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ladybrixton
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Hi ladies,
I introduced myself long ago and have been lurking ever since. I thought I'd jump in and start posting now our TTC is only a year away - it felt like an unsurmountable distance before now.
I'm curious about everyone's reasons for waiting. For us, there are a few factors, the biggest of which is my work. I'm the breadwinner in our family and work full time. I'm a teacher and have just started work at a new school. I am with an agency at this school, though the school have told me they want me permanently, but I don't know when they will take me on. Until then I have no job security. I also don't like the idea of announcing a new pregnancy before I've worked somewhere a year. If all goes to plan and we TTC successfully next November then I'll have two full years at the school before going on maternity leave, which I don't think is too bad.
Another reason is our little boy. I want him to be the baby for as long as possible and I want to be able to devote all the spare time I have to him. Having him has made me even more broody (which I didn't think is possible) and I desperately want another, but I do want to have some time with just me and him first.
We're trying next November for a July 2014 baby. How about all of you and what are your reasons?
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ps Sorry if this post is too nosy!
I introduced myself long ago and have been lurking ever since. I thought I'd jump in and start posting now our TTC is only a year away - it felt like an unsurmountable distance before now.
I'm curious about everyone's reasons for waiting. For us, there are a few factors, the biggest of which is my work. I'm the breadwinner in our family and work full time. I'm a teacher and have just started work at a new school. I am with an agency at this school, though the school have told me they want me permanently, but I don't know when they will take me on. Until then I have no job security. I also don't like the idea of announcing a new pregnancy before I've worked somewhere a year. If all goes to plan and we TTC successfully next November then I'll have two full years at the school before going on maternity leave, which I don't think is too bad.
Another reason is our little boy. I want him to be the baby for as long as possible and I want to be able to devote all the spare time I have to him. Having him has made me even more broody (which I didn't think is possible) and I desperately want another, but I do want to have some time with just me and him first.
We're trying next November for a July 2014 baby. How about all of you and what are your reasons?
x
ps Sorry if this post is too nosy!