Wannabe Watermelons- 4 BFP's Come Join Us x

[bonjo808]

Well the arrived this morning...hope she moves out quickly!

 

[abstersmum]

sorry hun hope she goes quick too my af is due in a weeks time but havnt tried much this month

 

[abstersmum]

how are we all doing this rainy cold bank holiday i love 4 day weeks shame its back to work tomorrow

 

[bonjo808]

ooo a 4 day week would be nice! No holiday for us today

Faerie - how are you hun...how was your night out?

 

[abstersmum]

had some cramps today so i guess im out this month roll on next cycle

 

[mumanddad]

hello ladies how are you all?

 

[faerieprozac]

Well, I eventually came on on saturday morning. Devastated, I've never been late before and this got to aout CD30.

Didn't drink much on the friday but had AF cramps so kinda knew it wasn't my month.

OH is gutted also. It was my sisters 17th birthday party and she had a friend there who is pregnant, and she was smoking and drinking all night, I over heard her say to someone "well I have to drink more now cause i'm drinking for two". I was rather drunk and had to hide in a bedroom with my OH to cry for a little. Then I took her to one side and explained that I'm trying, and how alcohol and smoking will affect her baby. I wasn't horrible and we've known each other for years so I was advising her to talk to her mum. I don't thik anything I said will change her attitude but I put my part in and I hope she realises what she is doing. She's 7 weeks.

Well, new month for me. I'm now utterly convinced it will never happen, because OH has been smoking the green stuff for 12 years now. I will continue to try but I am no longer getting my hops up.

Hope you're all well ladies. xx

 

[bonjo808]

for you faerie.

I'm glad you had a talk with your friend. Hopefully she'll take your advice and come around and realize the effect she's having on her child.

I know how you feel hun. My DH smokes the green stuff to and I absolutely hate it!!! Everytime we try to talk about it, it just causes a major argument!! He,of course, thinks it has no effect on him or his swimmers and he doesn't want to listen to me when I try to tell him the facts. I had a dr. visit in March and I told her about his smoking and she suggested that he needs to stop at least until we get preggo...Even after I told him what the doctor, herself said, he didn't listen. Only now has he started to cut back and I think that's only because he's seeing how miserable I am every month when AF shows up. So hang in there, at least we have each other

 

[faerieprozac]

My OH tried quitting but failed because all our friends smoke and socialise at my flat Admittedly I smoked a little, and I smoke when AF comes. He will never quit and I will never get a baby

 

[abstersmum]

i teach drugs education dont get me started on the affects of that its not as innocent as people think no af yet but its a little early some more cramps today so she is on her way hope you can make your oh see sense soon

 

[bonjo808]

abster feel free to send me as much info as possible...the scary kind of info too that I can show my DH so he'll stop!

 

[faerieprozac]

Same I'd like more info. OH won't believe t'net

 

[lissaloo]

hi girls havn't been on for ages had a bit of a break !!! im back and rearing to go

 

[bonjo808]

Welcome back Lisa...

 

[abstersmum]

hi lisa hope your well how are you doing

 

[lissaloo]

hi girls im doing ok still no luck ,, just ordered some more pre-seed and b.t and chart going to make another app to see the doc 1 of my freinds has just had a baby another is due in a week and 2 more are pg so i was feeling a bit low for a while

how are you ladies ??

 

[bonjo808]

Yeah it seems that all of my DH's friends are having babies now and they've all been girls! Maybe we'll have a boy to even things out

AF is done for me but the weird thing is I've had much more watery CM since AF than I normally do? (sorry tmi) but normally its pretty dry for a few days then as OV gets closer it gets watery...I never get EWCM so I'm finding it weird that I have watery CM now??? I'm not doing any Opk, or temps or testing or anything this month so we'll just try to as much as possible and hope for the best.

 

[abstersmum]

af due tomorrow started getting cramps so i think this month is a wash out for me

 

[abstersmum]

hope you all had a fab weekend i watched avatar and taxied my mother and daughter around trying to take my mind off the fact that af will be here anytime soon speak soon xx

 

[abstersmum]

hi have you all left me to my self pitty