Varenne
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I work with kids with special needs, in some cases needing a lot of intervention, and their parents are never rude to me or their neighbours!
I'm sorry she was so short with you. I agree with trying to be nice with introductions etc, but there's only so much you can do if she really is just very antisocial! Did your landlord give you any other info about them?
Are you with them 24/7? No? Then you cant know that they have never snapped at someone because they are tired/stressed/running late etc. Honestly I hear people say they work with kids with special needs a lot therefore they know all about whatever I mean. Its absolutely not the same as living it every day.
I was in no way trying to imply that I know everything about this. I'm sorry you don't like special needs workers giving input on this. I devote much of my life to these families and I'm simply relating my experience, which is the only input I'm able to give. It's possibly "trumped" by your input, I don't know, but we're all just trying to help in the ways we can.
I couldn't imagine any of the mothers I've known for years snapping at their neighbour unprovoked, but as you say I have not been with them all day every day and couldn't prove that they haven't. I suppose we are all very limited in what we're able to provide. Even a parent of a special needs child couldn't possibly suggest that they know how other parents of special needs children would react in any situation. We're all so different.