We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[ab75]

Snap Carly. Zoe finishes on fri morning (party on Friday morning) then thats her til jan. I am going to try and take her tomorrow. Xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Hey girls midwife appointment was good. I got to take a look at the birthing suit and theres 2 rooms.. 2! Lol. They are real luxury compared to what I had with Jayden. I'm having a blood test on Monday to check what my iron count is. She isn't engaged yey but still head down at the brim, she said he might not even engage until labour so we'll see. She said she's expecting me to give birth around my due date rather than going over but only time till tell! I'm on my phone so will post properly later x

 

[Mummy to be x]

2 rooms?!? What if they're full? That's a bit poo lol. Glad the midwife went well xx

 

[ab75]

Glad midwife went well ub xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Bit worried....I was carrying madeleines crayons etc through to the kitchen and Madeleine rolled my birth ball and I fell over it onto the floor, crayons went everywhere. Scott was walking up the stairs at the time and panicked bless him. I hurt my leg but don't think my bump got touched, I'm pretty sure it didn't. I hope I haven't done any harm to Archie

 

[Carlyp1990]

Oh hun try not to worry, he has plenty of protection in there anyway and chances are if you don't think he got bumped then he won't have done

She only does mon, tue & wed mornings and is term time only so I don't have to pay for anything

UB im glad your appointment went well! I have my next one on Thursday but im dreading the walk their it will probably take us about an hour because I have katie and Jon's at work I have to be their for 9:30 aswell xx

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

Oh no Mummy, I'm sure he's fine safely tucked in the womb. Hopefully you didn't get hurt too bad on your leg.

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

Glad your appointment went well UB.

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I'm sure he's fine Amy, he's well cushioned in there. If you're worried you could always talk to your midwife.

I did think it was a bit weird that there's only 2 rooms, I'd better have the one with the huge birthing pool lol

I forgot to day, OHs Grandads funeral is on bloody Xmas eve as that's the only date they had available which won't make Xmas up there very nice. My Nan said she understands it's a bad time but we hope he doesn't sit with a face on him on boxing day when we have Xmas with my family, Jayden will pick up on it.

I have no idea what's happening yet but hopefully I will later x

 

[Mummy to be x]

I feel fine girls so should be ok

Oh UB that's a rubbish day for a funeral I hope it all goes ok xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

OH is ignoring me. He said to me hes coming to get me and Jay before the funeral and stay for a week. I said I have a blood test Monday and he said for gods sake why is everything going tits up for me. Then I said but why a week? He saod it will be nice for my Nan and I said I thought we were having boxing day with my family then he turned round and said can't you forget about your family for once youre always thinking about yourself, youre fucking selfish!!! And hung up. Hes now ignoring me and I'm in hysterics

 

[Carlyp1990]

Oh my god UB! I understand he's upset but to treat you like that is awful
If I were you I'd leave him to contact you to apologise and try and get some sleep xxx

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

Sorry your going through this UB. You should probably put off talking to him for a few days until he has a chance to chill. All this stress is not good for the baby and it seems all of you all's current interactions are stressful. I understand his loss but he has no right to take his frustrations out on you. I would definitely not be talking until he apologized.

 

[Mummy to be x]

UB that is disgraceful! He's been terribly selfish and thinking of nobody but himself. You shouldn't be dealing with this at all. I hope you managed to calm down and get some sleep Hun, it's not good for you or baby getting all upset.

I can understand he's emotional right now and he's hurting but it's no way to treat you I hope your ok beckii xx

 

[ab75]

Hope you are ok Amy.

Beckii, I understand that he is hurting but he can't treat you like that.
Is that how he would treat you when you are up there, away from everybody.
You need to go for that blood test.
And selfish. Coming from the guy that went up there to support his family, has bought potentially 2 cars, doesn't send you regular money but manages to go out drinking when he has kids that need things. And you're the selfish one! ! He is trying to emotionally blackmail you. And it's working.
What are you and J meant to do up there for a week xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

That's exactly what he's doing Amanda. Well now I won't be seeing my family over Christmas at all because he's not bringing us back on Boxing day. My Nan had a roast dinner planned with everyone around too and now me and Jayden won't be there. Instead I guess we'll be sitting around a very quiet and very morbid house due to the fact OHs Grandad has passed. I have 2 cats and fish what the hell does he expect me to do with them?! He hasn't mentioned them at all. x

 

[Carlyp1990]

Hope your feeling better today UB xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

WoW UB I am so sorry. I agree with Amanda though.

I would be in hysterics just thinking about not only my cats and fish but being away from my family too. I don't know how you deal with him to be quite honest hun. Is there not any way you can get back home for Christmas? I would not want to be in a house where everyone was sad over Christmas either.

Plus, that roast dinner sounds lovely .

 

[ab75]

Why don't you just stay at home Beckii, just because he wants you to go to Preston doesn't mean you have to go. He keeps moving the goalposts, was taking you home boxing day, now he's not. I wouldn't be going that far so close to my due date xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I know I'm so worried I'll pop up there but I think that's what he wants. If I don't go up there I'm basically selfish, I should be there for him apparently at a time like this He wants Jayden up there to see his cousins and where he goes I go as there's no way I'd let him take him on his own. He's barely seen him and doesn't know our routine. I still have to break the news to my family yet, they aren't going to be very happy. I probably won't get home till around the 30th!! Bloody ridiculous. I understand he's lost his Grandad but that's no excuse treating me like he is, his Nan would be disgusted x