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Phil!! Great to hear from you!! Saria is beautiful!!

Yes we have 2 BFPs right now.. BabyWhisperer and Angel! :wohoo:

I talked to my FS office this morning and they said they heard back from the lab about my biopsy. They are still on track for getting the results to us next week.:thumbup:

I'm having a rough day.. I won't go into details but I had a panic attack this morning. :cry: I haven't had a full blown panic attack in ears. :nope: I should have taken the day off. I think perhaps I will leave after Tech Review at 2. I just need some R&R and no more BS.
 
Phil!! Great to hear from you!! Saria is beautiful!!

Yes we have 2 BFPs right now.. BabyWhisperer and Angel! :wohoo:

I talked to my FS office this morning and they said they heard back from the lab about my biopsy. They are still on track for getting the results to us next week.:thumbup:

I'm having a rough day.. I won't go into details but I had a panic attack this morning. :cry: I haven't had a full blown panic attack in ears. :nope: I should have taken the day off. I think perhaps I will leave after Tech Review at 2. I just need some R&R and no more BS.

Ali I'm so sorry. I've only had 1 panic attack in my life and it was awful. What set it off? Are you ok? Take some time and rest and if you can do any breathing and meditative exercises to calm yourself. I hope you're ok.

Hi Phil, your daughter is beautiful. I love those baby blues!

Afm nothing new, headache today, not as weepy but definitely tired. Praying the scan next week goes well.
 
Ali, I've only had one panic attack and it was on the plane to seattle last year.... They are horrible things so I send you loads of sparkly positive energy!

BabyW I'm so excited for you! I'm sending you and Angel loads of sticky bean, baby :dust: and look forward to hearing how your journey goes! feeling tired is a good thing about now!

love to all my BnB ladies,

phil.
 
Phil!! Great to hear from you!! Saria is beautiful!!

Yes we have 2 BFPs right now.. BabyWhisperer and Angel! :wohoo:

I talked to my FS office this morning and they said they heard back from the lab about my biopsy. They are still on track for getting the results to us next week.:thumbup:

I'm having a rough day.. I won't go into details but I had a panic attack this morning. :cry: I haven't had a full blown panic attack in ears. :nope: I should have taken the day off. I think perhaps I will leave after Tech Review at 2. I just need some R&R and no more BS.

Ali I'm so sorry. I've only had 1 panic attack in my life and it was awful. What set it off? Are you ok? Take some time and rest and if you can do any breathing and meditative exercises to calm yourself. I hope you're ok.

Hi Phil, your daughter is beautiful. I love those baby blues!

Afm nothing new, headache today, not as weepy but definitely tired. Praying the scan next week goes well.

I got a letter from my HOA stating that the fence that I had put in 5 years ago, was not put in properly. It also stated that I had until May 4th to get all the paperwork and supporting documents stating why it was installed that way to them or I was going to have to pay to have it all ripped out and put in the right spot. The issue is that it was put against the sidewalk, and there was supposed to be a 5ft easeway. Well I've already had this grandfathered in once. So why are they hassleing me again? Normally this wouldn't have given me a panic attack. But add being on Lupron, having AF, stressing about a work issue, stressing about my biopsy results, and having to do all the prep work for my hardwood install starting Monday, and I just broke. I popped 2 xanax (shhh) and am much calmer now. I called my Mom and she is like a mamma bear. She was like.. let me at 'em! I'll fix this!! :haha: She is so funny. She loves projects like this. Have I said that I love my Mom recently?

Anyway, as I said.. under normal circumstances this wouldn't be an issue, but couple it with the other 5-10 things I'm juggling and splat.. I just lost it.

I am going to head out early today, I just need some ME time.

I'm sure your scan will go well!!! Glad you are feeling ok. I bet MS will start in the next week or 2, so get all the rest you can now, and eat! :hug:
 
Phil!! Great to hear from you!! Saria is beautiful!!

Yes we have 2 BFPs right now.. BabyWhisperer and Angel! :wohoo:

I talked to my FS office this morning and they said they heard back from the lab about my biopsy. They are still on track for getting the results to us next week.:thumbup:

I'm having a rough day.. I won't go into details but I had a panic attack this morning. :cry: I haven't had a full blown panic attack in ears. :nope: I should have taken the day off. I think perhaps I will leave after Tech Review at 2. I just need some R&R and no more BS.

Ali I'm so sorry. I've only had 1 panic attack in my life and it was awful. What set it off? Are you ok? Take some time and rest and if you can do any breathing and meditative exercises to calm yourself. I hope you're ok.

Hi Phil, your daughter is beautiful. I love those baby blues!

Afm nothing new, headache today, not as weepy but definitely tired. Praying the scan next week goes well.

I got a letter from my HOA stating that the fence that I had put in 5 years ago, was not put in properly. It also stated that I had until May 4th to get all the paperwork and supporting documents stating why it was installed that way to them or I was going to have to pay to have it all ripped out and put in the right spot. The issue is that it was put against the sidewalk, and there was supposed to be a 5ft easeway. Well I've already had this grandfathered in once. So why are they hassleing me again? Normally this wouldn't have given me a panic attack. But add being on Lupron, having AF, stressing about a work issue, stressing about my biopsy results, and having to do all the prep work for my hardwood install starting Monday, and I just broke. I popped 2 xanax (shhh) and am much calmer now. I called my Mom and she is like a mamma bear. She was like.. let me at 'em! I'll fix this!! :haha: She is so funny. She loves projects like this. Have I said that I love my Mom recently?

Anyway, as I said.. under normal circumstances this wouldn't be an issue, but couple it with the other 5-10 things I'm juggling and splat.. I just lost it.

I am going to head out early today, I just need some ME time.

I'm sure your scan will go well!!! Glad you are feeling ok. I bet MS will start in the next week or 2, so get all the rest you can now, and eat! :hug:

You are definitely overwhelmed. Your mom is great to help you! Just know that the meds will increase your anxiety and try not to overreact. Have you seen those Stay Calm signs? Like Stay Calm and Carry On. You need one of those and repeat your mantras!

Can we please stop saying ms will start in a week or 2? Maybe I will be one of those freak women who doesn't get it. I pray!!! I can't imagine working on my trading desk with how things are right now after they pushed my trader out and getting sick at work. Omg please no!

How are you today Coy, Sams, Melly, Twiggers, Chantal and the rest of you lovely ladies?

Afm, stubborn headache!!! Boobs are ginormous. I might need to shop for bras or borrow some from Ali!!!
 
Phil!! Great to hear from you!! Saria is beautiful!!

Yes we have 2 BFPs right now.. BabyWhisperer and Angel! :wohoo:

I talked to my FS office this morning and they said they heard back from the lab about my biopsy. They are still on track for getting the results to us next week.:thumbup:

I'm having a rough day.. I won't go into details but I had a panic attack this morning. :cry: I haven't had a full blown panic attack in ears. :nope: I should have taken the day off. I think perhaps I will leave after Tech Review at 2. I just need some R&R and no more BS.

Ali I'm so sorry. I've only had 1 panic attack in my life and it was awful. What set it off? Are you ok? Take some time and rest and if you can do any breathing and meditative exercises to calm yourself. I hope you're ok.

Hi Phil, your daughter is beautiful. I love those baby blues!

Afm nothing new, headache today, not as weepy but definitely tired. Praying the scan next week goes well.

I got a letter from my HOA stating that the fence that I had put in 5 years ago, was not put in properly. It also stated that I had until May 4th to get all the paperwork and supporting documents stating why it was installed that way to them or I was going to have to pay to have it all ripped out and put in the right spot. The issue is that it was put against the sidewalk, and there was supposed to be a 5ft easeway. Well I've already had this grandfathered in once. So why are they hassleing me again? Normally this wouldn't have given me a panic attack. But add being on Lupron, having AF, stressing about a work issue, stressing about my biopsy results, and having to do all the prep work for my hardwood install starting Monday, and I just broke. I popped 2 xanax (shhh) and am much calmer now. I called my Mom and she is like a mamma bear. She was like.. let me at 'em! I'll fix this!! :haha: She is so funny. She loves projects like this. Have I said that I love my Mom recently?

Anyway, as I said.. under normal circumstances this wouldn't be an issue, but couple it with the other 5-10 things I'm juggling and splat.. I just lost it.

I am going to head out early today, I just need some ME time.

I'm sure your scan will go well!!! Glad you are feeling ok. I bet MS will start in the next week or 2, so get all the rest you can now, and eat! :hug:

You are definitely overwhelmed. Your mom is great to help you! Just know that the meds will increase your anxiety and try not to overreact. Have you seen those Stay Calm signs? Like Stay Calm and Carry On. You need one of those and repeat your mantras!

Can we please stop saying ms will start in a week or 2? Maybe I will be one of those freak women who doesn't get it. I pray!!! I can't imagine working on my trading desk with how things are right now after they pushed my trader out and getting sick at work. Omg please no!

How are you today Coy, Sams, Melly, Twiggers, Chantal and the rest of you lovely ladies?

Afm, stubborn headache!!! Boobs are ginormous. I might need to shop for bras or borrow some from Ali!!!

I'm doing better now.. still angry about the entire situation. Stupid HOA! I mean really? The fence has been there for almost 6 years.. is it really hurting anyone? :haha:

Well maybe you won't get it! Not everyone does :thumbup: Sounds like you have some stress going on as well. Like we need it when we are already dealing with so much! UGH.

I'm with you about the BB's mine are jumping off the page huge. I think I need a bigger cup too! :wacko: I know its the hormones, and I should get some relief sometime next week. [-o< it is good news!

Too bad we didn't live closer, we could go bra shopping!!!
 
Coy is going to have her assessment done this afternoon.. I hope she is doing well and that her DH is managing the baby and DD's :thumbup: Looking forward to hearing how it all went!!
 
Ali sorry to hear about your panick attack. I never fully recovered from the one I had after I was mugged at knifepoint in 2009. The doctor said I had post traumatic stress disorder from it. Hope you feel better soon :hugs: Hope the headache with your fence gets sorted out soon!

Babywhisperer yay for big boobs! I was looking forward to going bra shopping when mine no longer fit.

Coy I am sure you aced that accessment exam!! :hugs:

They have a license plate of the suspect for Boston bombing. Authorities know where he lives. I am watching breaking news and they are searching the house right now.

Launcelot and Portia, my 2 clown loach fish died on Wednesday. Mystery death, we even put them in a seperate "hospital" tank to treat them for ich etc. They were so entertaining. I miss them. The new angelfish know me so well they come to me everytime I go near the aquarium. They are babies but growing quickly with all the bloodworms I am feeding them. I know this was not ttc related but they are my little babies :haha:

Still spotting but no af yet. New insurance sucks. I spent alot of time on the phone with them. The last bill for 1,498 they only covered for $11!! They said it's because we have to pay our deductible. I told them that isn't fair because they should be taking it out gradually not all at once. They said I will be covered 80% from now on because I have paid the $2500 deductable. I had to write a dispute. Sorry about the rant.

Wishing all you ladies a wonderful weekend!
 
Launcelot and Portia, my 2 clown loach fish on Wednesday. Mystery death, we even put them in a seperate "hospital" tank to treat them for ich etc. They were so entertaining. I miss them. The angelfish know me so well they come to me everytime I go near the aquarium. They are babies but growing quickly with all the bloodworms I am feeding them. I know this was not ttc related but they are my little babies :haha:

Wishing all you ladies a wonderful weekend!

AWW.. sorry about your clown loach fish. I had to watch over a friends tank once, and it was sooooo hard. You have to be so careful with cleaning and making sure the fish are OK! Can you go get some more? If they make you happy you should get some!!! :thumbup:

Hope you have been doing well otherwise!
 
I posted my message too early cuz my page froze up and I didnt want to start over so edited and added to my message. Philomena your baby Saria has such beautiful blue eyes :kiss:
 
The tank's nitrites are too high. Dh has had an fish tank before the house fire so I thought he knew more about taking care of the aquarium. He bought a chemistry set that tests the nitrates etc. Everything was good except the nitrites! (different form nitrates which are fine).They are dangerously high! I clean the tank daily with a special battery operated vacumn and do water changes every other day so the tank couldn't be cleaner. I have read that adding lots of live plants at once causes nitrates to spike. I think this is the cause.

Launcelot and Portia, my 2 clown loach fish on Wednesday. Mystery death, we even put them in a seperate "hospital" tank to treat them for ich etc. They were so entertaining. I miss them. The angelfish know me so well they come to me everytime I go near the aquarium. They are babies but growing quickly with all the bloodworms I am feeding them. I know this was not ttc related but they are my little babies :haha:

Wishing all you ladies a wonderful weekend!

AWW.. sorry about your clown loach fish. I had to watch over a friends tank once, and it was sooooo hard. You have to be so careful with cleaning and making sure the fish are OK! Can you go get some more? If they make you happy you should get some!!! :thumbup:

Hope you have been doing well otherwise!
 
I posted my message too early cause my page froze up and I didnt want to start over so edited and added to my message. Philomena your baby Saria has such beautiful blue eyes :kiss:

Chantal.. That is normal. They take the deductible out immediately. Then after that everything is covered at your co-insurance rate. My insurance is great though because imaging and labs are covered at 100%, so I don't have to pay for those items at all. Each insurance company is different and each policy is different. Good news is that you shouldn't have any more big bills on your insurance now!! :thumbup:
Can you buy up, or get supplemental insurance? I bought up from our base insurance to reduce my deductible to $1000 and have 0% co-insurance. It made the most sense for me should I have a MC or give birth. All of these things will be covered after I pay the $1000 deductible.
The other thing you can do is buy supplemental insurance that will pay YOU for the amount of your deducible and co-insurance. So basically it will pay anything extra that you normally would have to pay. So you can look into that as well.

Sorry you are having a rough day! :hug:
 
Thanks Ali I will look into that. Yes dh chose a lower premium for the insurance thinking we would be paying everything out of pocket for the donor egg anyway! Men! They never plan for unexpected bfp's or unexpected illness. :growlmad: :grr:

I posted my message too early cause my page froze up and I didnt want to start over so edited and added to my message. Philomena your baby Saria has such beautiful blue eyes :kiss:

Chantal.. That is normal. They take the deductible out immediately. Then after that everything is covered at your co-insurance rate. My insurance is great though because imaging and labs are covered at 100%, so I don't have to pay for those items at all. Each insurance company is different and each policy is different. Good news is that you shouldn't have any more big bills on your insurance now!! :thumbup:
Can you buy up, or get supplemental insurance? I bought up from our base insurance to reduce my deductible to $1000 and have 0% co-insurance. It made the most sense for me should I have a MC or give birth. All of these things will be covered after I pay the $1000 deductible.
The other thing you can do is buy supplemental insurance that will pay YOU for the amount of your deducible and co-insurance. So basically it will pay anything extra that you normally would have to pay. So you can look into that as well.

Sorry you are having a rough day! :hug:
 
Thanks Ali I will look into that. Yes dh chose a lower premium for the insurance thinking we would be paying everything out of pocket for the donor egg anyway! Men! They never plan for unexpected bfp's or unexpected illness. :growlmad: :grr:

Yep, I had the mid plan last year, which had a $1500 deductible and 20% co-insurance, but they did away with that plan and now its a $2500 deductible and 30% co-insurance. So that is why I had to buy up. I didn't have a choice but to get the more expensive insurance :cry: They are basically making the cheap insurance so horrible that nobody will get it. :dohh: So now I'm paying $80/mo for insurance where I used to be paying nothing :cry: Wasn't OBAMACARE supposed to make healthcare affordable? It has only made things worse :wacko:
 
Where is everyone? Coy how did your testing go?

Yeah Coy how did it go??

How are you feeling Ali? Any resolution with HOA yet?

Chantal sorry about the fish. I know the chemicals can be based to balance. Me, I don't even have a plant bc I never know when to water or if I have over watered? I'm much better with babies thankfully.

Meanwhile I passed out just after 9, late enough to see that they captured the second bomber which I'm sure made people in Boston rest easier. I woke up at 7 and started cleaning and just stopped. I vacuumed, cleaned out refrigerator, dusted, scrubbed and went a little crazy. I broke my vacuum! I have a lot of energy and cleaning like a lunatic is what I do right before my period and up yesterday's headache is what happens 2 days before af. I'm scared. I don't feel pregnant and feel like af will come. I always clean like mad before it comes. And I have crazy energy the day before. I've had no energy until today. What gives???
 
Alicatt. My mom suffers from panic attacks. Its serious stuff. Its usually caused by a hormonal imbalance. So you may want to tell your doc. Take deep breathes and meditate.

Coy. Hope you did great on your test.

Phil. How beautiful. You give me hope that having a child is possible.

Chantal. Sorry about the fish. Keeping them healthy is a hard job.

Babyw. How are you feeling

Afm. I think I finally ovulated. Now im debating when to do my next cycle. I really feel like a need to detox. I finally realized that ivf took alot out of me. I also was pondering, does having ivf make it impossible to conceive spontaneously. I really worked on getting that egg this cycle. But we shall see. I think im going to to join Alicatt and do a juice cleanse. I met someone that did the joe reboot. I think that's what my body needs.
 
BabyWhisperer - You had 2 great BETA's there is no reason to feel that you are going to get AF. I have heard it is normal to have some cramping and even some spotting in the first weeks. So just try to relax and enjoy the energy you have while you can. Most women say they are exhausted and nauseous in the first trimester, so here is hoping that you have an easy go of it!! :thumbup: If you are really worried you can always call on Monday and request another BETA, see if they'll let you come in. Can't hurt to ask :thumbup: I know I probably would :haha: I think if I'm successful this time I'm going to need to buy stock in First Response! :rofl: because I'm literally going to be POAS daily.

Sams - Do what you feel is right in your gut, but if you want my opinion, here it is. When you had your last IVF, they probably used all of your antral follicles up. An egg takes 3 months to mature, starting from before it is an antral follicle until it becomes a mature egg. So the theory is that if you do IVF cycles every 2-3 months you should have your egg reserve back to normal. Plus you are taking herbs and teas and supplements that are meant to improve your antral follicle count. When they do the baseline at the beginning of your cycle they do this count. If you only have 2-3 antral follicles then you will at most only have 2-3 follicles grow. So waiting 2-3 months and continuing on the regmine you are on with your Asian medicine man is probably your best bet. Then do a cycle in say May/Jun/July.

Coy where on earth are you?? :sadangel: We miss you!!! How are you doing? Everything go well yesterday?

AFM Sams, really? Panic attacks are related to hormones? I haven't had one since 2009 so they don't happen often. The good news is that I didn't smoke a cigarette :thumbup: I managed to get to work too.. YAY.

I did get some resolution on the HOA thing. It turns out that someone wanted to put a fence like mine along the sidewalk and they were told they couldn't. Well those neighbors raised a stink because mine is that way :growlmad: So that is why I got a letter stating that if I couldn't provide documentation on it, that they were going to make me move mine. When I talked to the property manager he basically said that he thought it was ludicrous, but since the other homeowner was making a stink they had to go through the motions. He said it would be up to the board to make the decision and he felt that they wouldn't care. So I went rooting through my file cabinet and I found the approval of my fence! :headspin: It was signed by the HOA at the time (the builder). So I am going to scan and email that to the property manager and politely tell him and the board to STFU (shut the F up) :haha:

So that is all settled now :thumbup:

My mom helped me get 2 of my 4 bedrooms prepped for the hardwoods, and I'd already done 1, so now all that is left is my master bedroom and a few under the bed storage lugs. So I'll do that tomorrow. After we did the moving of stuff, we went out for lunch on the intercoastal for seafood and then had a pedicure. Now we're having a torrential rain fall and I hope my Mom can see her way home.

I'm off shortly to get a few things for our Bunco tonight, and I think I might run to the mall to pick up the clothes I ordered. May as well get that done on my way!! Then I don't have to go out at all tomorrow. :thumbup: I can complete the picking up of my bedroom and get everything prepped for the installers. The issue is that I can't have anything on the floor (no shoes, or clothes hanging low), plus all the books have to be off book shelves and kick nacks have to be put away so they don't get broken. I'd taken over my spare bathroom and am piling everything in there, as opposed to carting it all down stairs. :wacko: Oh well, I'd say I'm about 60% done.

On the FET front.. nothing new.. I updated my signature with the latest news. Still waiting for the results of the biopsy but I've been told we'll get those this week. AF has been really bad this month, I'm still bleeding and its been 4 days! Like really bleeding. Usually by now it is pretty much gone. I'm also still having cramping and my uterus feels sore. So hopefully that is my uterus shedding properly and getting ready to build a nice receptive lining! :thumbup:

I hope everyone is having a wonderful Saturday! :hug:
 
So I am very new to this posting. I am 38 years old and have been ttc for 9 years. I had a miscarriage in Dec 12 at 6wks after being told that I would probably never have children again. My husband and I have decided to try again. Went through most of the tests just to get clomid. I am on day 4 of 50mg and so hoping that I ovulate this month.
 

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