Waiting to start IVF in January anyone else?

[MoBaby]

I was 9dp5dt so 14dpo with beta of 30 And I will 12dp5dt so 17dpo thursday. No more FRER. I dont want to spend the money. I did do an IC and it hasnt changed.

 

[star25]

Bumpsparkle and Mrs w, we always park just up the rd, as your driving towards hospital theres spaces on the left where you can park free for an hr and theres always space there, we started parking there due to the nightmare parking and ridiculously small parking spaces! First time dh was flay against the wall trying to get out lol, was funny but thst are stupid!

 

[star25]

Staying optimistic for you mo, hope all will be ok xx

Mrs w and bump, good luck with scans today!

 

[Aurora CHK]

Mo - if AF hasn't arrived, isn't that likely to mean pregnancy? Or are you more thinking you are pregnant at this stage but just worried that it may not be viable/progressing? Sending you so much love xxx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Mo if it helps, my dd was a natural pregnancy but I had a bleed on 11dpo which I assumed was af and bfn on 13dpo, faint bfp 14 dpo so maybe your embie just took it's time to implant or your levels are slow. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

Good luck bump! Yep parking is ridiculous, I oark over the road at the general hospital as you can pay after and the spaces are bigger.

Had my scan. 6 follicles seen, 2 were tiny 6mm, 2 were medium and 2 were leading follicles at 10mm. She said Friday's scan will tell us more on which ones plateau, which grow etc. so nerves over for today, I have responded and just need to pray I keep doing so xx

 

[Comfycushions]

Some blood when I wiped this morning and bfn.

 

[star25]

Mrs w, good news happy nerves are over! X

Comfy, so sorry lovely xxx

 

[MoBaby]

Comfy so sorry!

Aurora not doubting I'm pregnant. I just know it's not viable I feel crampy this morning.

 

[amoreamy]

Mo and Comfy I'm thinking of you both xx

 

[lizzie78]

Mrs W thats great news on the follies - grow follies grow!!

Mo - this must be so hard for you to cope with.

Comfy, I'm so sorry hunni, i wish we knew when it was going to be our turn i think it would make the bfns so much easier to cope with

xxx

 

[FirstTry]

So sorry Comfy

Mo: if the Dr says there's a chance , then he would know best. Fingers crossed!

Do you have to pay for transfers? If this bean doesn't stick, I'm wondering if PGD is a good option for you. My transfers are $4k and PGD is $4k, so for me, PGD is worth it if it saves me even one extra transfer. Not to mention saved time and heartbreak. Just a thought.

 

[MoBaby]

Transfer is $3500. Pgd is $5000. Doesn't save a transfer. Pgd doesn't insure anything except you have a genetically normal embryo. Doesn't mean it will stick or you won't miscarry. I can't afford to pay for pgd and ivf cycle and fets. Re didn't recommend it either as it increases my chancars 5-10%. Also both of my previous miscarriages were genetically normal embryos with no reason for miscarriage.

Wanted to add: In your case first pgd is useful because you have a known issue. Me and dh have both been through extensive genetic and chromosomal workup. We both have 100% normal chromosomes, no translocations, no genetic conditions. So pgd isn't really useful for us.

 

[beneathmywing]

Mrsw -- glad your scan went well! Hope you see great progress at the next one

Comfy -- im so so sorry, sweety

Mo -- thinking of you! Sorry you are going through this.



AFM: I am on my way to my scan and super nervous. Its not like its something I haven't done before, but I guess im nervous since I am cycling with a new doctor!!

 

[star25]

Good luck beneath! X

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Comfy, I am so sorry about the BFN .

Cmo, regarding follicles and stims. I think you are responding well to the meds. According to what I've read only, follicle grows between 1-2mm/day during stim session. After 5-7 days of stimming, your RE should be able to see what your average is. Plus, changing your meds doesn't only depend on the size of your follicles. It is also depend on your E2 level. I think it's quite normal to be on 12 days of stims. At least I was scheduled for 12 days .

Aurora, Yaay you are PUPO!!! Congrats. The full bladder while waiting was pretty painful. Mine was about 1 and 1/2 hours late also. The nurse kept asking me if I needed to use the restroom but I could only pee a bit and not much lol. But it worked out in the end . So happy for you. FX both are sticky embies!

BMW and Bumps, finally AF!!

Mo, hopefully the little one is super sticky. I know you are not too hopeful but you never know .

First! How are you doing? Hanging in there? Not long now right?

Mrs W and Amor, hopefully the follicles are growing nicely with plenty of little eggies waiting inside .

Star, when is transfer again?

Jaybo and Libby, hope you are doing well .

Lizzie, how are you?

BMW, don't be nervous. You changed RE for a reason! You've got this!!!

 

[star25]

Hi ilt, next scan is tues, if all ok transfer will be the following tues so 3rd march, so nervous fpr Tuesday's scan! How are you feeling? X

 

[Aurora CHK]

Hi all.

Mo, I understand now - thank you. So sorry it's not working out, you must feel in limbo and I know you are against the clock re deductibles too. Fx you get to live forward one way or another really soon.

Comfy; I'm so so sorry honeybee. I know words can't help right now. Hope you're getting lots of cuddles.

 

[Aurora CHK]

BMW, how did it go?

Mrs W; yay for follies!

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Star, oh wow...is it me? or does it takes longer to prep things for frozen transfer? I am doing ok . Just trying to be patient for our next scan and trying not to worry! I don't think we can stop worrying starting when we decide to expand our family huh . So on the scan, are they just looking at the uterus to make sure it's nice and thick?

 

[beneathmywing]

Quick update, running into work. All is well! Just need bloodwork back and then I can start stims tomorrow night!!