We are PUPOLICIOUS hotties! (19 BFPs so far!!)

[lauren10]

Hold the phone........ should I be checking for a negative pregnancy test?? i just had an image of testing next weekend, and it's positive, but maybe it was still showing positive all along from the MC??? I did get blood drawn today, but that takes days (at least) to find out about...so I better buy up some 'sticks on the way home.

Is it possible to get AF if you still test + for hcg on a pregnancy test?

If you want to erase all doubt, I would have checked for a negative hpt first. It is possible to have bleeding if you test is still +, it wouldn't really be AF, but your body trying to expel left over tissue.

but if you haven't had any bleeding for several weeks, then odds are any bleeding you have would be AF.

crisis averted. I got an hpt and it was very negative. until next week

 

[lauren10]

guys i have a rant..lol sorry

one of my best friends always complains to me about motherhood. how its so hard and your life is guna be so different and "just want and see i cant wait till you have to deal with it your guna go nuts"

like WHY THE HELL say things like this to me when you know i am desperate for a baby..

like why do people have to be so like unthoughtful and why cant they really think about what they say...

like most ppl around me have no idea how to make me feel better, they say horrible stupid things that get me even more sad...

like use your head, dont say dumb shit to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People really don't think. I'm sorry she's doing that to you. I was in a similar situation with my best friend...we had the same due date to the DAY!!! and she's still pregnant obviously. I had to tell her to knock off the negative comments about pregnancy. She didn't even realize she was doing it to me, she felt so bad and stopped abruptly!

 

[keepthefaithx]

aww..yea its so irritating uh..im more sad too bc of my bfn, and i have one of my best friends showers on sunday...like i wanna curl in a ball so dreading it..



lauren your daughter is soo freaking cute!

 

[NewbieLisette]

Uuuggg Lauren that must be incredibly hard but I'm glad ur bff stopped right away! Sometimes people just don't even realize.

Keepthefaith I seriously feel for ya! My bff used to do the exact same thing (she has an autistic 5year old & a 3year old)! Since I had my mc though she's been amazing! No more rants about her own crap & even has been able to empathise with my pain better than anyone! The best thing she had said a few weeks ago was "its ok to be just mad & wanna tell everyone, shut the hell up!!! I was happy too 3weeks ago!!" Funny enough just today she was saying how people just need to learn to not say dumb shit that makes it worse!!! Like say NOTHING people!!! Sorry ur dealing with this hun

 

[keepthefaithx]

thanks newbie..

sometimes i wanna just like crawl into a ball and hide lol

its so hard for someone to relate tho

until you lose a child you will never understand. and i guess not know when not to say things and what u shudnt say-

xoxox

 

[NewbieLisette]

I hear ya girl! I really think people just try to distract or talk about whatever as though we'll forget or something! I had to tell my own mother the other day "mom please you have to stop talking and rambling about other people's stuff...i truely don't care or have the energy for it right now and please don't think this is helping me any"!!!!!!

There are still some really tough days and moments but at least we've got eachother to relate to right Now let's think of a worthy PUPO topic for tmmr that Jessy would be proud of us for!!! LOL

 

[Twinkie210]

Well, this is not how I expected to spend my night... I am sitting in the ER with my mom, my brother was having heart palpitations... this could be a long night.

 

[justwaiting]

I hope he's ok twinkie.

 

[Twinkie210]

He's ok, just waiting to find out when he can go home

 

[lauren10]

Twinkie I'm glad your brother is ok. Do they know what's causing it?

I hear ya ladies about the stupid comments. And even the most caring people say stupid things. I think people just don't know what to say, and feel like they have to say something to "make it better" and don't understand we just need comfort.

 

[collie_crazy]

Welcome IAmKam :wave: Its nice to see you in here

LMAO @ Jessy dressing her cat in the onesie... I think my cat would KILL me hahahahha but I think you should try it and post pics

I know its yesterdays topic but I'll answer it anyway! I have heard of a push present but only through like American TV shows. Its something that doesnt really happen in the UK but I think I might make sure my OH gets me one LOL. I also love the idea of a baby shower but that doesnt really happen to the scale that it does over there either BOO!

Ooo and as for looking good for photos then I would definitely be breaking out the make up! I dont wear loads but I dont like leaving the house without at least foundation on so after pushing I would def be whipping out my mirror before the photos! These are ones you are going to want on your wall for years so you have to look good y'know!

Ooo Oooo Oooo and my OH is convinced we will have twins even though it DOESNT run in either of our families haha. He was even slightly disappointed when we had our first scan and we were told there was only one baby!

Well girls I had my smiley on my OPK this morning! YAY! I am feeling quite positive about this cycle but be prepared for my crazy ass testing super dooper early to start soon

 

[collie_crazy]

Twinks I am glad your brother is OK... did they know what caused the palpatations?

 

[Twinkie210]

Twinks I am glad your brother is OK... did they know what caused the palpatations?

He is an idiot. He was supposed to be taking blood pressure meds and stopped taking them. So then he started feeling bad a few days ago, so decided just to start taking them again. When he went to the ER last night his blood pressure was sky high. They gave him some meds, so it went down. He's lucky he didn't give himself a stroke or something. Anyway, maybe now he will actually take it when he is supposed to! But the whole ordeal was like 4 hours, so I didn't get to bed until 2:15, so I am taking the day off work and going back to bed after I drop DS off at school.

 

[PrincessTaz]

Hi guys, I'd love to join this group.

I've been drinking decaf coffee for so long, (just in case I could be preggers lol) that I've forgotten what a decent cup of caffine laden coffee tastes like PUPO is deffo the motto in my house

 

[Twinkie210]

I didn't allow pictures of me right after I got done pushing! It took like 2.5 hours for me though, cause DS got stuck. I ended up with a forcept delivery (my nurses and family thought for sure they would do a C-section). I don't even think the hospital I will deliver at allows camera's during delivery anymore, at least not video. I am guessing it has to do with the Dr.'s getting sued. But trust me, that was not a moment in life that I needed documented to relive every year. A few pics after they clean the baby up some was fine with me.

 

[collie_crazy]

Oh Twinks what a silly man he is! I am glad he is ok though and hope he has learned his lesson Hope you manage to get some rest today.

Welcome to the madhouse PrincessTaz :wave:

 

[Twinkie210]

Hi guys, I'd love to join this group.

I've been drinking decaf coffee for so long, (just in case I could be preggers lol) that I've forgotten what a decent cup of caffine laden coffee tastes like PUPO is deffo the motto in my house

Welcome!

I know what you mean. I have been taking prenatals for months now. Even if I get pregnant right away, I estimate that I will take them for about 2 years straight! But hey, the sacrifices we make for a healthy baby! Caffeine is a hard one for me. I have cut back tremendously, but I still have one or two caffienated (SP?) beverages a week. I cut out coffee, but I can't cut out tea completely! I definately will when I get pregnant, infact I quit drinking any caffeine at all when I found out I was pregnant last time, even though they say one a day is OK.

 

[Twinkie210]

Oh Twinks what a silly man he is! I am glad he is ok though and hope he has learned his lesson Hope you manage to get some rest today.

Welcome to the madhouse PrincessTaz :wave:

Haha, I hope so too. I went so my mom didn't have to wait in the waiting room alone (she took him to the hospital). She was so mad at him for not taking his meds like he was supposed to.

 

[keepthefaithx]

Hi guys, I'd love to join this group.

I've been drinking decaf coffee for so long, (just in case I could be preggers lol) that I've forgotten what a decent cup of caffine laden coffee tastes like PUPO is deffo the motto in my house

too funny!!

welcome!!!!!!!

 

[jessy1101]

Hi KamIam welcome to our wonderfull suport group where saying the most whacked out thing gets u brownie points! Hoping u'll have a good TTC relasionship with ur uterus and vagina LOLOL.

Twinks i'm glad he's ok!! But i'm sorry to say it's stoooopid that he did that with his meds. U know men tend to be dumbasses right ??

Keepthefaith and Lauren people try to be supportive sometimes and it just backfires. Yes they try to understand our situations but it's not the same if u havent been threw it. U think u know but u just dont (X-files theme song dooooooodooooooodooooooo)

PrincessTaz happy to have u abord hunny!! The things we sacrifice to try and get preggers huh?? If u read the posts a lil bit back you'll notice that i have now convinced myself that my DH's urine is a self fertilizer to get pregnant and will be trying that theory out...you all laugh now but we shall see dearies who has the last laught mouhhaaahaaaa....ya it probably wont b me since u know i'll be covered in stinky pee...'SOB' soo sooo cruel..

BTW i would like to thank Twinks for giving me today's freashly brewed topic idea. How long would it take for u to atempt murdering ur DH if he magicly pulls out a video camera during labour? And i mean pointing it at ur vadhy ooziness?? I've contemplated this many many times since mine has let me in on the fact that he wants to film it. It being me being in pain and squirting god knows what god knows where from my vajayjay. He believes it is the type of souvenir i'll actualy want to remember in dolby digital 5.1 sourround sound and image...hmmmmm....i then asked him if he was on cocaine. To which he replied no. To which i replied maybe u should start taking some to savour the last moments alive on this earth u will have. To that he answered with an ahhh shucks babe u know you'll thank me later laugh. To which i replied do it and i'm gonna cause bodily harm to ur weeeenis. Strangely...there was no other peep heard from him...hmmmmm....dunno why