ha ha, same here! Taking it easy totally goes against my nature, I approached ttc like everything else in my life, with plenty of research and great planning! There is no doubt that the most important thing we can do to increase our chances is to bd at the right time, either timed or regular. But I strongly believe that the second best thing we can do is to relax, which is the part I fail on!
This cycle is my last one using the monitor I have decided. I was going to bin it (well not literally!) this cycle, but I have decided to try the soy tablets as I think my problem is my age and quality of eggs, and because it can affect ov, I thought it better to use it (and also, have just 20 sticks left, might as well use them). After that, that's it, I shall be taking the 'it will come when it is the right time' approach. At least that's the plan for now.....