We're all in this together!

[Pinky32]

awwww bless matt - it was lovely that he sent me a message too - i want him to feel involved and the book is for him too

i know!!!!!!!! i cant believe it! ive only been late once but i knew that cycle af would come but this time ................ im trying not to think about it

my dads taking me to a carvery at 4pm so just got to hang around and try not to think until then

Bless yah. I was actually thinking of getting him to write in it, but then I remembered how his writing is and dont want it to be unreadable lol! But we are going to sit and fill it in together!

Im so sorry from the bottom of my heart darling about today. I know its not easy to hit CD1 but we are here for you hun on the flip, I personally tried to concentrate on the fact that I was under a specialist and heading towards tests. It might not now, but in the next few days you may well also find some comfort in that.

x

yeah ive been keeping myself busy finishing my appeal, watching grease and eating chocolate

mum asked me today about calling hospital for hsg - i;ll see how i feel in the morning - feeliung very negative today and trying not to think about anything as my cramps are hurting

feeling very sorry for myself today

sarah - you should keep a pen with the book so that the ink is the same all thr way thru it

also i was thinking on certain pages, you should just write in the margins or wherever how your feeling that day - gives it a more personal touch

i dont know something like a personal message from mummybear and daddybear

5 years seems a long time but its not and time goes so quick and we always think we will remember things and we dont

even just personal notes on the back of the cover pages

 

[Pinky32]

Sarah - Awwwww how cute is your present off Pinky! Bet you can't wait to start filling it in? xxx

Pinky - You are so kind xxx

thank you natt xxx

how was your weekend?

 

[sarahuk]

Thats a really good idea hun! Im going to do that!

Its up to you what you do about the HSG, but I think honestly, if it was me in your shoes, I would not make the call this cycle. You want to be in a position where you can get the most benefit out of this procedure, they will only do it once.

The cycle of the hcg being done is the most fertile cycle youll have. And with the op being this week, youd be loosing so much fertile benefit cos I dont think bding will be really something youll be able to do after such a big op AND a bonegraft.

I know it feels like putting it off but...you might not even ovulate this cycle either with the trauma of the surgery.

I reckon the best thing you can do is get through this op, take the cycle to recover, then get the hcg done the next cycle and jump on your OH and suck the life out of his spermies!!

xx

 

[Excalibur]

Sarah - Awwwww how cute is your present off Pinky! Bet you can't wait to start filling it in? xxx

Pinky - You are so kind xxx

thank you natt xxx

how was your weekend?

You're welcome hun

My weekend was great thank you, was good to see my family again and have a good catch up

Hope you feel better soon and the cramps subside xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Im so glad that you had a good time with your family...I remember how much you said you miss them so I imagine youre on atm!

Ohhh youre a squash now! x

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Hello ladie's.

I have some really great news but dont wanna jinx it untill iv been there and it's been confirmed & no it's not a BFP lol. I wished. But it is great news. I will be able to tell you on the 12th of oct. Long way but worth it. x x x

How are you all. x x x

Pinky sorry to hear AF got you. x x x

 

[Excalibur]

Im so glad that you had a good time with your family...I remember how much you said you miss them so I imagine youre on atm!

Ohhh youre a squash now! x

Thank you hun, I have been on since Friday, I miss them so much, didn't want to leave but hey ho, don't think the kids wanted me to leave either. Last time I went, Lily wouldn't even come to me, she would just cry for her mummy or daddy, because we spent 2 nights there this time, give her time to get used to me and I had a cuddle or two and had some playtime with her, was great as I thought she had totally forgotten who I was

Yay for Squash! Been an Eggplant for the past 3 or 4 weeks!

Happy 8 weeks hunni xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Thanks hun

I reckon it must be even harder being apart when pregnant. I know from matts perspective he has said that it is. Hes said that for him he feels like his family arent a part of something massive happening in his life. I can see that, breaks me heart. So I feel your pain too hun of being separated. I know your fiance takes extra special care of you (judging from facebook he seems like hes a really cool bloke who takes good care of you!) but still cant be easy

xx

 

[Excalibur]

Thanks hun

I reckon it must be even harder being apart when pregnant. I know from matts perspective he has said that it is. Hes said that for him he feels like his family arent a part of something massive happening in his life. I can see that, breaks me heart. So I feel your pain too hun of being separated. I know your fiance takes extra special care of you (judging from facebook he seems like hes a really cool bloke who takes good care of you!) but still cant be easy

xx

You're welcome chick

That's exactly how I feel hun so I know exactly how Matt is feeling too. My cousin kept saying things which made me upset even more, they are only going to see Tyler every so often, will probably miss his first word, first steps etc. She said she would like to be at the birth, I told her if she can get here then she's more than welcome to as I won't have anyone there from my side of the family! Oh he does hun, he always looks after me and makes sure I'm ok, he spoils me so much, he never treats himself to anything so I treated him to a new mobile and a laptop. It's definetly not easy hun, next time I will see my family is the end of October, depending on the circumstances as I didn't realise by then I will be like 32 weeks pregnant, don't want to get bumped around on a train! Supposed to be attending a Christening as I have been asked to be Godmother to my friends baby, would be heartbreaking to miss it and miss out on seeing my family but..needs must hey, I don't fancy giving birth to Tyler on a train! xxx

 

[sarahuk]

You want to do what we are gunna do chick...get a camcorder and go obsessive mode with it and then send them dvds of him

Hmm I think you have a good point there with the travelling at 32wks. Mind you, you might feel like having the change of scenery before the little one comes!

 

[Excalibur]

You want to do what we are gunna do chick...get a camcorder and go obsessive mode with it and then send them dvds of him

Hmm I think you have a good point there with the travelling at 32wks. Mind you, you might feel like having the change of scenery before the little one comes!

Ooo that's a very good idea! I'll end up filming him like 12 hours a day I guess it's not the same as seeing it in real life but then again, it's better than nothing I suppose?

That's true chick, I said to Karl that I would see how big I am at the time and how I'm feeling, if I don't feel up to travelling then we'll have to give it a miss xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Thats all you can do chick...one prego day at a time

I think its a good idea tbh. When faced with distance you have to become creative!!

Ive also found a website where I upload my pictures too and have them printed off like real piccies. Since matts mum doesnt have the internet its allowed us to regularly send her piccies of stuffs cos it only costs 1p per pic and the quality is amazing to say it came off a camera phone!

I was thinking of getting matt a camcorder for his birthday in a couple of weeks but think ill get that for xmas instead. So back to the drawing board. Wait...no...ACTUALLY...I might buy him an ipod! Yeah im so gunna do that. Hes using his phone atm but its really tricky to get new stuff on it. Well that was eaier said than done lol..was going to ask for ideas and sorted it meself!

But anyway..back on subject..yep get a camcorder honey. ITs a damn good way to keep people involved. Especially since its not like a piccie, they will see him moving and hear all the cute little noises he makes. It will defo help them feel more a part of his growing up x

 

[Excalibur]

Thats all you can do chick...one prego day at a time

I think its a good idea tbh. When faced with distance you have to become creative!!

Ive also found a website where I upload my pictures too and have them printed off like real piccies. Since matts mum doesnt have the internet its allowed us to regularly send her piccies of stuffs cos it only costs 1p per pic and the quality is amazing to say it came off a camera phone!

I was thinking of getting matt a camcorder for his birthday in a couple of weeks but think ill get that for xmas instead. So back to the drawing board. Wait...no...ACTUALLY...I might buy him an ipod! Yeah im so gunna do that. Hes using his phone atm but its really tricky to get new stuff on it. Well that was eaier said than done lol..was going to ask for ideas and sorted it meself!

But anyway..back on subject..yep get a camcorder honey. ITs a damn good way to keep people involved. Especially since its not like a piccie, they will see him moving and hear all the cute little noises he makes. It will defo help them feel more a part of his growing up x

Aww I like it, one preggo day at a time hehe

That is very true, especially if the train is packed, don't want to be bumped around from pillow to post! Could always get the coach I guess?

That's great about the pictures hun, 1p..not bad for a proper photo. We got some photo paper a while ago so we could make photo's, supposed to be making one for Karl's mum as she bought a frame so we can put one of the 4D pictures in it for her, bless her

Ipods looks so cool! Can do literally anything on them, I'm sure he would love one of those, I know I would

That is a very good idea hun, might have to invest in a camcorder at some point xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Well the ipod idea has been scrapped

He wants his first ever tattoo. He wants a water snake...so thats what hes gunna get

Hows everyone doin today?

Everyone here is having kfc for tea I dont want no stinky kfc...i want a bigmac!! Thank god the drivethrus are opposite each other..muhahahaha..

 

[Pinky32]

hmmmm dead rat or rubber burger - oooh decisions decisions lol

 

[Excalibur]

Sarah - Aww bless, a tattoo sounds like a good idea

I would choose a big mac over a kfc aswell xxx

 

[sarahuk]

hmmmm dead rat or rubber burger - oooh decisions decisions lol

Haha it was sooo lush! Mind you...the extra cheeseburger I bought for supper in a attempt to keep myself awake was just as yummy when rubbery!

 

[sarahuk]

Lol Laura its a good job I did. Soon as matt lifted a piece of chicken..it wasnt the only thing I felt lifting!

I seem to have a bit of a bigmac and melon obsession atm lol x

 

[Laura2806]

Hope your op goes well today pinky xx

 

[sarahuk]

When I hear from her once shes in recovery and out of the anaesthetic Ill pass on your message honey! xx