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[lauren10]

I'm really sorry

Definitely switch docs until you get the attention you need! xxxx This is so heart breaking...I'm sorry

 

[jkb11]

KEEP THE FAITH- I'm so sorry sweetie! My thoughts and prayers are with you I'm sure you are overwelmed right now with emotions. Know that we are here for you if you need to vent. I too have the very irregular long cycles. I just went to see the reproductive endocrinologist a week ago. and I do think you are going in the right direction by changing docs. regular obs just aren't as involved in your care, they are great for just maintaining women that things go as planned. My issue is called PCOS (POLY CYSTIC OVARIAN SYNDROME) If you feel up to it try to look it up. most of the time women do not have all the symptoms of it, just a few my main thing is the irregular cycles. The reason I say all this is with pcos you have the irregular cycles, cyst on ovaries and an increased chance of mc.When you go to your next dr visit I would try to take all the info from your hospital visit especially your ultrasound. hospitals will usually copy it to a disk for you. I really hope its just really early and you have your dates wrong! Sorry you are having to go on this emotional rollercoaster. Rememer we are here

 

[keepthefaithx]

thankyou so much, im just so confused like why why whyyyyyy

i obviously can get pregnant, but cant stay pregnant-

 

[themarshas]

KTF- I'm so sorry! Fingers crossed that it's just early still, and if not I hope you at least get the answers you need! I found that going to a doctor (OB/GYN) that is associated with a hospital is the easiest way to get the tests you want because you're usually just a floor above the lab and they have all equipment at their finger tips (just something to keep in mind). I'm pretty sure that I could have gotten any test I wanted after just my 1 M/C if I had asked. She got me in the day I was m/c within an hour for an ultrasound and blood work. Maybe that's because of my age, or the tears... but my doctor ran quite a few tests (progestrone, hcg, rubella, blood type, ect) after my loss.

 

[lauren10]

I know honey...it's so not fair and doesn't make sense!! xxx

 

[keepthefaithx]

well now i gotta see whats wrong w me.

drs are still closed now maybe by 9

 

[babydust818]

that is so damn devastating.... I have no words that could mend your broken heart lisa. I wish i was their to give you a huge hug. The thing that gets me is you still feel pregnant! Miscarring makes you lose all symptoms. Very strange. Have you ever read about vanishing twin m/c? That could be a possibility. I don't wanna get your emotions any worse than they are. I'm so sorry darling. Did Mesina say anything about not carrying this one? I'm so sorry babygirl. Just KTF and trust in God to get you through this. *hugs*

 

[jessy1101]

that is so damn devastating.... I have no words that could mend your broken heart lisa. I wish i was their to give you a huge hug. The thing that gets me is you still feel pregnant! Miscarring makes you lose all symptoms. Very strange. Have you ever read about vanishing twin m/c? That could be a possibility. I don't wanna get your emotions any worse than they are. I'm so sorry darling. Did Mesina say anything about not carrying this one? I'm so sorry babygirl. Just KTF and trust in God to get you through this. *hugs*

She didnt get a reading by Mesina..That was Lauren and Collie and you and me.

 

[jessy1101]

I still dont even know waht to say...Lisa really deserved this baby (as all of us do) and it makes no sense why this would happen.

How can u not be frustrated right? U see all these teens getting preg while being drugged up and not caring and yet they have an easy pregnancy grrrrrr...

I would definetly change doctors for sure. If ur not feeling well treated then do not hesitate in the least.

Bigs hugs and luv u so much Leese

 

[NewbieLisette]

Lisa I'm sooo sorry you are going through this!! My thoughts and prayers are with you this morning, I hope your Dr can give you some hope once you reach him

 

[themarshas]

I still dont even know waht to say...Lisa really deserved this baby (as all of us do) and it makes no sense why this would happen.

How can u not be frustrated right? U see all these teens getting preg while being drugged up and not caring and yet they have an easy pregnancy grrrrrr...

I would definetly change doctors for sure. If ur not feeling well treated then do not hesitate in the least.

Bigs hugs and luv u so much Leese

A girl I used to baby sit announced (well posted a pic on fb) that she was pregnant this morning. She's 17! And I know that's not that young but it was an accident (which she also announced). The rest of us try so hard so it feels like a slap in the face to me.
On the other side:my sister has her 4D scan on Thursday, where they will find out the sex! and my best friend from high school had her little boy this morning. Sooo adorable= me soooo jealous and emotionally disrupted. Blah! Can't wait to go see them though. And my coworkers wife delivered yesterday 9 weeks early 4lbs 6 oz (fortunetly he was on the bigger side for his age) and although he's in the NICU he's expected to be fine. They tried for almost a year- so there's hope for us all!

 

[jessy1101]

God how can i even try to write something on here to be upbeat after that happend?? It's an extremely scary situation.

Yes i'm always positive but how do we know what will happen next time we get preg??? No it doesnt mean it will end baddly but how can u try to control that fear u know?

 

[NewbieLisette]

Totally agreed girls! I mean we all try to make the best of our sadness and stay positive each day but some days it hits you like a ton of brick....My God we are trying to create life and it is sooo precious! I just wish for all of us peace and healthy PG's very very soon.

 

[jessy1101]

Totally agreed girls! I mean we all try to make the best of our sadness and stay positive each day but some days it hits you like a ton of brick....My God we are trying to create life and it is sooo precious! I just wish for all of us peace and healthy PG's very very soon.

It just makes u wonder so much why us? We deserve to have babies too u know so why does this happen.

And the sucky thing is that we'll never get a concrete answer.

Like i was saying tho is having cysts on ur ovaries stop u from getting pregnant??? What exactly does it change??

 

[MrsMoo72]

hey all.

so i have really bad news.

i was spotting last night and i got really nervous so me and my husband went to the hospital

they did a urine tests, blood & vaginal ultrasound

so as many of you know i thought i was around 6 weeks 1 days (last period sept 17, 38 day cycle approx o cd24-

well i got a negative urine test, beta 235 (equal to about 4 weeks pregnant) and NOTHING on the ultrasound that would indicate pregnancy.

i am in complete shock, i feel very pregnant, i had no idea they were really going to tell me this. im just so devestated AGAIN.

so im guessing this is a chemical?? they were saying it either ended a while ago or im like around 4 weeks which i feel is impossible.

i have to call my ob today and go there for i guess another sono and im guna need more blood work

and on top of it they told me i have cysts on my ovaries which i didnt have in august, and its exactly 3 months to do the day of my first loss-

idk what to think. i cant even cry right now bc i dont think i would be able to stop. i just dont know why this is happening

well sorry for the bad news, wish i never had to say i had another miscarriage.

i will keep you guys posted after my visit

xo

Oh Lisa, I'm so sorry this is happening to you sweetheart
We are all thinking about you and sending you lots of love and hugs.

Please try not to lose faith in yourself - a very good friend of mine has had 8-10 miscarriages over the years and suffers from fibroids etc. Next month i am going to her little miracle girl's 1st birthday party!
As for ovarian cysts, i am living proof that it is still possible to conceive as my mum had one just before she got pg with me.

I know things are really hard right now but you WILL get your baby, hang in there, lots of love Emma

 

[Twinkie210]

that is so damn devastating.... I have no words that could mend your broken heart lisa. I wish i was their to give you a huge hug. The thing that gets me is you still feel pregnant! Miscarring makes you lose all symptoms. Very strange. Have you ever read about vanishing twin m/c? That could be a possibility. I don't wanna get your emotions any worse than they are. I'm so sorry darling. Did Mesina say anything about not carrying this one? I'm so sorry babygirl. Just KTF and trust in God to get you through this. *hugs*

MCing doesn't take away all of your symptoms. You can still have symptoms until your levels drop back down to 0 I had a lot of symptoms still a week after my D&C. While we all want to have hope that everything is OK, if they didn't even see a gestational sac on the U/S, it is probably a bad sign, and I think that is what Lisa is trying to say.

The situation all arround sucks.

 

[themarshas]

My sister had several ovarian cyst had she and her DH are expecting (18 weeks along) after their first month ttc. Clearly it didn't effect her fertility. Don't lose faith!

 

[jessy1101]

The only positive thing i can say during all of this is that it was the ideal outcome to the situation. I mean it's better to have this then a D&C since i know it hurts like a bitchh and can really mess u up extremely (kudos to all that had to have one).

If there was something wrong with the pregnancy better this happens now before very much later on. Althought i really wish nuttin would of happend at all..

 

[Twinkie210]

I can't believe that I am saying this because I hated when people said it after my MC, but MCing this early means that odds are there were chromosonal problems, which are uncontrollable. Most of these problems are flukes and it doesnt mean that she won't be able to carry to term next time.

Jessy- the D&C isn't that bad... I think I would rather go through that surgery than have to MC at home. Plus I have heard that natural MC's can be very painful too.

It is scary, but we just have to accept that this whole process is largely uncontrollable and we just have to hope that we all get good outcomes next time.

 

[jessy1101]

I can't believe that I am saying this because I hated when people said it after my MC, but MCing this early means that odds are there were chromosonal problems, which are uncontrollable. Most of these problems are flukes and it doesnt mean that she won't be able to carry to term next time.

Jessy- the D&C isn't that bad... I think I would rather go through that surgery than have to MC at home. Plus I have heard that natural MC's can be very painful too.

It is scary, but we just have to accept that this whole process is largely uncontrollable and we just have to hope that we all get good outcomes next time.

Ohhh no no i meant having a chemical compared to a D&C or a natural mc. Ya a natural one hurts like a freakin biatch! I can definetly concur on that.

U hated when people told u that? I kept repeating it to myself constantly at first. That's cuz the first thing that popped into my head was that it was my fault. And it isnt!! It's an uncontrolable shittyy situation that happens but least u see just how strong u really are.