Dh does things but he does the bits that aren't urgent when theres urgent things to do. Like on a school morning he'll be there washing up, when really it would be more helpful if he got ds4s breakfast while I saw the others off. I can wash up later. Or we use clothes nappies, and you have to do a short wash then a long wash, and he'll go in the kitchen and see the short wash has finished so he'll turn the washing machine off, rather than putting it on for the long wash. He does things in the wrong order too. Like I would put a wash on, then while it was washing I would hoover. But he'll hoover, then put the wash on, then have a sit down because he needs to wait for the wash to finish.