got a very positive this morning...ovulating hopefully tomorrow, 5 days late! squeezed in one more dtd session which was a bit of a chore...we're once a month kinda people and just exhausted from a week of ttc sex (mostly for nothing as I didn't ovulate when expected)! haha! just hoping to see a nice rise in temps now and I'll be happy to know I'm working! lol!
Hi ladies, I've been searching through this site to find a thread where I can share my ovulation frustration !! Haha. This is only our 3rd month ttc and the last couple cycles since I got off the bcp have been around 32 days. Right now I am on CD 20 and still no positive opk !!!! I really thought I would have one by now.. The last two months we had stopped trying by this late because I thought I had od'ed before now..
Is anyone else driving themselves crazy with opk's ?? Haha. & I have been using the clear blue digital because I thought it would be easier to read but now I'm wishing I had a line to look at !! (Actually when you do take the test out of the digital case, there is a control line there but the box says not to pay attention to these lines.. Do you ladies have any experience with these test?)
I started testing at CD12 so I definitely don't think I missed it.. If you test everyday around the same time is it possible you could have missed it?
Also, this may be a stupid question but I need to ask it. Can you have a period if you don't ovulate ? Because to me it makes sense that you wouldn't have one with ovulation but again I'm not 100% sure.
We have been bd'ing around every second day just to be safe, so I'm hoping we still have a chance this month !!!
Thanks for reading ladies, any input is greatly appreciated
Baby dust to all !!!!
Hey there Kristeeny,
Thanks so much ! You have some really great info here.
Tested today again and still nothing ! How long are your cycles usually ? & How long have you been ttc ?
& Yes, I am starting to really dislike this whole digital thing because I miss having the lines to look at and judge and keep track from day to day ! I think next cycle I may switch back. Do you order yours online ? I notice a lot of pictures people have are just the single strips. (& honestly, some of the brand name tests can run expensive after a while).. I have only been testing once a day (around 5;30 pm), so I am trying to convince myself maybe I did just miss my surge. We have still been bd'ing often just in case !!
Have you noticed that your lines do get darker before your positive ? Some ladies have said their's fades out and then bam, a positive.
I do find that it is stressful using these ! I don't want to scare away my o, haha.
& I did in fact read up upon the anovulatory cycle last night.. That is quite annoying.. Haha.
Thanks so much for all your great help ! Hopefully we get our o soon and then a bfp
Lots of baby dust to you all !
Hello ladies, I'm think I got a positive opk today. I have long cycles but wasnt expecting a + till weekend. Im going mental here trying to post my picture on here to see what you ladies think but my stupid phone wont let me. Is it possible I could email my pictures to one of you lovely ladies to put it on here so I can see whay you think. Hope you dont mind me asking thank you xx.