We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[Mummy to be x]

Omg I unsubscribed from this thread I'm making a habit of doing that.

Beckki you'll be fine I'm sure, when will he be back again? Xx

 

[ab75]

You'll be fine beckii xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

You will do great Beckii!

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I'm more nervous about going out on my own, I still haven't got a buggy board. I assume OH's gone for 2 weeks but who knows, he didn't say. He did say if things get too stressful then I can give him a call and he'll come back.

I'm confused as to what to do as a routine. Jay goes to bed at 6:30 but I have to lay with him.. I don't want to leave Aimee-Jo on her own downstairs so I'll have to put her in her cot that's in Jays bedroom.. then there's the bath times and I've been all over the place in the mornings before nursery. After 16 days I thought I would of got a little routine but I don't x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Beckki we don't have much of a routine really, I'm lucky that Madeleine will settle herself after a story so bedtimes are usually quick. I think it's just something that takes time to work out, if I'm bathing Madeleine I usually lay Archie in his basket in my room and get Madeleine washed etc. You'll probably just experiment a few ideas and you'll find what works best for you Hun. Xx

 

[ab75]

Beckii on the nights that I have to put the 3 kids to bed myself, if frazer is sleeping I leave him in his basket. The other night he was awake so I just sat on the edge of zara's bed and fed him. The girls like us to sit with them for a couple of minutes after their story but usually fall asleep quickly.
Dh goes to work at 530 tonight and zara is tired and crabbit so I'm not looking forward to bedtime tonight. Lol.
When I first let zoe walk beside zara in the pram I got her to hold onto the pram but she also had a little rucksack on with a parent strap attached that I had on my wrist just in case she did try to run away xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I gave Jay his bath and put Aimee-Jo in her basket by my door, just the bedtime to go now, fingers crossed. I'm taking Jay up at 7:30 tonight though as he had his dinner late.

I was looking at those Amanda, he has reins but if they don't work I might try the bag. If I get brave I might take a walk to my Nans tomorrow! x

 

[ab75]

Well done. Told you you'd be fine.
I'm cheating bedtime tonight lol. We all have our pj's on and are in my bed watching mr bean. Frazer has just been fed so he's sleeping in my arms. Hopefully zara will either fall asleep or go to bed when it finishes at 7.

Beckii if zara starts mucking about and not holding onto frazers pram I just ask if she can hold on as I need help to push it. I'm sure Jayden will be fine. Xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

We have no routine yet either. Jon's back at work on Sunday so ill be able to get some routine back then. I know I can do bedtime on my own and I know I can get katie and myself and lucy ready in the morning to take katie to nursery so I'm not too worried.
By the time oh comes back you'll wonder how you cope with him around

We've been making the most of Jon's last few days off so we've been to the zoo today! It was freezing cold but it was worth it Lucy wanted feeding so we went to the little cafe that also has a soft play area so jon and katie went and played while I fed lucy. I'm getting more confident feeding in public now Xx

 

[ab75]

Thats fab carly. Once you have fed in public for the first time it is easy after that.

Thats my 3 sleeping. Don't think I'll manage to stay awake for eastenders lol xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Thats fab Carly! I'm still expressing for when I'm out.

Bedtime was different, Jay fell asleep on the sofa so I just had to catry him up no messing around.

I say to Jayden do you want to get squashed?! And he holds my hand lol x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Well done Carly!! My cousins gf was breast feeding in costa coffee yesterday and a couple was sat across from her and the fella told his gf to move away and they both moved tables!! Absolutely disgusting!! X

 

[UniqueBeauty]

That's shocking. That's why I'm too scared to do it in public. I don't understand how it's okay for girls to walk around with their ass cheeks hanging out their shorts and boobs hanging out yet a woman feeding her child the most natural way is so frowned upon x

 

[Mummy to be x]

I know beckki really pisses me off! Don't be scared to do it, if anyone so much as frowned at you tell them to fuck off. It's the most natural thing in the world x

 

[brunettebimbo]

I would have just smiled. Make them feel bad

 

[brunettebimbo]

Today is going to be one of those days, Elijah woke up extra last night because he was sleepy yesterday and hardly fed so I'm tired, Tristan woke up at 6, Elijah then weed and poo'd in our bed so I had to change it and Tristan is crying constantly about anything and everything because he is tired! Hubby is going out at noon to watch football with the lads from work so will probably roll in at stupid o'clock. I can see tears being shed by the end of today!

 

[Carlyp1990]

I've fed in public a few times now and not had any looks or comments that I've noticed.
I had abit of progress last night, Lucy went in her moses basket for 2 hours! I was exhausted and we went upto bed at 8:30 after I'd already been asleep on the sofa for an hour!
Kian if I was you I'd just have a pj day xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Sounds like your getting somewhere slowly but surely Carly

Oh Kian, I agree with Carly stay in your pyjamas and just relax all day

 

[Carlyp1990]

Little Lucy smiles
https://i945.photobucket.com/albums/ad292/carlyp1990/20150131_102151_zpsvse8f72z.jpg

 

[Mummy to be x]

Oh my god!! How beautiful is she??? Wish I could give her a squish x