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[20yearslater]

My god...ladies..make this heat bugger off! I am so freaking fed up of it already. Laid on the bed atm and feel like im stuck to the top of it!!

Had a paed appointment today for Alex which went well! He is now confirmed 100% milk allergic and that he has severe reflux disease. But they are happy with the progress he has made with the allergy milk so there will be no invasive testing etc! So proud of my lttle trooper

AF is still in the building. Definitely feeling more relaxed about ttc no2 now. We saw so many sick children today waiting for chemo. Really hammers home about how short life can be and to not spend time worrying about non important things. Going to embrace whatever nature throws at me.

x

Both of my girls were milk in tollerant - with projectile vomit. My oldest also caught croup after she received the needle at 2 months for it. she was in an
incubator for almost a month too. Just thought I would share, it wasn't fun, her father and i were not together at the time, needless to say it was stressfull and we got "together" for like a night and that's how my youngest came about LOL.

BTW - Glad I can make you laugh sugar

Oh noes honey..sounds like you must have gone through a rough time with the little ones How old were they when they grew out of it?

Oh wow at daughter no2! LOL! Either he super sperms or youre a seriously fertile freda!! x

Well, DD#1 took her until she was 3 or a little older to grow out of the milk intolerance, my youngest she was 2. Becuase they were 11 months apart they were out of it at the same time.

I was young, so was he, both girls by 18 - You are also really fertile right after giving birth - that was me, I thought i was going crazy both girls were colic as well and i was a single mom, needless to say when my youngest was born their father was no where to be found... Sigh they are all grown up now (for the most part) Oh Except their father; he's back living at mommy and daddy's house * WTF was I thinking...... I guess I'll blame it on my age back then.

Bless them Did you have the allergy milk for them?

My mum got prego with my sis at 18. Two at 18 bloody hell sounds like hard work! Obviously you have done a wonderful job at raising your princesses though. Does the dad have any contact with them now? Cant have been easy raising them alone x

It was rough, ya he has contact now, that the hard part is done, LOL. My youngest at 13 went to live with him, she had sever daddy issues, I really hoped that this would correct them, but she ended up getting worse and worse... Until the ******* took me for custody of her, just to put her into a group home 3 months later... WOW... ya, it was the hardest thing ever to face but you know what I still have a great relationship with my youngest, and her first is due in January. --- she'll be 18

I had both of then on soy formula (neither of them liked my milk) - HA!! I was so young, i still had cravings after i had them with my oldest it was BBQ chips, I had no idea that this was the reason why she didn't want my milk. Live and learn, right.

 

[20yearslater]

Please make this heat bugger off!

Sigh..having a right stress triying to work out how to make a cot fit in the bedroom...Alex is waving his arms and feets around too much, banging the side of his moses basket and waking himself up!

Starting opks today for the next week! Do I want a positive or not hmm...! x

Sure you do, you want that positive!!! In really bad heat i go stick my feet in the tub, just my feet, the cold water cools down my whole body temp. If i can't get the feet in the tub, I hold my hands under the cold water instead.

 

[20yearslater]

YAY!!! I got my CH's today!!!

So happy to see that I O'd this month, cause last month was a flop -.- Was supose to go home today, but was making sure that I O'd before i did the 10hour drive.

 

[20yearslater]

YAY!!! -- I got my OPK 1st positive today. It's a little late but better then never right?

Laura - I would have dumped water on him before going downstairs. What a brat.

ALWAYS a celebration time!! Im starting them today..hopefully i dont have a 2wk cycle again and i see a pos opk this time around so i can celebrate with you : x

How are you making out with peeing on a stick? Have you got your ++ OPK

 

[sarahuk]

So it looks like im leaving to go at 7am, I won't reach there till 5pm.

So here's the question for all you ladies, this time should we BD everyday like we did last time, every other day or 2x's a day.

We have been kind of wondering whether or not he has low (love this guy) So I've been reading every other to help it rebuild, but dam I tell you it's hard to keep our hands off when you know your only getting some for 1 week, and haven't had any for 2 weeks (plus Oing always makes me well......wanting to put more quarter into the bull then the bull can hold) HAHAHAHAHAHA

anyhow, what do you think, we also have been using the pre-seed, if you have enough of the ewcm do you really need to use it? or is it the more the merrier... If he is low wouldn't some of them get lost in the joy ride.







Let me know what you think... Night everyone!! I have a 10 hour drive and at least 15 whole minutes of the first round of the BD to do tomorrow.

YAY!!! So happy that you are going! Please be safe on the car jourey hun.

Its hard to say about the sex frequency. On a personal level, you name it, we tried it lol. All I can say is that the three cycles I have conceived in my life, all three times we had sex every day through the window. The first and third we had atleast one day in that window when we went multiple times. This one with Alex, we were celebrating our anniversary and went on a bit of a f**k frenzy (forgive my french!) and went 4 times in the day 2 days before my ovulation

Bull...haha! God girl...I have to say..I LOVE YOU! LOL...you make me giggle so much!!

Ok serious questions aside...what makes you think he has low sperm count? There are things that you can have him take that will assist you with the spermies. For one, folic acid is good for men (I was so surprised to find this out!). Get him to also take a 1000mg vitamin c pill every day, and theres also something called Selenium (think that is how its spelled) that can also help make the sperm better quality.

Preseed is one of those things that doesnt harm ttc whether you have ewcm or not. I had no issues with the CM but we did try the preseed Its supposed to make things more sperm friendly and help it live longer/get on its way, so I dont think it will harm to use it. Id recommend not using the noted 3g application amount tho. I found that sooooo overkill. About 1g is a perfect dose if you find the 3g too much like swingling a cat in a carwash ^^

xx

Phew, Im here, I arrived at 6:30 last night.... I have PUMPED him full of drugs LMAO he is on (for a month now)
1. 1000mg of Vit C
2. 500mg of Vit E
3. A Multi Vit
4. 6000mg of L-Argine
5. 200mg of CoQ-10
6. 50mgs of Zinc
7. 200mg of Tongkat Ali (aka: testo Jack)

We've used preseed last month was the first time only cause we were BDing all the time 2x's a day and i was drying up and that is odd for me, my Libdo is so high that I normally am the one getting told " not tonight" I've heard every excuse i bet known to man. HA!!!

I was on the prenatal Vits but then i hear that too much Vit C will decrease your chance of conceiving( Plus the iron doesn't like my bowels couldn't shit for a week) So now I am eating children's gummies, - without iron. so much more fun and yummy.

DH and I deceided to go with once a day and see how that goes - he said at the end of it last month he could no longer feel his penis - soooooooo I guess that means to stop acting like it's a pogo stick and use it more like my personal pet that can be broken - like the book of "mice and men" when Lenny was petting the puppy to hard and snapped his neck,

WoW ^ that was a little graphic LOL, i get a bit wreakless during this time of month.

Anyhow - I found at times that even using 1mg of the preeseed was too much but what do you do.

HAHAHAHA!!!! Oh my GOD...I laughed so hard at this update Sounds like you have all the bases covered my darling! I found myself wondering if his pee is still pee colour with all youre pumping him with lol! x

hahahaha, IKR - he says it a bright yellow, his cum is an off white yellowish tingue to it too. is that normal? He's always been that colour(cum) my X of 13yrs was fixed so i have no idea what is normal sperm? So I guess my question is - is a yellowed tingue normal/off white?

Hmm you know..Im not sure..its been a long time since I saw it! My ex totally hit me in the eye some years back and I wear contact lenses..had red eye for three weeks..wasnt pretty...so I tend to shut my eyes and pray for a bad aim!

xx

 

[sarahuk]

YAY!!! -- I got my OPK 1st positive today. It's a little late but better then never right?

Laura - I would have dumped water on him before going downstairs. What a brat.

ALWAYS a celebration time!! Im starting them today..hopefully i dont have a 2wk cycle again and i see a pos opk this time around so i can celebrate with you : x

YAY!! I hope so too. I was starting to get a bit upset with the no show of the LH surge, DH tells me though when i came out of the bathroom with the Positive reading he told me that you would have thought it was a prego test LOLOLOL I was that happy.

But it IS that exciting!!!

I also see from your chart that you have ovulation! WOOHOOO!! Come on eggy!! Your BnB aunties are waiting for you to give mummy that bfp! x

 

[sarahuk]

What happened there, My temp didnt' dip, it just jumped.... and not very high. I havent' pee'd on a stick yet today, - I no longer NEED sex, still going to do it for good measure, but did i really O yesterday?

Oh and BTW- I started to eat pineapple core, too heard it was supose to help with implantation.


Anyone know if you've o'd would you still get a second positive on the OPK?

Yep its very possible if your last opk basically picked up the end of the surge of hormone. It can come back with a positive Unfortunately, theres no way to be 100% sure till we see what your next temp does. I always say keep bump n grinding until the opks go negative and you see a temp drop.

The reason i say this is because i spent months stopping sex after my pos opk and first temp rise. We later found out that it wasnt unusual for me to have 5 days of positive opks and -then- drop the egg. And ofc i wasnt having sex then so no bfp

Remember that we can have days of psoitive opks because the ovary can get ready to release the egg but it can get delayed, thus why we can have days of them going +. This is why i think opks alone are not enough to determine whether youve ovulated or whether youre out of the fertile window yet x

OH MY GOODNESS - You have no idea how much better I feel after reading this. The only problem is... I am supose to leave by wed. here's hoping the egg drops soon.

I looked at your chart and 10000% agree that you dropped your egg and are now post ovulation..so you can relax in the knowledge that you did everything you could this cycle x

 

[sarahuk]

My god...ladies..make this heat bugger off! I am so freaking fed up of it already. Laid on the bed atm and feel like im stuck to the top of it!!

Had a paed appointment today for Alex which went well! He is now confirmed 100% milk allergic and that he has severe reflux disease. But they are happy with the progress he has made with the allergy milk so there will be no invasive testing etc! So proud of my lttle trooper

AF is still in the building. Definitely feeling more relaxed about ttc no2 now. We saw so many sick children today waiting for chemo. Really hammers home about how short life can be and to not spend time worrying about non important things. Going to embrace whatever nature throws at me.

x

Both of my girls were milk in tollerant - with projectile vomit. My oldest also caught croup after she received the needle at 2 months for it. she was in an
incubator for almost a month too. Just thought I would share, it wasn't fun, her father and i were not together at the time, needless to say it was stressfull and we got "together" for like a night and that's how my youngest came about LOL.

BTW - Glad I can make you laugh sugar

Oh noes honey..sounds like you must have gone through a rough time with the little ones How old were they when they grew out of it?

Oh wow at daughter no2! LOL! Either he super sperms or youre a seriously fertile freda!! x

Well, DD#1 took her until she was 3 or a little older to grow out of the milk intolerance, my youngest she was 2. Becuase they were 11 months apart they were out of it at the same time.

I was young, so was he, both girls by 18 - You are also really fertile right after giving birth - that was me, I thought i was going crazy both girls were colic as well and i was a single mom, needless to say when my youngest was born their father was no where to be found... Sigh they are all grown up now (for the most part) Oh Except their father; he's back living at mommy and daddy's house * WTF was I thinking...... I guess I'll blame it on my age back then.

Bless them Did you have the allergy milk for them?

My mum got prego with my sis at 18. Two at 18 bloody hell sounds like hard work! Obviously you have done a wonderful job at raising your princesses though. Does the dad have any contact with them now? Cant have been easy raising them alone x

It was rough, ya he has contact now, that the hard part is done, LOL. My youngest at 13 went to live with him, she had sever daddy issues, I really hoped that this would correct them, but she ended up getting worse and worse... Until the ******* took me for custody of her, just to put her into a group home 3 months later... WOW... ya, it was the hardest thing ever to face but you know what I still have a great relationship with my youngest, and her first is due in January. --- she'll be 18

I had both of then on soy formula (neither of them liked my milk) - HA!! I was so young, i still had cravings after i had them with my oldest it was BBQ chips, I had no idea that this was the reason why she didn't want my milk. Live and learn, right.

For sure! The good thing is that you now know what you are dealing with so with the next you will be super prepared incase the allergy issues pop up!

What a dick your ex was!! Im just so glad that he didnt manage to poison your relationship with your youngest. So many men would have tried. x

 

[sarahuk]

Please make this heat bugger off!

Sigh..having a right stress triying to work out how to make a cot fit in the bedroom...Alex is waving his arms and feets around too much, banging the side of his moses basket and waking himself up!

Starting opks today for the next week! Do I want a positive or not hmm...! x

Sure you do, you want that positive!!! In really bad heat i go stick my feet in the tub, just my feet, the cold water cools down my whole body temp. If i can't get the feet in the tub, I hold my hands under the cold water instead.

Im sooooo going to head off now and try that! We are so bad over here because we never ever have heatwaves but the second the weather gets warm we are bitching and moaning for it to bugger off!

My opk yesterday was darker than the others so hopefully I am headed for a positive rather than af like i did last cycle at ovulation time!

x

 

[20yearslater]

So it looks like im leaving to go at 7am, I won't reach there till 5pm.

So here's the question for all you ladies, this time should we BD everyday like we did last time, every other day or 2x's a day.

We have been kind of wondering whether or not he has low (love this guy) So I've been reading every other to help it rebuild, but dam I tell you it's hard to keep our hands off when you know your only getting some for 1 week, and haven't had any for 2 weeks (plus Oing always makes me well......wanting to put more quarter into the bull then the bull can hold) HAHAHAHAHAHA

anyhow, what do you think, we also have been using the pre-seed, if you have enough of the ewcm do you really need to use it? or is it the more the merrier... If he is low wouldn't some of them get lost in the joy ride.







Let me know what you think... Night everyone!! I have a 10 hour drive and at least 15 whole minutes of the first round of the BD to do tomorrow.

YAY!!! So happy that you are going! Please be safe on the car jourey hun.

Its hard to say about the sex frequency. On a personal level, you name it, we tried it lol. All I can say is that the three cycles I have conceived in my life, all three times we had sex every day through the window. The first and third we had atleast one day in that window when we went multiple times. This one with Alex, we were celebrating our anniversary and went on a bit of a f**k frenzy (forgive my french!) and went 4 times in the day 2 days before my ovulation

Bull...haha! God girl...I have to say..I LOVE YOU! LOL...you make me giggle so much!!

Ok serious questions aside...what makes you think he has low sperm count? There are things that you can have him take that will assist you with the spermies. For one, folic acid is good for men (I was so surprised to find this out!). Get him to also take a 1000mg vitamin c pill every day, and theres also something called Selenium (think that is how its spelled) that can also help make the sperm better quality.

Preseed is one of those things that doesnt harm ttc whether you have ewcm or not. I had no issues with the CM but we did try the preseed Its supposed to make things more sperm friendly and help it live longer/get on its way, so I dont think it will harm to use it. Id recommend not using the noted 3g application amount tho. I found that sooooo overkill. About 1g is a perfect dose if you find the 3g too much like swingling a cat in a carwash ^^

xx

Phew, Im here, I arrived at 6:30 last night.... I have PUMPED him full of drugs LMAO he is on (for a month now)
1. 1000mg of Vit C
2. 500mg of Vit E
3. A Multi Vit
4. 6000mg of L-Argine
5. 200mg of CoQ-10
6. 50mgs of Zinc
7. 200mg of Tongkat Ali (aka: testo Jack)

We've used preseed last month was the first time only cause we were BDing all the time 2x's a day and i was drying up and that is odd for me, my Libdo is so high that I normally am the one getting told " not tonight" I've heard every excuse i bet known to man. HA!!!

I was on the prenatal Vits but then i hear that too much Vit C will decrease your chance of conceiving( Plus the iron doesn't like my bowels couldn't shit for a week) So now I am eating children's gummies, - without iron. so much more fun and yummy.

DH and I deceided to go with once a day and see how that goes - he said at the end of it last month he could no longer feel his penis - soooooooo I guess that means to stop acting like it's a pogo stick and use it more like my personal pet that can be broken - like the book of "mice and men" when Lenny was petting the puppy to hard and snapped his neck,

WoW ^ that was a little graphic LOL, i get a bit wreakless during this time of month.

Anyhow - I found at times that even using 1mg of the preeseed was too much but what do you do.

HAHAHAHA!!!! Oh my GOD...I laughed so hard at this update Sounds like you have all the bases covered my darling! I found myself wondering if his pee is still pee colour with all youre pumping him with lol! x

hahahaha, IKR - he says it a bright yellow, his cum is an off white yellowish tingue to it too. is that normal? He's always been that colour(cum) my X of 13yrs was fixed so i have no idea what is normal sperm? So I guess my question is - is a yellowed tingue normal/off white?

Hmm you know..Im not sure..its been a long time since I saw it! My ex totally hit me in the eye some years back and I wear contact lenses..had red eye for three weeks..wasnt pretty...so I tend to shut my eyes and pray for a bad aim!

xx

Oh my word - this makes me so sad, I know we are both in better places now my X never hit me - BUT - I thought I had a stroke. I had a cat scan done and everything he didn't come with me. I even quit smoking and I had smoked for 20 yrs. but I just needed to make sure that - that - wasn't it. In the end I found out it was him all along. He stressed me out so bad that I thought I had a stroke. My friend

OH BTW - is it just me or did we highjack this feed? LMAO ** sorry everyone, but hey I guess its good reading if someone was board.

 

[20yearslater]

Please make this heat bugger off!

Sigh..having a right stress triying to work out how to make a cot fit in the bedroom...Alex is waving his arms and feets around too much, banging the side of his moses basket and waking himself up!

Starting opks today for the next week! Do I want a positive or not hmm...! x

Sure you do, you want that positive!!! In really bad heat i go stick my feet in the tub, just my feet, the cold water cools down my whole body temp. If i can't get the feet in the tub, I hold my hands under the cold water instead.

Im sooooo going to head off now and try that! We are so bad over here because we never ever have heatwaves but the second the weather gets warm we are bitching and moaning for it to bugger off!

My opk yesterday was darker than the others so hopefully I am headed for a positive rather than af like i did last cycle at ovulation time!

x

I hope so too, does this mean you are getting AF 2xs a month? or are you having long cycles?

 

[20yearslater]

DH got evicted !!!!!!!!

He was blamed for a bunch of stupid shit, like over loading the circuits I don't understand how that is --- He didn't friggen wire the bloody friggen house!!!!

I cant see how its his fault that the AC and the Dryer are on the same circuit - again not his fault that it bloody well caught fire either. GGGrrrrr WTH -- What a bunch of bull shit

 

[Laura2806]

Hey ladies, sorry but I'm gonna be ignorant and not read through all the posts

Hope you're all ok and things are well, sorry to hear DH got evicted! Where he's stopping?

Me still no AF waiting till the weekend to test, loads easier when you don't have any in xx

 

[20yearslater]

Hey ladies, sorry but I'm gonna be ignorant and not read through all the posts

Hope you're all ok and things are well, sorry to hear DH got evicted! Where he's stopping?

Me still no AF waiting till the weekend to test, loads easier when you don't have any in xx

Not to sure what you mean by stopping? If that means living LOL-he lives in N.Y - even though we are right beside each other Canada/USA The laws are so friggen different.

I feel so down hearted as if its my fault, and I guess in a way it is. He told me this would happen, and he told me that I shouldn't come down until he has moved or whatever. But I am just very bold..... I told him tonight that I am not his whore im his wife and I cant believe that people thinks that his wife shouldn't stay with him for awhile.



So stressed that I laid down for over an hour, and Im finding it hard to eat.

 

[Laura2806]

Yh I meant living hun, sorry it's a bit tits up ATM sounds shite! Don't keep blaming yourself though, you should be able to see him whenever you want to, it's the dick of a landlord who needs a good slap and hitting back into reality! Xx

 

[Laura2806]

Can anyone tell me how to get the ticker FF gives you when you click on someone's chart into my sig please? Xxx

 

[20yearslater]

Can anyone tell me how to get the ticker FF gives you when you click on someone's chart into my sig please? Xxx

sorry sugar I have no idea,LOL

 

[20yearslater]

Ive been having these really weird pains in my left side, almost like I just ran a marathon however all I actually did was sit on my ass. it feels like a stich or a pulled mussel from running. Weird. On another note my temp was still up today, this month is so different from last month. And because this is only the second time charting I have no other normal chart to go by for myself.

I am also feeling a pinching in my bladder, I don't normally get bladder infections haven't had one in a long time. hummmm

Maybe im just a little stressed out, and of course being in the 2ww is not helping.

 

[Laura2806]

Lol thanks hun, ill have a look on the iMac and see if I can figure it out

As for the pains they sound like good signs the problem with the TWW is we put everything down to implantabtion, snuggling beans, pregnancy symptoms etc when half the time its all in out heads or something we ate

 

[20yearslater]

Lol thanks hun, ill have a look on the iMac and see if I can figure it out

As for the pains they sound like good signs the problem with the TWW is we put everything down to implantabtion, snuggling beans, pregnancy symptoms etc when half the time its all in out heads or something we ate

I know......... LMAO -- however I have 5 days left before I can start to test, not sure If I want to do it at 10 DPO or wait for a couple more, I hate seeing that BFN - im no different than anyone else. LOL

We will see, I could use that one that is 5days before your missed period that brings me to 4 days from now, HAHA - ya maybe I need a past time, something to get my mind off stuff. But man in this heat! I don't even wan to open the door to outside, lol, I didn't the dishes and broke a sweat. HA