Why can't our bodies be more predictable?

[PrayingMom]

Yayy that is fantastic that he is fully committed to trying and you tracking! How exciting! Before you know it it'll be time to start tracking O and all that good stuff! I'm cheering for you! I can't wait til you get on here and say you got BFP!

I do feel better it's all because I've been holding in how much I really wanna be a Mom and I just told him everything and I felt so much better now. But I haven't made an appointment yet I will call him Monday! And you are remembering the 23rd from when I said when AF is due and I would try to make my appointment for that date! I actually need to make it before then because the RE need to see me on CD 1 or 2 and get my background so this won't be a wasted cycle. I'm feeling pretty good about it all!


Well here is to the next weeks ahead for us and I pray God bless us with healthy pregnancies and safe deverlies and healthy happy little miracle babies!!

 

[PrayingMom]

Tell your DH Happy Father's!!

How is it going so far!? Me nothing new I still this cycle will end in BFN but tomorrow is Monday and I will call my doctor can't wait to see what will come forward in the next weeks for us!!

 

[bamluby]

Yes, I am absolutely thrilled about how much he has come around to the idea of trying. He's been so open about talking about all the things he looks forward to about having a family and being a dad. It honestly melts me heart!! He still has his worries, mostly just about finances, but I know we get closer every day to working that out. I'm usually the worrier, but honestly I know we make a good team and we will continue to do whatever it takes to provide for each other. I'm really looking forward to what is to come of this new journey. I hope there will be a bfp in the near future!

I am so glad that you have been able to let out all of those feelings you have been bottling up! I definitely know that feeling of wanting to be a Mom again SO much that it brings up an overwhelming amount of emotions. I have to have those moments/days where I cry and let it out too...actually this happens pretty frequently for me. Anyway, I am glad you have your husband to talk to and that you are feeling better after getting things off your mind!

Ahh yes, those must have been the dates I was thinking. I have a terrible memory sometimes. I am glad you will be setting up your appointment! It will be nice to have an appt already set with your OB, and if you get your BFP you can always cancel the appointment with your RE! I am sorry to hear you got a bfn today, but it is definitely still early! There is still plenty of time for it to show up, and I am praying SOOO much that it will! I hope this is it for you!!! I can't wait for you and your husband to be blessed with your miracle baby!! Things can only get better from here on out, and it sounds like you have a great plan in place!

Aww, I will let my husband know; tell your DH Happy Father's Day too!!! I hope he has a bun in the oven as we speak

Things are going fine here! CD3, and cramps are mostly subsiding thankfully! It looks like it may be a short AF, so that is nice too. Otherwise, we are doing well. The dog we are watching has been a handful though...I wasn't aware that she isn't fully potty trained. I will let her out, walk her, and she will spend TONS of time outside, and then within two seconds of coming inside she pees on the carpet. She lives in an apartment, so I don't know if the dog isn't used to peeing in grass?! Aye, I'm trying to do everything I can, but it's been a tad bit frustrating.

Anyway, I'm ranting...Have a wonderful Sunday! I'm continuing to think positive thoughts about this cycle for you!!

 

[PrayingMom]

That is so great to hear that he is talking about it and looks forward to it all. Most def a great step in the direction you wanted! I completely understand everything about finances! If it was up to my DH I would be a stay at home mom and wife and if I did work it would be just for extra money for shopping! but realistic we both need to work in order to keep things balanced out although I only work part time! I'm praying that he gets this job, he takes the physical test this Saturday and then the written part and hopefully he will know something soon. It's definitely a great and huge step finances wise! Then I tell him when I become a nurse we will be more set and confident with our finances! He tells me I should still only work 3 days at the most he is definitely old school he is the man of the house and enjoys providing for his family!!! Enough rambling

How long are you cycles normal? I ask bc you said it seems like a short one this cycle. Well get ready for temping and opks. Do you temp now or do you start closer to ovulation? I never temp before!
I'm really ready to see if this cycle is a BFP or BFN for me! I'm gonna test Wednesday for sure I'll me CD27 and something should show by then and if it's BFN I'll already have things ready for the RE the following week and if I am already then I can cancel! Either way I'm super excited for us!!! Let's get those babies!

 

[bamluby]

Ugh, yes finances can be a pain! I worked from the time I was 15 up until the middle of my first semester in grad school. I would love to find a part-time job again, but I want to make sure the job will be worth the experience and time too. I used to be the one that made the most money, but right now school needs to come first. We have both agreed it will be worth it in the long-run. I plan to get a good job once I am done with my master's, so I figure we are not too far off from having those salary jobs and having financial stability. That is sweet that your husband would love for you to be a stay-at-home mom. A part-time nursing job sounds like it would be perfect to accommodate your family life while bringing extra money in too! We will all get to where we want to be! It's a process to get out into the real world. We are all still young, and I think we are all doing a pretty great job "growing up". I'll keep your husband in my thoughts that everything goes great with his tests and job prospects!!

Lol sorry, my last post was confusing. My cycles are typically 28-30 days, and AF usually lasts 5 days or so...but it seems like AF is shorter this month. I am only on day three of AF, and she already seems to be on her way out. I don't mind that one bit though. I am already temping. With temping you should temp every day the entire cycle in order to see when you have your temperature spike (indicating ovulation). Last month I got a late start on temping though, so it was fairly useless. Lol. I haven't bought opks yet, but I am still considering them!

Well, I am ready for you to see your BFP (not your BFN!!!) Yayy definitely let me know when you test Wednesday or if you test before then! I'm rooting for you!!! I'm excited for both of us too! It's fun to think about the fact that we could both be taking home our healthy babies by this time next year! YAYYYY

I can't wait to see what this week brings for you!

 

[PrayingMom]

Oh yes I understand I was working since I was 16 and non stop until I got pregnant with our son. I had terrible morning sickness so I had to quit both jobs and then I got even sicker! Morning sickness is no joke but it was worth it! But anywho yes we are young and we are doing great on the "growing up" part! And soon enough we will have the salary careers

Oh okay I understand the temping thing now! Yayy AF is going away! Oh yeah your last post wasn't confusing I just didn't remember how long your CDs were! And I'm the same between 28-31 days it varies every month. Toady is CD25 for me!! I'm having POAS right now, I woke up too late to test this morning I didn't have a lot of time. Another thing I've been extra tired lately! I might test when I get home lol! If I do I'm sure I will get on here and tell you! I'm hoping this is my cycle!! I'm having little symptoms but I'm not playing on them I'm just trying to wait it all out!!

Well I should get off work early and then I can go home and test!!

 

[PrayingMom]

I'm home had an early day I gotta do some training online. But guess what took a test it was BFN!! And guess what else I have my appointment with my ob this Wednesday and I have my appointment with my RE on Monday Yayyy baby time!!!i have all my paperwork filled out just ready to go!

I'm having really bad cramps like AF is about to show but she needs to show on next week like day of my RE appointment!!!

 

[bamluby]

Aww yes, morning sickness sounds terrible! I know it will be well worth it though, and a constant reminder that my body is preparing for a baby! Yes, I am feeling good about everything the future has to offer all of us! I know we we will all find financial stability and wonderful jobs. I feel blessed everyday with where I am at in my life right now. I feel like it only gets better!

Lol I'm glad I wasn't too confusing. Sometimes I try to type as fast as I am thinking, and it doesn't come out very articulately. Haha. Yes, I am really hoping I never have to have another long cycle like this last month (at least not while TTC)!! That was so crazy. I'm still looking forward to this cycle and hoping me and my husband DTD on the right days! I am already thinking I want to buy a new thermometer. It doesn't seem as sensitive as my last one, and I want to be as accurate as I can with charting so that I know when I O without a doubt.

Boo, darn those bfns!!! You are only CD25 though, and you didn't get your bfp until 16dpo last time! It's still early. It sounds like you have some good signs too! I always get a little bit tired before AF, but it was never very noticeable...with my bfp the fatigue/tiredness was definitely noticeable. It sounds like it has been noticeable for you this cycle! Cramps are always the confusing one for me!! They vary so much on the intensity and feeling, that it is hard to tell what they mean! They could definitely be implantation or pregnancy cramps though! YAYYY I'm so excited to wait with you to see what is in store for you this cycle!

That is so great that you have an appointment with your OB on Wednesday! Definitely let me know what happens! Are they just checking-in with you and letting you know how the RE will work? Ahhh I am excited that you have an appointment set up with your RE too! I am praying that you get your BFP in the next few days before your appointment, but if AF shows I hope it coincides with your appointment. (But don't get me wrong, I am still hoping she stays FAR away!!)

It's go time! I'm so happy for you!

 

[PrayingMom]

Yeah it's true that I did get my BFP on CD16 but I'm sure that I would have at least faint line or more def signs that it's possible! But I'm sure that AF will show her face soon! I always get tired before AF as well.

My appointment with my ob is just to let him know we decided to go with the RE this coming cycle bc we are a little press for time with me starting my clinicals soon and with him signing up for deployments! We are more than ready now. Also he will either give me a copy of my medical records or he will send a copy of it to them. I'm overly excited about our futures. I feel like we both a steps closer to becoming moms!!

 

[bamluby]

Hey! Did you test again yesterday or today? I am hoping AF stays far away!! Keep your hopes up - it could still be too early to get a faint line or have too many signs. I have everything crossed for you!

I think you are in a great place. Either way this cycle turns out, you have some positive things to look forward too! We are definitely make good steps towards becoming moms! Good luck at your ob today! I will be over here cheering and praying that you get your bfp soon, so that you can cancel your appointment with your RE!! Keep me posted!!



As a side note, my husband and I were looking at baby names last night (something I always enjoy doing) and we started talking about how much I like getting on here. It's so strange to think about modern-day technology and the ability to talk to a group of people going through similar situations. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that we were talking about how nice it was for me to have met you and talked to you so often over these last few months.

 

[PrayingMom]

I'm happy I found this website like I did and we did cross each other's paths. I believe it was meant because I really needed someone that understood me! I'm also happy I was able to be there for you throughout your process of pregnancy and unfortunate lost but yet it's still a blessing because now we know you can get pregnant. This has been an adventure and I'm looking forward to it all!

My appointment went well. I did address some concerns I had and was able to get my records sent over so it will be over there already on Monday! He assured me that everything will be alright and soon as I'm pregnant I will be coming back. He also said he will make notes in my records for her to understand the situation better. He also finally confirmed that I have PCOS and not to worry just be confident and just tell her what you want and she will do whatever it takes to get pregnant! He said that people who have PCOS normally don't have cycles and don't ovulate, have excessive hair growth on face and body and sometimes are obesity! He said I have them all but the obesity part, I know I have gain a little bit but I'm far from obesity and overweight. But either way it's something I know I've had since I was a teenager and I was much smaller then but however I wish none of this on no one!!

Testing- nope I haven't tested and I don't feel the need to. I know AF is coming soon, although I haven't had any symptoms that she is about to come! I'll see come Monday what's going on!

 

[bamluby]

I know, being on this website has been great, and it has definitely been wonderful to get to know you. It has been amazing that we can both be there for each other through this crazy journey. I'm not sure what I would have done without you!! It's so funny, because I feel like you understand me and know more about me than a lot of the people I see regularly. I also feel like I know you really well and I have gotten to hear you and see you in your videos. Lol maybe I need to start some vlogs!! Anyway, thank you again for everything, it has been so wonderful to navigate this crazy TTC adventure alongside you! It has meant SO much to me!

I am glad your appointment went well! I am also glad you were officially diagnosed with PCOS so they can have it on your records. Obviously I don't wish PCOS upon you or anybody, that's not what I mean; I am just glad having answers to some of these questions can assist you in conceiving sooner and having a healthy pregnancy! It also sounds like your PCOS is being managed really well moving forward, especially considering the act that you have had pretty regular cycles and ovulation recently! I take that as GREAT news!!! And as a side note, I think your body and weight are healthy. You are beautiful and look great! You have been doing an amazing job living well, eating right, and exercising, and you should be so proud of yourself because I'm sure it has made a difference in how you feel! I have a great feeling about you going to the RE, and I have faith that you will get pregnant VERY soon!

I am sorry that it feels like AF is coming soon. But if she does, then I know it will be OK, because you have everything in place with your team of doctors to make this happen for you! You are SO strong, and before you know it you will have a beautiful, healthy baby in your arms that will be worth every single bit of the time and struggle.

 

[PrayingMom]

Yes I do feel the same some people I see on the regular don't have a clue about what's really going on. When I try to explain I get hit with unwanted advice and suggestions. However I have learn to not discuss my process and just say we will have kids when God is ready for us to have kids. It is great to get on here I actually look forward to getting on here. It's became a part of my daily routine but is a joy to have such a wonder sweet person as yourself to be here for me and I can do the same!!

Oh yes it was a relief to finally have answers. I kinda knew that I had it and today I still let it get me down. But I quickly got over that after a long nap. Anything that comes easy isn't worth having, just like I worked to get my degree now I have it I'm so proud of myself and I'm working to have our rainbow baby I know God will bless you and I with our babies and we will have patience, love and nurturing spirits because of our journeys. I'm learning no complaints and I'm content with my life and I'm fortune enough to have an amazing husband, fur babies (dogs) a great doctor team and of course you being my biggest support and cheering for me! I can honestly say there are still some good people in the world and I'm happy we came across each other!

But thrilled to see what the cycle brings for us. Still no AF for me. Where are you at now on CD wise? I'm excited have you already started temping? Didn't you tell me you was thinking about getting a new bbt?

 

[bamluby]

I feel the same way. There are plenty of people that know how badly I want to have a baby, but they don't know how much it is actually on my mind. I get a lot of the unsolicited advice too. I respect other people's opinions, and it used to bother me when people didn't support me. Now, I just focus on what DH and I want, and I don't bring it up to them as much. Anyway, it is definitely nice to be able to get on here and get it all of my chest. You have been an amazing friend and support system.

I am sorry you were feeling down! I am glad the nap helped though! The TWW is by far the hardest, isn't it?! Being in limbo wondering about AF or BFP makes us feel really vulnerable, whereas the first part of our cycle we are just looking forward to O and BD. I know for me the wait is always a roller coaster of emotions; trying to be rational but still optimistic, and then at times losing some of that optimism. It's difficult. You are very right though- anything that comes easy isn't worth having!! We are so passionate about starting our families that it makes it hard to wonder every month whether we will be starting a new, amazing chapter or picking ourselves up to try again. But yes, we have SO much to be thankful for. I know this will happen for us both!

I am pleased that AF still has not come for you yet!! Did they do a pregnancy test yesterday at the OB's office? You are not out this month! I will continue to hope and pray that this is your month!!

I am on CD7 now! I've been temping everyday so far! I didn't buy a new thermometer, so I am just using the one I have. I am going to make it a point to BD more this cycle...because sometimes we go too long (my fault for falling asleep early). I have already gotten a good start though, and DH would never argue against more BD

Keep hanging in there! You will have some answers soon! I'm cheering for you!

 

[PrayingMom]

Yes I'm happy we have became friends. It's actually crazy how much we have been their for each other. Yes I respect what others say but I hate when they think they are right I quickly shut that down and say don't speak on it if you don't know please educate yourself first!!!

Anywho, CD7 for you time is flying by now. And I'm sure your DH will be thrilled to BD right now. Now my DH use BD as an excuse, like he said last night we didn't BD lol what? Lol he's so funny!!!
But no they didn't do a test and I haven't test yet bc I've been having AF cramps and headaches and of course mood swings. I really hate when she comes bc sometimes I get irritated really quick with everybody and I can be very mean and bitchy I never knew why but I know now it's PCOS!! But I think she will be coming right in time to see the RE! I think I planned this out perfectly!

My OB called and to tell me they sent off my records! I'm excited I can't wait until Monday!!

How is school going?

 

[bamluby]

I know, we have definitely been there for each other a lot of the last 6 months! It will be amazing when we are both pregnant and can look back on all of these crazy TTC months!

Time really is flying- I was surprised when I realized I was already on CD7. It's funny because when I was waiting for AF it felt like each day was an eternity! Pretty soon I will be gearing up to try and time BD perfectly around my ovulation!

Hahaha that is so funny what your husband said. He is trying to utilize every opportunity to BD!!

Boo, I'm sorry that you have been feeling irritable and having headaches and AF cramps!! I didn't know that mood swings could be exacerbated by PCOS!! I am the EXACT same way though, so I totally understand. I was sooo grumpy and snappy last week before and during AF! To make matters worse, I hadn't refilled my prescription for my anti-depressants/anti-anxiety medication (I take a very low dosage). My poor husband was patient and kind to put up with me even if he probably thought I was crazy hormonal! Anyway, so yes I totally hear you on that!

Well if AF comes, I hope she will be right on time for your appointment! You really do have this all scheduled out well!! I'm excited that your records were sent out, and that you are taking this next step! I am so optimistic about how it will all turn out! I bet you can't wait!

School is going well! I actually only have two days left (Monday and Tuesday). I have to finish up a project, short paper, and two journal entries this weekend, but I'm almost done! I still have research that I am doing on the side with one of my professors for the next several months, but that is about it until school starts back up!

How has work been for you and all of the new training?

 

[PrayingMom]

Yes my DH does use BD every chance he gets I hate AF, well I never had regular cycles until now since taking all these feritity stuff. So that weird for my DH he said I like it when she is away buti know I need her so I can ovulate and all that good stuff! Geez time is flying and yep your right it'll soon be time for O and BD for you! As for me, still waiting not in a rush just ready to see what Monday holds for me!!

I'm happy school is going great with you and almost over before the next set of classes start. As for my training I've been getting it done I've already completed 2 lessons and quizzes and working on the third one! I'll be happy when I finish it, this weekend I may stay in and work nonstop until I get more than half done! Then school start for me soon again comes August, I'm excited and more moviated than ever because it's something I really like to do! My degree finally came in the mail, I was so thrilled and happy! I can't wait to finish this second degree then I'll take a break hopefully I will have a little one to keep me busy!!

Let's get these babies!! I'm sure it will happen this year!! I believe it and praying to God that he shows us favor and bless us with little ones of our own!!!

 

[bamluby]

Haha yes, I'm sure your husband likes when AF is away. My DH always asks if AF is gone yet, and usually it's only one day after I've started. I'm like No, periods don't usually last for one day, babe! Aww, yes, I'm sure it has been difficult to get used to having regular cycles, but it is definitely what your body needs to help conceive your little one. I'm looking forward to what is in store for you soon!!

I'm glad your training is going well! I do that a lot with school where I sit down in one sitting to do a bunch of work. I have a hard time working on things a little bit at a time, but I seem to do well when I focus large chunks of time on assignments. (It's likely because I procrastinate). You will definitely get it done! Aww that's great your degree came in the mail. Having your diploma makes it even more real, doesn't it? I'm excited for you to start school again in August! It's a great feeling to do something you enjoy doing and can be passionate and motivated about working on! I'm happy for you!!

I can't wait until we have our little ones to keep us busy! It will be such a blessing! I really do think it will happen this year too, and then next year we will have our sweet, healthy babies to cuddle in our arms! I like to read things on the pregnancy and baby forums...I feel like it gives me a glimpse of some of those wonderful things that I have to look forward to.

 

[PrayingMom]

Aww yes! Our DH are very similar. I felt bad for not wanting to BD but he understood that I was cramping so bad it knew she would've came last night but she didn't. But I hope she comes Sunday night or Monday morning.

I am the same about procrastinating, so I have to sit down and do large chucks at a time or else it won't get done! When does the next set of classes start for you?

Oh yes I can't wait until we are holding our littles ones in our arms too! It's coming soon and I pray we get BFPs and next year we will have our little ones. I'm so confident I wanna start buying small baby items lol, I already have tons of clothes from with my son. I love baby shopping!!

 

[bamluby]

Haha very true! Sorry to hear you had bad cramps last night. That's interesting that AF still didn't show! I still have my fingers crossed that you will get a BFP this cycle, but if she does come then Sunday or Monday will be perfect timing!

Ughh yes, I wish I wasn't such a terrible procrastinator. At least we always manage to get things done! My next classes don't start until second or third week of August; I can't remember which. Is that about the same for when your classes start? But yeah, I will have all of July and part of August off. Our first wedding anniversary is next Sunday, so we are trying to figure out what we are going to do still. We are also trying to plan a trip home to see our family and friends.

I know, I think about being a mom and starting our family every day! I think about it and talk about it constantly! I look forward to how much fun my husband and I will have raising our kids. We already have so much love and laughter in our lives each day with just the two of us at home, and I can only imagine how fulfilling it will be to create a family together. This will definitely be both of our years; I have no doubt about it!! Come on BFPS!!! I think its fun that you want to start buying small baby items - I feel the same way!! It definitely couldn't hurt to get a head start on shopping, right? I'm not sure what my DH would think though. Lol.