When did you first have sex?

[LOZANDEVIE]

When did all you ladies first DTD after giving birth, I've read some people a few days after, eeeeee... I could hardly walk a few days after i walked like some gangster ( like i had crapped myself ). You lucky people.

 

[Jo1984]

Dont know if this might help you hun?

I asked a similar question https://www.babyandbump.com/postnatal-support/369841-stitches-sex-maybe-tmi.html

xx

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

Ahh thanks hun!!!

 

[nightkd]

If I could've it would've been a few days after birth!! I couldn't walk properly either, lol!

I'm still waiting to feel healed enough to attempt it....

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

and me!!! x

 

[nightkd]

Hope you get there soon!!!

This is the first week I've actually been seriously considering just trying it out with a crapload of lube... It's our wedding anniversary on Saturday, so I'm trying to wait it out til then, give myself at least a couple more days of healing time!

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

You too hun, oh and happy anniversary for Sat. x

 

[Jo1984]

We tried with lube but my lady bits were just too sore to let him enter dont know if you had same kinda birth as me or not but I'm just going to take it slowly & do other things for now.
Good luck to you both we will return to normal one day xx

 

[viixee]

It was 2 weeks and 6 days for me! and i had quite a few stitches, it didnt hurt as much as i thought it would but saying that i didnt exactly enjoy it either, il try and put it off again for abit longer lol x

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

I had a great birth, but with a 2nd degree tear and internal and external grazes and stitches, so yup..pretty sore and think im allergic to sex forever lol. x

 

[x__Hannah__x]

My midwife said it's best to wait until 6 weeks, but I think when you're ready it's fine tbh think I'll be waiting a while too as I had a 2nd degree tear and it's still really sore even going out for a little walk aggravates it.
x

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

i had a 2nd degree tear,internal and external grazes and internal and external stitches! Still a tad uncomfy but im not ready yet haha!! xx

 

[nightkd]

I had a second degree tear and grazes too...The grazes are the thing I most scared about re-irritating...DH is most scared about ripping my stitches!!

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

Awwww xxxx

 

[shayandbump]

I had a difficult birth & was in a lot of pain after too...I walked like John Wayne for weeks! haha

We DTD roughly 4 wks after LO was born which, looking back now, was wayyy too earlier as I was in quite a lot of pain after. We DTD again at roughly 8-10 wks & it was much more comfortable

 

[meganb]

4 weeks after c-section and it wasn't at all uncomfortable.

However, had a routine appt with my obgyn later the same day and he advised us to wait until 6 weeks. He also mentioned using appropriate contraception as you're very fertile in the first few weeks following delivery (we didn't use anything ).

 

[Lena]

Im waiting for the bleeding to stop before I attempt it... although I really, really want to try soon! My husband being such a good daddy to our little boy has made me fall in love with him all over again.

 

[bathbabe]

2 weeks 6 days, but i didnt have any stitches etc. Shit loads of lube! found it was ok, i was just so god damn horny! lol
xxx

 

[welshwarriors]

months Poor hubby, but I was just too scared tbh and taking cerazette didn't help either.

 

[nicholatmn]

I had 3 3rd degree tears, and we tried 16 days after and it he couldn't even get in The stitches were hurting really bad and I was stitched way smaller than I was before (which doesn't seem possible... I use to not even be able to put in a tampon because they hurt! ...tmi...).
He wants to wait until 6 weeks now. I don't! xx