I have kept meaning to write in here for months about what I actually used in hospital in hope it might help as when I was packing I had no clue what to take and would have taken my whole house if I could!
I must say I packed everything into my case and in the end used hardly anything!
My hospital wouldnt admit me until I had 3 "good" contractions in 5 mins or had bleeding so when I got in I was in active labour so had no time to read etc etc but slept in between contractions.
I stripped naked for the birth (I never planned on this it was just something I seemed to do as clothing was annoying me so much and I was so warm too) After Nathan was born I had a shower then was taken to the ward where I stayed for 2 nights.
I literally only used the following
During labour - bottles of water, a flanel so OH could soak it and put on my head and neck. A cheap paper fan so OH could fan me
After the birth -
Camera
Washbag - Shampoo, shower gel, toothbrush, tooth paste deoderant and a body spray hair brush and bobbles, lipsalve and OH had some stuff in there too to keep him fresh. Oh and breast pads as I leaked so bad!
A few changes of comfy clothes(incase I leaked), lots of big pants and sanitary towels(I used super night ones rather than mat ones) slippers and PJ's. I took my dressing gown but never used it as I was so hot or dressed.
A change of clothes for OH.
Magazines for after on the ward and some change for phone, tv. Mobile charger. Sweets...alot of sweets(I had gestational diabetes so wasnt alowed them when preg!)
For Baby - A few sleepsuits and vests for baby. A hat. Nappies, wipes, nappy bags and cotton wool. Muslins I found them fab especially when burping or mopping up dribble/vomit! I packed a few disposable travel change mats too which came in handy too.
I also took some extra plastic carrier bags to put soiled clothes in or your dirty clothes so OH can take home or just keep stuff seperate in your bag.
During my labour they had no pillow for me but in all honesty I didnt care as I was in labour and there was no getting comfy. And after the birth I went to the ward where they had plenty...I did think about taking one in but it would have got grubby or lost and been a bit of a waste for me but am sure others found theirs a godsend.
Hope this helps and goodluck and enjoy when the time comes!
Emma.xx