We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[Mummy to be x]

I used in every bottle and it worked wonders and did Archie no harm what so ever

 

[Kiwiberry]

Tummy time is hit or miss for Riya too. She tries to lift herself up and kick her feet but that is about as far as she has gotten so far. She seems to love back time more than tummy time lol. Whenever I lay her on her back she at least attempts to roll over. Most of the time that I lay her on her tummy (with a baby pillow under her arms) she just gets angry, kicking her feet and yelling at me.

Not sure about the gripe water. When I gave it to Riya I only used it when she got really fussy during a feeding. I can't remember what it said on the bottle though. The kind I use though is called "Tummycalm".

 

[Carlyp1990]

I need some advice from you lovely ladies if possible...

It's not baby/child related.

So... when katie was almost 2 I started a cleaning job in the evenings to earn abit of money. About a year later a lad started and we got on really well, just as friends, I'd never ever considered him to be anything more although their were rumours he had feelings for me but he knew that nothing would ever happen.
Jon got very very jealous of me being friends with him and ultimately that's the reason I left the job And cut myself off from contact with almost everybody I worked with.
I just had an email asking if I would like to be considered for a health care assistant / receptionist role based in the same building. I said yes as it would look great on my uni application if I have experience in a clinical setting, Jon has flipped! He said he can't handle me working with the same people in the same building so do what I've gotta do.
What should I do? It's not even likely I'll get the job but it's the principle that I'm more annoyed about.

A couple of years ago I caught jon texting a girl from work. Suggestive texts, saying he would go to hers and she could tell her boyfriend she was busy etc. He never left his job, as far as I know he still works with her. He told me it was none of my business as we werent together but we had been trying to make things work.
Would I be out of order to still go ahead with the application and take the job if I was offered it? I wouldn't be actually working with the people I used to, I there is just a chance I would be in the same building at the same time Xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Carly, this is your future you talking about here so you go for it. It sounds to me like johns feeling this way because he's actually the one who has been upto no good with work colleagues, this is his problem not yours, don't let that ruin your chance of a brill job and like you say it will look great on your uni application, which is majorly important. Do what's right for you, not for johns insecurity about this guy. Like you said you never made him leave his job when he had actually done something wrong.

I say go for it xx

 

[ab75]

^^ agree with Amy. It's not as if you did anything or you're going to be working with the guy again.
Jon should trust you. Think he has a guilty conscience? ?!! Xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Exactly what Amy and Amanda said! x

 

[brunettebimbo]

Same as above ^^^

 

[Carlyp1990]

Thanks ladies xx

 

[sethsmummy]

yep im with Amy and Amanda hun.

Jon should not be trying to stop you having a job. If this were John and I then i would be putting him in his place quite firmly. His paranoia is not your problem.. the fact that he got involved with someone does not mean that you will do the same and he needs to seriously get over himself.He cant control you and needs to realise that... hes going to have to work through HIS issues instead of trying to stiffle you. There are always going to be men anywhere you work hun so hes just going to have to grow the heck up and get a grip

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Did you decide what you were going to do, Carly? x

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

We are finally back from our very long drive trip. I think it may have caused a dip in my supply, and it's right at London's 3month growth spurt. So I've been struggling to make enough milk for him. I'm so jealous of you all's babies progress. London has not even tried to roll, he still wants to be held most of the time. Tummy time only last about 5 mins before he starts fussing. He does like to baby babble a lot though and he laughed at a toy for the first time yesterday so of course I had to buy it for him. I can tell you he does not like road trips. He was not a happy camper. He slept well a night though and still does. Around 5-6 hours before he wakes. I was enjoying the extra sleep now I have to get up and pump.
Here is an current pic of the mister

 

[ab75]

He is soooooo adorable pink!! Xx

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

Thanks, I love his little smirk he gives us.

 

[Carlyp1990]

Thanks for your advice ladies

I'm goin ahead with the application and if I get an inyerbiew etc then we will discuss it further. I've told him how I feel and we had a little chat about it. He thinks I'm making excuses to go back to that place and says I can get reception work anywhere but iv explain its the health care assistant experience I need. We will see what happens...

London is soo cute!

Katie is going out for the day with Jon's mum and dad tomorrow and I really don't want her to go! I swear I have problems, i'm so attached to the girls. I hate anyone taking katie out amd I hate people holding lucy. Not because I'm worried anything bad will happen but they're mine and I like them with me... I feel so irrational! Xx

 

[ab75]

Carly, remember when my mum took the girls for a night and I was in tears in the shower thinking about it! ! It is irrational but I am exactly the same. Katie will have fun though. Use the time to do something for you! !
I'm going out tomorrow night, dh was meant to go too but I don't want my mum watching the 3 kids so dh is staying in and I'm going with my sis. My mum hasn't changed Frazer 's nappy or anything so I don't want to leave him with her. Xx

 

[brunettebimbo]

Carly I am exactly the same!

London is so cute

Can you believe work rang today and asked if I could work Monday because they are short staffed!?

 

[Mummy to be x]

Carly I'm the same! It's not irrational at all I say it's very normal, just goes to show how much of a loving caring mummy your are.

Omg Kian! I hope you told them to piss off lol.

Awww London is so perfect x

 

[brunettebimbo]

I just kind of laughed and said no. I've not left him for 20 minutes never mind a full day.

 

[Mummy to be x]

The cheek of it, your on maternity leave!

 

[Carlyp1990]

Thanks ladies. She's going in 45 minutes so iv just been cuddling her on the sofa lol.
Kian that's crazy! I would have laughed too! Xx