We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[Mummy to be x]

My mum moved away a while ago dolce she lives about three hours away from where we are moving, so closer to her.

I agree UB I love this thread I'm glad you made it

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I have the air show tomorrow and Sunday then OBEM on Wednesday to look forward to. Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek I'm so excited.


Anyone else got plans for the weekend?

I moved away from my family too, Mummy. I hated it

 

[Mummy to be x]

How did you cope UB? Are you still away from them?

 

[UniqueBeauty]

If this turns into an essay, sorry

I lived in Spain for 6 years with my family and that's where I met my OH 7 years ago. When I was 19 he moved back to the UK for work and this was when I had to go 3 months at a time without seeing him. I moved to his hometown Preston leaving my family in Spain, I honestly hated it. I became depressed and me and OH were like room mates rather than a couple. Things got stressful and we split up and luckily my mum and sister had come over from Spain and moved to Weston so I came to stay with them, eventually we got back together and a year later my nan and grandad followed us to the UK. Being without them is something I never want to go through again. I've always been a home sick person so my OH gets depressed sometimes because all his family is in Preston.


I have another issue. Before I met my OH he had a 'stalker' who would always call and text his phone and families. When I lived in Preston she always used to text him saying 'Tell Beckii you're going to Asda and come see me, she won't know' I have NO idea if he did go BUT when we broke up surprise surprise guess who was the first person to be there, HER. They stayed together, slept with each other (makes me sick) and it wasn't just the once, it was ALL the time. For the past 1.5 years she's always messaging him 'I miss you' and at one point he said Miss you too. He went onto his facebook the other day and had an inbox and I looked, He opened it and it read 'I miss you so much, I hope your okay. Love you lots xxx' I MEAN REALLLLLLY!!!! He's engaged with a child and a secret one on the way!
I questioned him and he was like she was good to me, she helped me a lot. We're good friends and have been since I was 15. I said what are you going to reply? he said IF I replied I'd arrange to meet up for a drink. My blood boiled at this point. So the mad stalker who tried to break us up then succeeded so you let her jump into our bed is your best friend? o.m.g! If she does it again I will be messaging her, you do NOT message someone saying that when they have a family, friends or not. Please tell me I'm not overeating? He hasn't replied to her thank god. Now I'm paranoid he's going to go see her when he's next in Preston!

Must add, I have just deleted her off his phone contacts. Why the f*ck she was there I do not know.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Oh.my.actual.god!!! Id freak seriously if that was someone messaging my OH like that I'd tell them straight. What a cheeky bint and your OH should certainly not meet her for a drink, I would NEVER let my OH go for a drink with someone he'd slept with but that's just me, I've never looked at his phone contacts but if I did and I found some ex or something in there i would start world war three

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Oh.my.actual.god!!! Id freak seriously if that was someone messaging my OH like that I'd tell them straight. What a cheeky bint and your OH should certainly not meet her for a drink, I would NEVER let my OH go for a drink with someone he'd slept with but that's just me, I've never looked at his phone contacts but if I did and I found some ex or something in there i would start world war three

See this is it, he used to be a slag so there's so many girls out there I want beef with but this one girl Katie, I've told him I want hin to have nothing to do with her but they kept messaging then he'd delete the messages!! He met up with her around Christmas time when he worked in Blackpool. He said they 'bumped' into each other but that's crap. I said to him she's going nowhere near our children and I don't want you near her but he won't listen to me. Sometimes I do wonder if he still has feelings for her as even though she comes between us he won't remove her from his life. He needs to look at it through my point of view, can you imagine what out OH's would be like if an ex messaged us that. I'm keeping a look out for more messages between them both. I don't trust her.

 

[Mummy to be x]

That's so unfair UB she need to bugger off and your oh needs to tell her to piss off too, I don't tend to bother with Facebook much it causes so much Agro.

Why won't she just pee off? I mean, what's she expecting to happen?

 

[UniqueBeauty]

That's so unfair UB she need to bugger off and your oh needs to tell her to piss off too, I don't tend to bother with Facebook much it causes so much Agro.

Why won't she just pee off? I mean, what's she expecting to happen?

Apparently it's because they are 'best friends' yet they only became that 'close' after they starting sleeping together. He won't tell her to do one, he just laughs and says no.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Ugh that would anger me sooo much!!! I feel for you

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Oooh I know, must think of my babies and that I have this family and not her! So excited for Hollyoaks recently too hehe

 

[Mummy to be x]

Yeah, silly *beeeeep*

Ooh hollyoaks I'm about to watch it on channel 4 plus one as I missed it earlier, excited

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I'm excited to see Cindy's story line as I know who the guy is now thanks to spoilers

 

[Mummy to be x]

I'm watching it on e4 plus one, so Mondays episode

Am I going to find out who that man is?

 

[ab75]

Aaahh thanks ladies, we have had a lovely day.
mummy, happy house hunting tmrw.
dolce, I would love a job like that.
Carly, I have just eaten loads of strawberries, they were amazing.
UB, seriously, I would go mental if I was in your shoes. He maybe likes the attention from her but no way would I let him meet her either!
We moved 100 miles away from our families last year, I love it lol, love just having our wee family and getting occasional visits from parents etc xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

I know what you mean with that ab, I think I may find myself getting annoyed at OHs family been around all the time, and mine hardly been there, is that selfish?

 

[UniqueBeauty]

It's all to do with Cindys bipolar, you don't find out for a while. Let me know if you want me to tell you hehehe

And I will be keeping my eyed peeled. As for now I'm going to bath my screaming son lol x

 

[DolceBella]

What is Hollyoaks?? Sounds interesting!

Ab - We've been eating loads of strawberries too! We went to a "pick your own" farm and came back with over 5lbs!

UB - I'm concerned about your situation with this Katie girl. I agree that she's way out of line, but so is your OH. I had a similar experience once where DH was texting too much with a former coworker. The texts weren't inappropriate in nature, but they were frequent. They would say things like "did you see that show last night?" Or "what did you have for lunch today?" It just seemed like everyday conversation stuff that wasn't necessary to have with another woman. It was starting to make me upset, and I didn't want to turn into a crazy woman that felt the need to check his phone all the time. I didn't want to turn it into a trust issue, for either of us. So rather than get angry with him, I sat him down and told him how I felt. I said that it didn't seem right to be texting with another girl about his regular daily life. There shouldn't be a need to share his life with someone else. It seemed like he appreciated my point of view, so he eventually just stopped texting her back. To be honest, I don't think he cared very much anyway. In your case, Katie is a direct threat because she's a former girlfriend and has the potential to see him again. I'm also concerned that your OH is deleting texts from her. Do you think he's trying to spare you from seeing something harmless, so as to avoid a fight? Or do you think he's hiding something... I would sit him down and make sure he knows how it makes you feel. Plead to heart strings.... Let him know how much you want your family to succeed, and that you two have to stick together to eliminate any possible temptations, for the good of the family.

 

[ab75]

DB, I am going to take the the girls to pick your own in a couple of weeks.
Mummy,I don't think that is selfish. My sis wasn't happy with me after we moved as I said I was happy up here and not seeing everyone all the time was good. She is the type of person who is always running here there and everywhere visiting, I can't be arsed with that lol.
Hollyoaks is a soap on tv set in Chester xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

My OH was honest with her when us two broke up and said he could never be with someone who couldn't have children in a nice way apparently (before my son). I think they were just friends with benefits. There's been no more messages that I know of, on Facebook it will say he's read her message but not bothered replying, he knows how I feel about her. The conversations between them are probably once a month. I had a dream that he went with her while he was with me all those years ago and it felt horrible! He went through his contacts yesterday to see if he had my Grandads number because there was a missed call and he didn't realize I got rid of her number so that's good.

On the plus side I have the air show today, waheeeey

 

[Mummy to be x]

Morning ladies! Well today I'm doing the dreaded drive to South Wales, it's going to take me 5 hours, I'm so nervous I've never done it before. Last year I had an awful car crash and since then driving on motorways really frightens me so I'm popping my pants a bit

I hope everyone enjoys there day! The weathers lovely here