We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[UniqueBeauty]

Hi girls :wave: ive barely found time to post on here lately. I am so tired. Aimee-Jo had a naughty night and I only got about 4 hours, I need at least 6 to function properly lol. I ended up putting my trousers on inside out and back to front.

Hope you're all well.

My bleeding stopped and started again after I did some Zumba. I'm dying to workout! Youtube uptown funk workout and go to the Zumba one it's wicked x

 

[Carlyp1990]

I think lucy will have anti fungal drops and ill probably get antibiotics. Hopefully thats why shes been being fussy and sickly so she should be better soon.

Beckii ill have a look for that later xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I haven't read through the posts yet but I hope Lucy feels better soon x

 

[ab75]

Hope the thrush clears up soon.

I'll look at that now Beckii. I need to start doing something. I was a 16 before I fell pregnant, just ordered a pair of jeans from next in 18 and I can't get them fastened because of my flabby, wobbly belly. It looks disgusting and I'm feeling awful about it. I was never skinny(apart from once after a heartbreak diet,lol) but this flabby wobbly bit is really horrible xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Heart break diets are good lol x

 

[ab75]

They're the best Amy,lol, I went from a 14/16 to 8/10 in a month. I would pretend I was heartbroken now but I need to feed Frazer lol xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

I am a size 12/14 US size and a 16 EU sozes. I think I was a 10 in US size before I got pregnant. I hate the flabby .

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

Carly I hope you and Lucy get cleared up soon.
Great job Riya, she's doing so well Suzy.

Ladies I'm getting so bummed with breastfeeding lately. I feel like I can put London down. I'm so tired and the thought of going back to work next week makes me even more exausted. He eats only like 5-10 mins per side (usually one side per feeding) and then wants to nurse again within 45mins to an hour. This has been going on a few days now and the only way I can get him to sleep at least 2-3 hours at night is to give him a bottle. It probably doesn't help that dh is not supportive of me bf and he's constantly complaining that it's not working and the baby needs a schedule blah blah blah. I'm seriously starting to get pissed with him. Im just so worried how he will be at nursery. I'm terrified he will be left in a crib crying all day because he still doesn't like to be put down long and now with his constant nursing I don't know what to do. He still won't take a paci for longer than 3-5 mins.

 

[Carlyp1990]

We both got treatment for thrush even though the Dr didn't check us but fingers crossed it will work.

Pink im so sorry your having a tough time! when London feeds for 10 minutes on one side are you trying to wake him to feed off the other side?
Sometimes Lucy will feed off one side for 10 minutes then fall asleep so ill just leave her thinking she's full and content then within an hour she wants feeding again, but if I can get her to take both then she settles for a lot longer. it sounds like the comfort of your breast is making him fall asleep before he's actually full whereas with the bottle he's getting full and then falling asleep.
Your doing amazingly well considering you have no support! If I didn't have the support around me then I would have probably given up already.

How are you all doing ladies? I'm relaxing in a hot bath after getting both the girls tucked up in bed xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I don't track Aimee-Jos feeds any more, I msy start again.

After doing the Zumba dance daily when ever the song comes in the radio I know the routine lol. I hate my belly too, it's alright losing the weight but how the hell I'll tighten it all without a tummy tuck i don't know.

I wish I was in the bath Carly. I never find the time tp have a proper bath or s shower. I have to fill the bath to about a foot deep then wash and get out as soon as I get in there madam wakes up! X

 

[Mummy to be x]

Aw pink I'm so sorry your having a hard time, I agree with carly though your doing amazing and I really do feel for you having to go back to work so soon. Huge hugs to you

Carly I'm glad they give you treatment but why didn't the doc check you? Idiots!

I'm just laying in bed I'm so so tired I could sleep for a week!

So ladies it's Valentines this weekend, what are you all getting up to? xx

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

We probably won't do much. Yesterday was our 10 year wedding anniversary and I spent most of the day with baby boy. We went out to find daddy a gift and he started being really fussy in the store. It attracted a crowd of women who kept coming over and touching him so I ended up taking him out of the car seat and carrying him around the store. Needless to say I didn't get much shopping done. Dh didn't come home until after 7pm and he cooked dinner. We had to take turns holding baby while we ate and afterwards went back to nursing. But I can say my best anniversary gift is my precious boy and I wouldn't trade him for all the food or sleep in the world. I'm one tired momma.
Thanks ladies, if it wasn't for you guys, I wouldn't have any support at all.

 

[brunettebimbo]

Pink sorry you've no support What you described in your last post sounds like it's maybe a growth spurt?

Carly why didn't the Doctor check you both?

We won't be doing anything for Valentines. It's not something we really celebrate plus Hubby is on call.

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Oh that really bugs me when strangers touch without asking.

Im having a very sh*tty night. As aoon as I put Aimee-Jo down shes up again. Last night it was 5 times in the space of 2 hours and tonight I didn't get to bed at 1o'clock then my bed broke. The slats under the mattress have broken and Ive fallen on the floor on a slant but I cant fix it because it will happen again.

Currently up for a feed and Aimee-Jo is so cold bless her, her hands are like ice cubes. I forgot to put the heating on its as cold as outside in the day in here. The property was built in the 1930s so theres no insulation!
Roll on when Simon is here, he's taking the night feeds off me so I can get a decent sleep. He even said sorry for leaving so soon and that he feels for me.
Going to put Aimee-Jo down in a minute and I bet she wakes up

As for Valentines we never do anything so I'm dragging OH to see 50 shades haha. Going to be verrrrry awkward. Those on my Facebook watch the red room teaser I shared on there lol x

 

[Carlyp1990]

Morning ladies

I managed to soak for an hour in the bath before lucy woke up again she then fed from 9-11 but then did her longest stretch ever and didn't wake until 3:20! she only had a quick feed though so then she was up again at 5:45 and she's up again now. that was our first night of no cosleeping too

Beckii I'd love to let jon do the night feeds for a night but im too lazy to express plus I'd wake up with him anyway!

For Valentine's day we won't be doing anything special, we dont normally celebrate it. What about you amy? Xx

 

[ab75]

Morning,
Sorry you had a shit night beckii.
Frazer was up at 2 for an hour then again at half 4.
Zara fell out bed twice. Their beds are kind of in an "L"shape so I ended up pulling Zoe's bed right against Zara's to make a barrier at the head end. She never fell out again. She had a bed guard until a few weeks ago but dh thinks that she doesn't need it!!

Happy anniversary pink. Sorry your dh isn't supportive of your bf.

We won't be doing anything for valentines day. I think it's a waste of money lol. I've got dh a card and a giant cupcake. We'll just have pizza when girls are in bed but we do that every sat lol xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Poor zara! Hope she didn't hurt herself hun.
I don't even get jon a valentines card lol. We will probably plan on watching a film but that depends on if lucy let's us.
beckii I just looked on your Facebook but can't find the red room trailer you mentioned. Who will have aimee-jo and Jayden while you go to the cinema? Xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Ouch I hope Zara's ok Amanda poor thing xx

For valentines I think Scott's just going to cook a meal, may get a bottle of wine perhaps.

I really want to see 50 shades Beckii but no way am I going with Scott haha! Xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Hope you and Lucy are feeling better soon with those antibiotics .

Pinky, Happy Anniversary!
I am so sorry your husband is not supporting you on the whole BF'ing thing. He should probably know that babies as young as ours do not have schedules. They don't start developing a schedule until much later. Right now with the BF'ing its on demand and the baby calls the shots. I wish he would support you more, but you already know you have us! Sorry you have to go back to work hun.

Amanda, I hope Zara is ok .

Beckii, sorry you had a rough night hun. I hope things start to get better and little miss Aimee-Jo starts to behave!

So papa johns pizza here has heart shaped pizza on valentines day. OH and I are going to order a pizza for lunch and then do something for dinner once MIL gets home from her play. Other than that I am not sure what we will do. We love to celebrate our love for each other so valentines day is no biggie for us. Plus, I am building a collection of stuffed animals!

Riya has been good all night. She had a big day yesterday though since she had her eye exam again. They said the ROP is completely clear in her right eye but that she still has some healing to do in her left. They want to see her again in 4 weeks for her last appointment! The doctor thinks it will be all cleared up by then!

Hope you ladies have a good day!

 

[ab75]

Suzy, I love papa johns xx