My sister inlaw just called to tell me when and where my nephews birthday treat will be. I'm due on 19 march. the treat is on the 14th of May at the Zoo. Now my baby will be anything from ten weeks to six weeks old by then. Am I being unreasonable by saying I dont' know if I will be there, need to see how I feel and how I am coping with baby. I also think that baby will be far to little for a zoo trip. I''m just waiting on the whole but your not at work thing so whats the problem blah blah. Help?