We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[UniqueBeauty]

URGH I could slap my OH right now. I asked him if he could go next Monday because then I wont be left with nothing. He said 'what difference does it make if I'm here you're a grown woman now I'm sure you'll manage, you get £10 on Monday anyway' seriously? He's still planning on going. Tomorrow after bills I have 10 hopefully 20 quid, I have to get nappies and food and gas to last me.. I swear to god he's living in la la land at the moment! *Rant over* x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Aw dolce sounds as though your having fun!

UB - that is bloody disgraceful, I bet he'd have something to say if you was leaving him with no money! Whys he been such an arse?

I've just Absolutly bollocked my OH, he's just told me the kitten scratched him the other day so he launched her up the stairs, I'm furious with him he made me so upset, I've told him to get out my face tonight. He's trying to justify it now but I'm so cross x

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Aww poor kitty

OH would hate it if I left him with no money. I'm not bothered about myself it's Jayden. If he has all he needs when he leaves that's fine, I can find random stuff to get

I'm feeling so lightheaded tonight I feel quite dizzy. I might get an early night but I fancy a milky coffee x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Tell him to stock the cupboards with food and then he can go, would he seriously leave you and Jayden with no food?

Have you eaten? Sometimes I feel dizzy if I don't eat enough, but I'm always wondering what I could eat next so that hardly ever happens to me

 

[Kiwiberry]

Ub, Hope you feel better soon!

Aw dolce sounds as though your having fun!

UB - that is bloody disgraceful, I bet he'd have something to say if you was leaving him with no money! Whys he been such an arse?

I've just Absolutly bollocked my OH, he's just told me the kitten scratched him the other day so he launched her up the stairs, I'm furious with him he made me so upset, I've told him to get out my face tonight. He's trying to justify it now but I'm so cross x

OMG! What a jerk. That is so horrible. I can't believe someone would do that. That makes me want to cry . What a manly man he is picking on a lil kitten.

Sorry if I missed any posts, I g2g do some stuff so I did not have time to read back.

 

[Mummy to be x]

I know kiwi I've never got so angry at him in a long time, he made me cry. He totally doesn't get it! He's trying to justify it now but I don't even want to speak to him right now.

 

[Kiwiberry]

I am so sorry Mummy. Must be so hard for you. I hope you snuggle that little kitten and make him / her feel loved . He deserves to be punished! Maybe then he will learn not to do it again!

BBL tho ladies! I have a shopping trip to Target .

 

[Mummy to be x]

Well he's off to work in an hour for the night so the kitty's will be hopping in bed with me tonight yay!

 

[Ziggie]

Congratulations UB!! Amazing you got what you wanted and why put up with that from your oh?! Where's the respect there!!

Poor kitten mummy, I'd be mad too!!!

I'm back at my parents combining work and pleasure... Working an hour from them tomorrow and Friday so staying here and seeing old friends I'm just sleepy though I could sleep for England today. Baby has been quiet too after its insanely active weekend!!!

 

[Kiwiberry]

Hey ladies do you have any suggestions of a sling safe for newborns that does not spread their legs apart and is not one of those do it yourself ones?

 

[DolceBella]

If you like soft structured carriers, I like the Tula. Otherwise, there are lots of woven and stretchy wraps I like, but those take practice. I also like ring slings. They're a bit easier than learning wraps.

 

[ab75]

Morning ladies,
Mummy, I get mad if DH gets annoyed at our dog too.

UB, I have been where you are, but without the child, in a past relationship. I used to struggle to make sure bills and debts were paid and my ex used to go to the pub. Only way I got my life back on track was to throw him out, when I eventually realised that it was him that was dragging me down and I've never been happier.
Not that I'm saying you should do that, your situation is different, but he has to realise that you, j and baby are his family, he can't leave you with F all and expect your nan to pick up the pieces. Like you said, if he actually gets paid then great, but he'll be up there, eating, drinking and having fun while you're wondering if you are going to have enough gas! Not fair at all!! Xx

 

[ab75]

Lying in bed last night, baby was having his own party for one in my womb, it was quite sore lol, he's either gona be a kickboxer or footballer if last night was anything to go by lol. He's just started again this morning! Love feeling him but he needs to do gentle kicks haha xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Kiwi they do a carrier that's like a little pouch on ebay...300895742964 that's the item number for the one I'm watching (can't share a link from my phone)

UB I hope your oh doesn't leave you with nothing

Ab I get that too. Kicks that hurt so bad , I think baby just had hiccups!

Iv got a home visit from the health visitor this morning I don't know what to expect, I never had this with katie! Xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

You're not going to believe it, checked my balance this morning and I have 4 pounds! luckily it's enough to get Jayden some nappies and he has a dinner in the freezer I found. I have told him to ring his mother because I am not selling my laptop or asking my Nan for any more help. He doesn't seem at all bothered that we have nothing, he's on my phone playing a motocross game. Why do some men never grow up? I have eaten though so that's not a problem, it was probably chocolate withdrawal

I am going into town today with my Nan to forget about it all for a bit and let OH sort it. She's asked me not to ask OH's mother for some reason as soon as he gets his ass a job we will be okay!

As for the carriers I love the look of the Baby K'tan x

 

[Kiwiberry]

UB, I am so sorry about what you are going through . I wish there was something I can do to help. Let me know if there is ok? I know you don't really know me so that is probably part of the issue.

I just want to say though, I have been in situations like that and it is no fun. Especially considering you are pregnant and have a LO to look after.

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Thanks Kiwi, it's good to have people to rant to actually

I'm not so bothered about myself I can just live on toast with 'real' butter it's Jayden I am more bothered about, I've never been in this situation since he's been born so I feel like a bit of a failure today

Hope you have a nice time at Target Kiwi! x

 

[Kiwiberry]

Hehe already went to target! It was fun, went with MIL and OH. We got a lot of stuff!! Including things we did not go there for lol. I also got a new skirt (long) and a new sweater! So cute too. All thanks to MIL.

Are there any "food banks" where you live? I know here in the US they are all over the place. They give out food daily for people who need it and a lot of places donate fresh food every morning / evening too as part of a routine.

It just breaks my heart UB that you are going through this .

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I have mentioned that to OH but he said he'd never go to one so he'd better get off his ass and get us some money.

I keep forgetting you're not in the same timezone

I am loving the baby girls clothes from Next!! OMG they're gorgeous x

 

[Kiwiberry]

Wow.... that is so messed up that he won't even take you to a food bank to get food. I mean come on now a lot of people do it and its free.

What outfits have you been looking at?

I hope you don't take a offense, but your DH is starting to sound like a total dick sometimes.