Just had another thought about responsibility and age. What about young carers? Legally if you are an adult in the house with your kid then you are the 'responsible one' but if you are mentally ill, severely disabled etc. then the realty is that a young child might have to take on that role and many DO and although it isn't a nice childhood, they aren't dying left right and centre from household accidents. Some statistics from Branardos website:
Young carer facts
1)The average age of a young carer is 12.
2)Young carers are children and young people under 18 who provide regular and on-going care and emotional support to a family member who is physically or mentally ill, disabled or misuses substances.
3) The 2001 census identified 175,000 young carers in the UK, with 13,000 caring for more than 50 hours per week. The 2011 census identified 178,000 young carers in England and Wales alone; an 83% increase in the number of young carers aged 5 to 7 years and a 55% increase in the number of children caring who are aged 8 to 9 years.
YOUNG CARERS AGE 5! That blows my mind...