Klouise, that's awful, I would have been annoyed with the student nurse too!
I often wonder if healthcare professionals have much training in how to handle the way they communicate with patients during miscarriage, loss and stillbirth. They have all the right knowledge, terminology and medical understanding, but seem to lack the empathy and ability to make the patient feel better or even just to make it seem less clinical. I guess it's just their job and they need to get it done, but a little more compassion would make a huge difference. The way you remember a situation when you look back at it, especially during a difficult time, stays with you forever. A kind word would help, instead of adding to the misery of it all.