Welcome to 'Trying To Conceive Over 35'

[sweetiyam]

Congrats to you and yours. I am currently trying you gave me hope. I had a tubal reversal and I'm so worried. Good news always keeps hope alive

 

[Babywhisperer]

Ok ladies its been a minute but I have good news I have a BFP! My HCG level is 91% and my progesterone is 11.5. I am so excited but have to recheck on Friday! I went to the fertility doctor on last week for initial visit and now this week I am pregnant never got to finish the rest of the visits. God is so good! Wish me continue blessings ladies.

Congrats and a H&H 9mos to you!

 

[brighteyez73]

Congrats to you and yours. I am currently trying you gave me hope. I had a tubal reversal and I'm so worried. Good news always keeps hope alive

It will happen!! Baby Dust

 

[brighteyez73]

Ok ladies its been a minute but I have good news I have a BFP! My HCG level is 91% and my progesterone is 11.5. I am so excited but have to recheck on Friday! I went to the fertility doctor on last week for initial visit and now this week I am pregnant never got to finish the rest of the visits. God is so good! Wish me continue blessings ladies.

Congrats and a H&H 9mos to you!

Thank you so much Babywhisperer!!! We are so excited and grateful!!!

 

[AngelSerenity]

Hi ladies, initially just a quick post from me. I haven't been on for around 2 months now as I have been going through some major stress and changes. I decided to leave my DH in a hurry mid August after one final incident regarding his drinking and surrounding problems / attitude and I'm only just now settled into a rental property, and my broadband went live today .

Looking forward to having an online social life again.

Apart from the major upset and on-going strain from DH I know I've made the right decision, I'm already happier and the stress is less than when I was dealing with his issues while at home. His personality has changed and he cant even accept or understand why I left . He's going to bankrupt me but at least I'm safe, have my sanity and my children will not be exposed to his tempers and moods. Pure denial from him but I've been getting counselling since just before I left and I now realise how much emotional and mental abuse he put me under, even if he is not conscious to it. I took on a mothering role with him and now I've left and he isn't controlling me he aint liking it, nobody to vent his moods to if you ask me. I'm doing this for my family and while I know the next year or so is going to be complete madness with a toddler and a new born at least I don't have to face that stress everyday.

Bubs is doing ok, I'm now 35 weeks ! I've being going to hospital basically every week for the past couple of months for growth scans, haematology or midwife check ups. Baby is VERY quiet which has me worried a bit and that something isn't quite right but I am trying to remain zen about it. My DS kicked the life out of me, this one I hardly feel at all. Docs trying to reassure if its normal all the way through it should be ok but I cant help worrying. Growth has slowed down to below the 45th percentile so I'm anxious for next week's scan to make sure it hasn't slowed down anymore. Apparently I'm high risk for a mature placenta on top of the other risks with clotting, age etc, it could fail anytime now, slowing growth can be a sign. There aren't any signs of baby being in distress so I'm just putting it down to my own stress and baby will be fine. You all know how it is.

Plan is to take me in at 38 or 39 weeks if I make it that far, so not long now. Head is down so hopefully I can have a normal birth, even if I do have to face an induction. My DS was here in under 2 1/2 hours from first twinges to end so wondering if I'll be as quick this time?

Anyway I've about 2 months worth of gossip to catch up on here so will get reading and speak soon! Hope you are all well and welcome all new ladies xoxox

 

[brighteyez73]

Ok ladies the doctors office just called and my resolution for HCG went from 91 to 335.5 and my progesterone went from a 11.5 to 12.5. Iam so excited and filled with joy. He asked me to have them repeat again next Friday.....does anyone know why the third check?

 

[alicatt]

Ok ladies the doctors office just called and my resolution for HCG went from 91 to 335.5 and my progesterone went from a 11.5 to 12.5. Iam so excited and filled with joy. He asked me to have them repeat again next Friday.....does anyone know why the third check?

They like to see your HCG double every 48 hours and 3 tests are normal. Have they suggested progesterone supplementation? Your progesterone is on the low side, it might be a good idea to ask about it? I think the lower limit is 10, and ideally it should be between 20-40. Your HCG looks good! Congrats!

 

[alicatt]

Angel!!

Good to hear from you! I'm glad things are settling down in your new place. You've done the right thing and you will do it!!
Keep us posted with how things go!! Amazing that it will only be a few more weeks until baby is here!

AFM.. I am sick, acute sinusitis but at least I now have antibiotics and nasal spray that has helped a bunch since I took the meds a few hours ago.
It looks like I'll be using donor again. My BF wants to be the dad but won't get the SA or FDA regulated tests done. I don't think he quite understands that this is happening this month and that there are deadlines that need to be met. It's a complicated process to do IVF and he isn't aware. So I've picked out 2 donors and will place the order on the 15th, once I've been to Canada and seen him and explained all of this to him. That way if he somehow decides to be the dad we will have the chance to
make it happen.
I start Lupron on Monday, then my birthday is Tuesday, and head to Canada on Thursday. It's Canadian thanksgiving on the 13th. Then I start stims on the 18th! ER is expected to be on Halloween!! So exciting! I'm starting my acupuncture this weekend too! This time next month I will be PUPO!!! YAY!!!

 

[Samsfan]

Very excited for you brighteyes!!!

Alicatt. Its your turn to turn up the heat on those eggs

Me.... ER tomorrow!!!!

 

[alicatt]

Very excited for you brighteyes!!!

Alicatt. Its your turn to turn up the heat on those eggs

Me.... ER tomorrow!!!!

Good luck tomorrow!! Let us know how it goes!

 

[Babywhisperer]

Hi ladies, initially just a quick post from me. I haven't been on for around 2 months now as I have been going through some major stress and changes. I decided to leave my DH in a hurry mid August after one final incident regarding his drinking and surrounding problems / attitude and I'm only just now settled into a rental property, and my broadband went live today .

Looking forward to having an online social life again.

Apart from the major upset and on-going strain from DH I know I've made the right decision, I'm already happier and the stress is less than when I was dealing with his issues while at home. His personality has changed and he cant even accept or understand why I left . He's going to bankrupt me but at least I'm safe, have my sanity and my children will not be exposed to his tempers and moods. Pure denial from him but I've been getting counselling since just before I left and I now realise how much emotional and mental abuse he put me under, even if he is not conscious to it. I took on a mothering role with him and now I've left and he isn't controlling me he aint liking it, nobody to vent his moods to if you ask me. I'm doing this for my family and while I know the next year or so is going to be complete madness with a toddler and a new born at least I don't have to face that stress everyday.

Bubs is doing ok, I'm now 35 weeks ! I've being going to hospital basically every week for the past couple of months for growth scans, haematology or midwife check ups. Baby is VERY quiet which has me worried a bit and that something isn't quite right but I am trying to remain zen about it. My DS kicked the life out of me, this one I hardly feel at all. Docs trying to reassure if its normal all the way through it should be ok but I cant help worrying. Growth has slowed down to below the 45th percentile so I'm anxious for next week's scan to make sure it hasn't slowed down anymore. Apparently I'm high risk for a mature placenta on top of the other risks with clotting, age etc, it could fail anytime now, slowing growth can be a sign. There aren't any signs of baby being in distress so I'm just putting it down to my own stress and baby will be fine. You all know how it is.

Plan is to take me in at 38 or 39 weeks if I make it that far, so not long now. Head is down so hopefully I can have a normal birth, even if I do have to face an induction. My DS was here in under 2 1/2 hours from first twinges to end so wondering if I'll be as quick this time?

Anyway I've about 2 months worth of gossip to catch up on here so will get reading and speak soon! Hope you are all well and welcome all new ladies xoxox

I was wondering what was going on with you. I'm sorry for the upheaval but it sounds like it needed to happen and you will have a more calm and stable environment for when baby arrives. Have faith in yourself that this is the best and only decision for you and your family. You are very strong and wise for putting you and your babies first.

35 weeks is homestretch girl! I'm so excited to see how things go for you. I know you will do great! I'm happy you checked in, please keep us apprised of how things progress!!

 

[Babywhisperer]

Very excited for you brighteyes!!!

Alicatt. Its your turn to turn up the heat on those eggs

Me.... ER tomorrow!!!!

Omg so excited for you!! Go eggies go!!

 

[Babywhisperer]

Angel!!

Good to hear from you! I'm glad things are settling down in your new place. You've done the right thing and you will do it!!
Keep us posted with how things go!! Amazing that it will only be a few more weeks until baby is here!

AFM.. I am sick, acute sinusitis but at least I now have antibiotics and nasal spray that has helped a bunch since I took the meds a few hours ago.
It looks like I'll be using donor again. My BF wants to be the dad but won't get the SA or FDA regulated tests done. I don't think he quite understands that this is happening this month and that there are deadlines that need to be met. It's a complicated process to do IVF and he isn't aware. So I've picked out 2 donors and will place the order on the 15th, once I've been to Canada and seen him and explained all of this to him. That way if he somehow decides to be the dad we will have the chance to
make it happen.
I start Lupron on Monday, then my birthday is Tuesday, and head to Canada on Thursday. It's Canadian thanksgiving on the 13th. Then I start stims on the 18th! ER is expected to be on Halloween!! So exciting! I'm starting my acupuncture this weekend too! This time next month I will be PUPO!!! YAY!!!

It's all coming so fast Ali!!! So excited to see how this cycle goes. You've had some nice down time off meds and I'm happy you're doing the acupuncture. As far as your sinuses I feel your pain. I dragged my feet for years but finally got a neti pot and it helps so much. It clears out mucus and allergens and prevents infections from setting in. This last cold I was able to beat without antibiotics and I swear it was the neti pot.

How are you feeling with the upcoming cycle? We close on our house on your bday! And we move on the 15th! It's so great to have all these changes happening and Fall is such a great time for opportunity. I started my new job last year on the 9th and rolling into the Holidays is always a great time. You will be around family and friends to help keep you busy and positive. I'm really excited for you.

Afm it's nutso. We are running around preparing for the move and packing. I finally settled on a vacuum. I swear I can't just impulse buy like dh. I have to do research. If it were up to him, he would've bought a couch yesterday without measure the clearance of the basement stairwell!!! What if it didn't fit?? And he would have bought 6 gallons of paint and not a sample. Thankfully people at HD and the furniture store advised him to make sure he likes the color bc paint can't be returned and that the couch will fit down the stairs. I just stood there like, yup basically what I have been saying for weeks. I swear when I say it be dismisses it, but standing there hearing experts echoing what I said he just looked at me and smiled like "damn I hate when you're right" and he laughs!! Men!! It's like the old stereotype of not asking for directions bc they know better!

As for baby, he was subdued all week and maybe bc I had a bad week of fatigue and even some morning sickness, but last night that all changed. I'm convinced he's breakdancing in there. At one point I pushed on my belly a d he pushed back!! My belly looks like something is trying to bust out with all these lumps of baby pushing with limbs, head....

Ok back to packing. Miss you ladies. I'm hoping for a holiday season full of bfps!!

 

[Samsfan]

Angel- Your one strong lady. Hang in there.

Babywhisperer- Real exciting times. Love moving into somewhere new. Where are you moving to? And men! They love to be right.

Afm. We have 5 eggs. Better than the one they thought. I know its not alot, but all I need is one! Report tomorrow.

 

[alicatt]

Angel- Your one strong lady. Hang in there.

Babywhisperer- Real exciting times. Love moving into somewhere new. Where are you moving to? And men! They love to be right.

Afm. We have 5 eggs. Better than the one they thought. I know its not alot, but all I need is one! Report tomorrow.

Great news!!! Hopefully they all fertilize and keep going strong! When do you think transfer is? Day 3 or 5? Sending super your way!

 

[alicatt]

BabyW! You are a busy lady!!! All of this while pregnant, amazing! So excited for you and the new house and the baby,
I totally agree with you about men. They don't think about these things. My bf and possible intended father is just being an idiot! He thinks he can fly down here at the last minute, do his thing and it will be great! UMM.. NO! There is a lot of preparation as we all know that goes into an IVF. I told him that if he doesn't have his test results by the 15th and his blood work done by then I'm using donor sperm. I have to have the decision made before we start stims. MEN! He's all mad at me for picking donor sperm! I'm like really? I asked you to do the tests 3 weeks ago UGH! This cycle is happening with or without him, lol.

 

[Samsfan]

Alicatt- We are doing a 3 day! I know it is not a lot, but I'm hoping for the best!

As to your friend....that's a man for you...wait till the last minute! Tell him to get his act together! My DH did a freeze on Tuesday this time, just in case we had any issues today. No issues today..so we are good to go. Tell him this is too stressful to worry about his part!

I just woke up from being groggy I made chicken soup yesterday in preparation for today... feels good and I'm drinking some Gatorade. I was off the board because I had a real stomach bug or something from Thursday... so that was real stressful. I hadn't eaten since Thursday because it was coming out from both ends. I think the anesthesia cured it, because my stomach is much better since the procedure. Or maybe it was all the drugs... who knows...

Angel- Your one strong lady. Hang in there.

Babywhisperer- Real exciting times. Love moving into somewhere new. Where are you moving to? And men! They love to be right.

Afm. We have 5 eggs. Better than the one they thought. I know its not alot, but all I need is one! Report tomorrow.

Great news!!! Hopefully they all fertilize and keep going strong! When do you think transfer is? Day 3 or 5? Sending super your way!

 

[alicatt]

Oh my! Sorry about the stomach upset!
But glad it's over! I think the anesthesia can cause constipation, so can some pain meds. Oh and I think progesterone can to that too!
Can't wait for your fertilization report tomorrow

AFM.. I'm not worrying about John, he'll either do it or he won't. I'm ready to go with the donor and that is what matters.

 

[Samsfan]

Report!!!!!!

4 mature eggs...... 3 fertilized!!!!!!! Yippeeeeee!!!!!

 

[alicatt]

Report!!!!!!

4 mature eggs...... 3 fertilized!!!!!!! Yippeeeeee!!!!!

Great news!