Waiting to start IVF in January anyone else?

[MoBaby]

Aurora that's great!!

I'm out this time. My cycle didn't work. Test has faded to negative. I have 5 frosties and will ask tomorrow about jumping straight into a Fet cycle. I will transfer 2 because single transfers don't work for me.

 

[star25]

Aurora, yay great news!

Bumpsparkle, they didnt do a blood test so dont worry! I ways totook provera for 5 days then af would arrive 5 days later but yours might arrive sooner, it can arrive whilst taking it too, it does help to have someone at the same clinic

Mrs w, I felt like that after I finished and had to wait for fet, I felt like I was missing something and quite down, think I just wanted my transfer!

 

[star25]

So sorry mobaby, hope your doing ok considering, your right focus on the positive and the embies you have xx

 

[lizzie78]

Aurora that is brilliant news, I told you you would have awesome eggs!! Omsk I also thought it was some sort of saucy french egg detective!

Mrs w I think it's normal to feel anxious at all parts of this thing. Every time I move on a stage I feel great that I passed another hurdle and then start to panic again about the next thing lol. Do something that will help you unwind or at lest take your mind off things for s bit. I find I need to spend a lot more time alone through a cycle as it's exhausting trying to be 'on' and 'ok' for everyone else's benefit even poor Dh. Hope you settle soon.

Jaybo, t shirt is a great idea, I'll buy two off you (one to wash and one to wear!). What I find astonishing is peoples opinions on Ivf when they have never done it or any research into it. They seem to either assume it works first time or that it's a complete waste of money and I should just opt for being childless. GRr. We had to go private so I feel your pain, it is far from cheap. We have to have icsi so it's 6.5k before drugs that said by going private I got to shop around a bit more and be comfortable with the clinic we chose so there are some plus points and you don't have to wait long either.

Bump, cannot believe your dratted AF! Doing a mental little af dance for you and hoping the stupid thing shows up soon?

CMo, how many days past transfer are you?
ILT hope you are doing ok?
Star, how are you chicken?
Bmw, if you are stil rewarding hope you are ok?
Amoreamy, how are things with you?
Comfy, not sure if you are still reading ?
Anyone else that I've missed, sorry it's so hard to keep up!

Afm, I'm 4 days past 3 dt today, lots of cramps going on which I'm assuming is the progesterone so I'm trying not to panic that I have an evil uterus which is trying to eject Minnie and mo lol. I don't remember noticing this so much last time but maybe it's because I didn't have an ec this time so I notice the pains more. Hey ho, hoping that they are both hatchlings and picking their spots to snuggle into now. Sunday dinner is cooking and I'm going to pop into town to pick up a few bits the come home and hopefully chill out for the afternoon.

Xxx

 

[lizzie78]

Mo, I'm so sorry we must have been typing at the same time. So sorry to hear that. I know my clinic make you wait 3 bleeds before attempting a FET but everywhere is probably different. I guess it's more about your body and mind having chance to get back to normal before going again so if you feel ready sooner hopefully they can accommodate you with that. Sending you lots of useless virtual hugs xxx

 

[FirstTry]

Lizzie: cramping is a good sign right about now!!!

Mo: I'm so sorry to hear this. But happy that you have so many frosties. Good luck for a short wait between transfers.

 

[Jaybo]

Mo - so sorry I'm pleased you have your 5 frosties. Hope you can start again soon xx

Lizzy - I'm sure the cramping is just minnie and mo setting up home! Do you know when you might test? With all the outragous things people say about infertility and ivf I think we could have enough t-shirt slogans to keep us in business for some time!

Star, First, everyone else Hi :wave:

 

[lizzie78]

Jaybo, I'm usually a serial tester but at the moment I'm in a happy little bubble and don't want to come out. I'll see how I feel towards the end of next week as normally I like to be let down gradually rather than in a big bam on otd. X

 

[Jaybo]

Being completely test shy, I know that feeling well! I was actually quite glad AF started rather than having that big bam of a BFN while I still had hope. Obviously would have prefered a BFP though! I've got everything crossed for minnie & mo xx

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Beth, hope everything is alright.

Aurora, I thought that was a detective name off a tv show over there. Congrats on making it to blastie stage!! Such awesome news .

Cmo, I think it's only Lizzie and you for PUPO and Aurora is following in a couple of days . My test on day 5 was pretty light. The line was thin but it was there. how many DPO are you now?

Mo, I just woke up and very much in shock to hear the result! what is the possibility of little blastie to be a late implanter? When is OTD?

Jaybo, does your family know that you are going through IVF? Could they help a bit? Are you going to get your AMH retested?

Lizzie, I'm doing ok so far. Still waiting patiently for my scan in 1 and 1/2 week. Trying to busy ourselves with settling the house that's sold and buying a new one. So we are keeping ourselves pretty busy with meetings with realtors and mortgage people . Your symptom sounds good so far!

Sorry if I missed anyone else. I did miss a whole page and had to edit my post...

 

[MoBaby]

I can't really wait because I need to transfer by April to deliver this year. If not then I'll have to wait until summer or fall. I have a high deductible so I can't really afford it any other time.

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Mo, I hope you can start another FET soon. Stupid deductible is a killer everytime! hope you are ok

 

[CMo]

I wish I was pupo but still on stims. Day 4 today so back for scan on tues.

Aurora that's amazing news!! Sorry your having to wait but great news your embies are doing well.

Mo so sorry about FET. Hope you don't have to wait too long to go again. What are deductables?

 

[Comfycushions]

Beth, really hope it's not an ectopic and everything is ok.

Mo, so sorry. It's good you've got frosties and are looking positively to the future.

Aurora great news about going to blast!!

Sorry short message in terms of personal replies.

Been feeling a bit dejected. Sad I'm getting to end of tww and having to face up to reality of whether this has worked and deciding what to do next. I don't feel very hopeful.

I want one of those t-shirts too Jaybo!

I'm also disappointed that there is no egg detective!

 

[MoBaby]

Comfy did you test yet?

Cmo deductibles are in us where the member has to pay a certain amount of ther medical expenses before coverage. Ours is like $4000 for family (we pay $2500 of $4k and dH work pays the rest) but if we get pg to late this year and deliver early next year we will be responsible for $5000 out of pocket. We can't afford that

 

[Jaybo]

Cmo - sorry I thought you were pupo too for a sec there. Not long to go now though.

Comfy - sorry you're feeling a bit down hope you get some wonderful news at the end of your TWW. When's your otd again?

ILT - glad you're doing ok. Yes it's only my parents we've told about our treatment really. My Dad's already offered to pay for another round, but I feel so bad taking money from them as I know he's been working hard towards retirement and I feel like I'd be spending his pension! we've got some savings so we may be able to have one last go without too much help. I really hope so because I don't feel ready to throw in the towel yet

Mo - I hope you can fit in your cycle in time.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Hi ladies,

Gosh mo I'm so sorry, I was so certain that was your bfp. It's great you have frosties though so onwards to next time, I hope that will be your time. I had no idea about these deductibles, sounds stressful! Good old nhs!

Comfy sorry to hear you are feeling down, I'm sure it's only natural towards the end of the tww. I know I will be feeling very anxious and emotional. I'm praying its a happy result for you.

Cmo how are you feeling on the stims? I'm day 2 today. Scan on weds.

Bump, ill take some of the t shirts too!!

Had a nice day today my dad come to visit and its been a lovely day which has taken my mind off things a bit.

He anyone heard of taking wheatgrass shots for egg quality? I'm always torn between wanting to try things that might help, or interfering with nature!! I'm having protein, lots of fruit and veg, drinking plenty of water. Just want to do all I can to help!

 

[star25]

havent heard of that Mrs w, ota true we do all we can in the hope ornaments bfp!

Good luck for all the scans this week, looks like we got me tomoro, cmo tues and mrs w weds

Lizzie, bet they're burying in deep as we type!

 

[lizzie78]

Star are they Cust checking your lining is thickening up tomorrow?? Good luck x

 

[Aurora CHK]

It's so unfair that the NHS is still such a postcode lottery and we all have to spend so much on treatment. IVF sucks! I might get that on a t-shirt and wear it to family occasions to deter anyone thinking of asking us when we going to have a baby!