I'm really undecided now! Thought about inviting some of the family for a quick to do only the kids are older 14 17 & 2 primary school POSS my baby sister (6). Here the deal Caitlins birthday is on a school day - I don't want ONE TODAY on the weekend before or after so I asked Aunt if cousin whos in school could be off and cousin if her two kids could be off ...aunt ok but cousin I don't think seemed to keen. Half wondering if it will be a waste of £ and time for all tbh don't want people round long. What did you do on your LOs first birthday & whatever you did would you have changed the plans if you could have done it again ...didn't do enough did too much, etc?! Half thinking to have me Daddy & Moo takeher somewhere for the day and tell ppl they can call in for an hour after school times ...I'll get some cake they can share that in a little goodie bag. Is that naff though Sorry if I rambled!