We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[ab75]

Good plan with the money ub.

Hope oh does bring money since that was the whole point of him going away to work!!

You'll probably not have to wait 14 days, hopefully you will be entitled to something xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I don't see why I would be because theres just me and Jayden here and I'm pregnant. If they say no then hipefully I can just get help with HB. 2 weeks to go and we'll see!

Just had a nice bath with Jayden and put the candle on, can't really smell it to really! Pasta bake is in the oven and I'm going to load up it up with cheese, yum.

OH isn't back tonight now he's here tomorrow so I don't really see the point in him coming as I don't want to have to last hours for him to get here...x

 

[Kiwiberry]

That sounds amazing UB! Hot bath and oasta!!!

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I realized at about 4:30 I've only had toast today. Had pasta at 5ish so at least I had something, I've felt so ill. I can't wait to get into bed after the soaps x

 

[Mummy to be x]

UB good luck with your claim in sure you will be entitled to something.

I hope oh brings you money that's why he is working to provide for you all!!

The drive was ok we had a break and I stretched my legs and felt fine our b&b is disappointing I'm so angry I cried to OH as they isn't even a duvet on the bed just blankets, who wants shitty blankets?!?

 

[Kiwiberry]

I am just so upset and beside myself right now .

Whenever MIL posts an update about Riya on FB all her friends are constantly comparing Riya to her. Saying things like "Oh she must get that from her Grandma!" etc. It really just makes me angry and sad that no one is recognizing me. I mean she is MY baby after all and I feel like some people are acting as if MIL gave birth to her. Am I wrong to feel this way? I really can't say anything to them as I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings especially MIL since it is not really her fault in what other people say. I just feel like sometimes she does try and "take over" in a way even if it is not intentional. Whenever she talks about certain things she always leans more towards her son (my fiancee) when telling a story instead of mentioning me. I know she loves me and all but I just feel like sometimes people push me to the side and it hurts. I just want some recognition, after all I mean she is my child and I was the one who gave birth to her and carried her for 6 1/2 months. Please let me know if I am stepping out of bounds ladies.... I am just so emotional about it right now.

 

[Ziggie]

I suspect that her Facebook is mostly her friends, so they will probably comment like that rather than comment about you. I'm sure they don't mean any harm, don't let it get to you. You're bound to feel sensitive it's been a huge shock for you

In fact I'd not worry at all about that and focus all your attention on your baby girl. After all, she is most important, she isn't even aware of Facebook, but she knows who her mummy is and she knows who has been caring for her.

 

[Kiwiberry]

Thanks Zig. I just can't help but feel so posesive of my baby girl.

 

[ab75]

Kiwi, your hormones will be in overdrive right now. You will be feeling extra sensitive about a lot of things.
Like Zig said, just concentrate on Riya, step away from fb, who cares what other people say anyway. Whats important is getting YOUR little girl stronger and home with her mummy xx

 

[ab75]

Happy 29 weeks mummy xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Thanks AB for your advice. I guess I will do what you ladies suggest and take a step back to relax and focus on Riya.

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Big hugs, Kiwi

I think we're taking Jayden to an indoor play area today and then swimming tomorrow. I'm not paying this time.

I can't believe I'll be changing this to the third trimester when Pinkbabi is 27 weeks, scary how it's gone so fast!!

What's everyone's plans for today? x

 

[Kiwiberry]

The only plans I have for today is to get OH to clean (nest) for me, since I still can't really do much atm. Pump as much food for Riya as I can, and go visit her towards the end of the day. Not very eventful, but the most exciting part is going to see my baby.

 

[Carlyp1990]

Kiwi I agree with the other girls, your mils friends are just trying to show support for their friend at what is a difficult time for you all. Mil knows that the things are friends are saying are probably not true but she will just be grateful of the support. Sending hugs your way though I am can't even begin to imagine how your feeling at the moment xxx

 

[Carlyp1990]

That sound nice UB!
Kiwi I bet it's an amazing feeling getting to see your little princess!
We are going for dinner with my best friends today I have no money at all but it's been so long since we got together that I don't care lol xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Carly; It really is amazing! I am so happy when I am there visiting her. I love hearing everything the NICU has to say about how well she is doing.

 

[Carlyp1990]

She sounds like such a strong little fighter! Enjoy your visit with her xxx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Thanks so much! I certainly will enjoy every second of it. She really is a fighter

Where are you headed for dinner?

 

[Mummy to be x]

Kiwi - big hugs Hun I'm so sorry you feel like this but you just concentrate on your amazingly strong baby girl. Your doing amazing I can't believe how strong you are! And baby Riya is just beautiful she really is xx

Thank you ab xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Just going to a local pub called the golden eagle, it's sort of central to were we all live so it's seemed the best idea. Me and katie have to get on the tram though which I hate :-/ it's days like this I wish I hadn't sold my car xx