry your family are doosh bags sometimes. I get the baby thing my dad and step mom keep sending me pictures and voice messages of her every doing. Also the knitted stuff my gran made for my boys (white) where given to her so I see the buttons I chose and the cardies I seen on my sister instead of on my sons. And as for your birthday! Get them sorted. Dont get anything for hubbie for his birthday and see how he likes it. Or get him something awsome and say 'wish I had someone amazing like me to buy me presents!'
Lol. Ive never had a bunch of flowers from Dons... always drop hints when someone buys them for other people.... still awaiting them haha xxx
Nine - im sorry your family are doosh bags sometimes. I get the baby thing my dad and step mom keep sending me pictures and voice messages of her every doing. Also the knitted stuff my gran made for my boys (white) where given to her so I see the buttons I chose and the cardies I seen on my sister instead of on my sons. And as for your birthday! Get them sorted. Dont get anything for hubbie for his birthday and see how he likes it. Or get him something awsome and say 'wish I had someone amazing like me to buy me presents!'
Lol. Ive never had a bunch of flowers from Dons... always drop hints when someone buys them for other people.... still awaiting them haha xxx
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I have to instruct my sister to tell my husband or I would get nothing
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Ugh, I just need to vent!
I just went to buy the vacuum, there was a deal on it, a really good one. The whole day the site was open at work, but I didn't want to go through with it there.
So just now I go to check out- and the deal is off! Just like that! An hour ago it was still on. I am so pissed. DH comes and is like, uh, sorry like an ass it just annoyed me so much. If it was something he wanted I'd never hear the end of it. So I told him I want it anyways and he says, wait, the deal might come back. Right, lets wait forever to see.
He just annoys the hell out of me, I don't know why I'm so pissed at him, it's just everything he does right now rubs me the wrong way.
Dammit. I wanted that vacuum.
I just went to buy the vacuum, there was a deal on it, a really good one. The whole day the site was open at work, but I didn't want to go through with it there.
So just now I go to check out- and the deal is off! Just like that! An hour ago it was still on. I am so pissed. DH comes and is like, uh, sorry like an ass it just annoyed me so much. If it was something he wanted I'd never hear the end of it. So I told him I want it anyways and he says, wait, the deal might come back. Right, lets wait forever to see.
He just annoys the hell out of me, I don't know why I'm so pissed at him, it's just everything he does right now rubs me the wrong way.
Dammit. I wanted that vacuum.
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Aww hun, I think what u really need is a big hug. When I'm mad at dh I end up crying out of frustration want a cuddle. I find that everything that happens or goes wrong brings me back to being upset about losing my babies. Even if it's totally unrelated, I end up crying about my babies. Big hugs hun xxxxx
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MrsB, I think it's just out of frustration and exhaustion from thinking about it all the time. If I'm not thinking about getting pregnant, I'm thinking about how I should be cuddling my baby right now. Like I said before, I'm more sad about what I lost- I do believe I'll get pregnant someday, but I will never have my lost babies.
Hilslo, LL, how are you doing? Keep us updated!!!
Blue- what dpo do you think you are right now? Do you plan on waiting it out or testing?
I have no idea what's going on with me, we've been DTD every day now, I was so sure I'd get a +OPK yesterday, but nope, plus, a temp rise this morning. I wish I started temping from the beginning of the cycle to figure out what's going on, from now I'll be temping to make sure I do ovulate, sometime. Nausea still on and off, I caved and bought some anti-nausea pills. I'll take another OPK this afternoon, but with these high temps... Although I did toss and turn all night.
Last night we were DTD, and I told DH to save his guys for the morning, but in the middle I was just like... I am so tired of THINKING. So tired of planning and scheduling, and I really didn't want to DTD in the morning.
I'm starting to think I need a break from BNB, I love you all, but I don't know
Hilslo, LL, how are you doing? Keep us updated!!!
Blue- what dpo do you think you are right now? Do you plan on waiting it out or testing?
I have no idea what's going on with me, we've been DTD every day now, I was so sure I'd get a +OPK yesterday, but nope, plus, a temp rise this morning. I wish I started temping from the beginning of the cycle to figure out what's going on, from now I'll be temping to make sure I do ovulate, sometime. Nausea still on and off, I caved and bought some anti-nausea pills. I'll take another OPK this afternoon, but with these high temps... Although I did toss and turn all night.
Last night we were DTD, and I told DH to save his guys for the morning, but in the middle I was just like... I am so tired of THINKING. So tired of planning and scheduling, and I really didn't want to DTD in the morning.
I'm starting to think I need a break from BNB, I love you all, but I don't know
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Hi Nina all going ok I hope. Yesterday I was 7w5d the day that my first babies heart bear stopped so I was thinking about it lots. Today I woke up with no sickness which has worried me I may pay for a private scan this weekend.
Don't go Nina we will miss u!
Don't go Nina we will miss u!
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The milestones are hard to get through
Don't worry about feeling no sickness- it comes and goes.
Private scans can be reassuring, but I just know this is your rainbow.
I saw a quote the other day I want to share- "the pheonix must first burn to emerge"
xxxx
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I feel horrible complaining all the time though!
I'm cd12, which is right on track, but my temps are crazy.
I hope DTD twice yesterday didn't f**k things up
DH told me yesterday that sometimes he has a hard time believing I love him. That just broke my heart. I know I have a short fuse, and I can't stand the thought of him thinking I don't love him, of course I do, why else would I get mad at him? I feel so horrible for making him feel that way.
I'm cd12, which is right on track, but my temps are crazy.
I hope DTD twice yesterday didn't f**k things up
DH told me yesterday that sometimes he has a hard time believing I love him. That just broke my heart. I know I have a short fuse, and I can't stand the thought of him thinking I don't love him, of course I do, why else would I get mad at him? I feel so horrible for making him feel that way.
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I always find that my temps go up after bding and also if I have a rubbish night sleep they go haywire. Id put it down to that. You might get another dip tomorrow.
You dont moan all the time. We all have our moments and I totally understand that you are sick of waiting and trying and nothing is happening. Thats exactly how I feel!! This is my 12 cycle trying... I really though id have another baby in my arms by now and here I am still trying. But giving up isnt going to get me pregnant. So I just keep trying different things. Like next month I have got royal jelly to try. (I already plan for next month because I know that this month is going to be the same as every other month of
... so I say moan away! If thats what gets you through each month then do it. As long as you still hold some positivity in there. Because a wee button need a glimpse of hope to grab on onto and plan in. So I hold onto hope ... even just a bit.
Hubbies can be sensitive hehe. He knows you love him really hes just craving more attention and is probably feeling down about the whole process too! Bug hugs to you both!
what cycke is this your on? Xxx
You dont moan all the time. We all have our moments and I totally understand that you are sick of waiting and trying and nothing is happening. Thats exactly how I feel!! This is my 12 cycle trying... I really though id have another baby in my arms by now and here I am still trying. But giving up isnt going to get me pregnant. So I just keep trying different things. Like next month I have got royal jelly to try. (I already plan for next month because I know that this month is going to be the same as every other month of
... so I say moan away! If thats what gets you through each month then do it. As long as you still hold some positivity in there. Because a wee button need a glimpse of hope to grab on onto and plan in. So I hold onto hope ... even just a bit. Hubbies can be sensitive hehe. He knows you love him really hes just craving more attention and is probably feeling down about the whole process too! Bug hugs to you both!
what cycke is this your on? Xxx
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This has just got to be our year! Nina I've thought about taking a break from here too but im too obsessed lol. I don't want you to go. Xxx
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