Wishing for a Christmas baby

[caro103]

Hiya Leanne, must have been soooo exciting to tell your family! I so can't wait. Been getting so many hints from my Mum recently and I'm dying to tell her we;re TTC but that;d spoil the surprise of telling her when we get our BFP!

Mel, hope that eggy gets caught! you and DH have prob got renewed energy now in-laws have gone, and just in time

Sandi, how you doing hun?

Monica, does time feel like its stopped for you?? can't believe I'm only CD6!!! grrrr.

Shona, where are you in cycle hun?

As for me, shingles improving slowly. Everywhere I've read reckons it can last 2-4 wks, but looking at some of the pics online I've had a relatively mild dose! think its more where it is as it started on my back, moved around my hip and leg and has gone slightly into my groin . Makes it quite sore though! Reckon everyone at my course today, who didn't know whats wrong prob thought I had fleas . But at least I managed work and intend on going in tomorrow too

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Hey Caro...I am waiting for Af...she should be here by the weekend. I was excited this morning cause my temp didn't do a crazy shift this morning. LOL. I am a tab bit depressed today as one of my bf's sent me a text last night with pic of her digi that said "pregnant" and sorry you know we wasn't trying. UGh why do they have to say that??? I could probably be alot more excited for her if she didn't make me feel like it was being rubbed in my face and now she wants to get together for dinner tonight!!! Guess I will suck it up and put on a happy face...

 

[caro103]

aww hun, I do wish people would be a bit more sensitive to others when it comes to things like TTC. Does she know you're trying?
Even if she doesn't it does annoy me when people rub it in! One of my friends babies nearly 1 now and I asked her a while ago how long it took her to concieve and she just said 'a while actually, 3 months'!!!!! She doesn't know I'm trying and for me it's not been that long but some people just haven't a clue!

Take care hun

 

[kissyfacelala]

I hate insensitive people!! no one knows we feel until they have been through it! some are just clueless!!

Regardless! this is our month!!

Yes Caro...time is standing still for me....and the earliest I ovulate is CD16....so at least ten days to go unless the soy kicks in!

Our lives are going in two week segments....wait to ovulate...wait to test....

I am really hoping AF will lose my address this month!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Yeah she knows we are tyring...and has known the whole time. BUt oh well. I don't know what I would do without you ladies for support. Thank you!!

Has anyone thought anymore about names for us??

 

[caro103]

mm, then thats properly insensitive. Though I really don't think anyone understands until they have been longing for a while and I know I don't know how it feels to have been trying for a long time either but at least we've all understood past the 1st few months what its like to try and emphasise!

Monica, earliest I've ever O'd is cd18!!! argh, gonna go crazy! have gone back on a low dose of soy this month so hoping it might help

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Caro and MOnica hope you both O soon and catch that egg this month. What you ladies doing this month? Anything special??

I do feel a bit different this cycle and I have been nauseated a bit and my bbs are not as sore as my normal 2ww..but I am chalking this all up to the new stuff I am taking this month...and did I tell you ladies I am been upped to 500mg of B6?? That seems like alot but I hope it works. Oh and I have my next class on the creighton model this thursday and doc friday....hopefully this week will fly by!!

 

[caro103]

Sure it will fly by hun! how comes you've upped the B6? hope you are feeling different cos your beanies snuggling in! x

 

[reedsgirl1138]

I am not sure...guess I will be finding out friday why I am taking so much. I was only doing the 200mg and Dr's nurse called and tld me he wanted me taking 500mg...I guess my body is low in B6?? I don't know. I wish that was the case a nice little bean snuggling in. Oh to dream. LOL

 

[caro103]

will be intrigued to know! I've only been taking 40mg of b6 complex, that the same stuff? to lengthen lp, seems to work tho! hope it does whatever its meant to do for you!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Caro what all is in your B6 complex? Mine is just B6...

 

[caro103]

oh I lied...its just b6! oops.

 

[caro103]

I bought b6 compex by accident but have never taken that, thats where I got confused!

 

[caro103]

my top drawer looks like a chemist all these little bottles meant to help with one thing or another

 

[caro103]

Names....girls we keep not doing it! maybe we should all have one vote and just go with something??

'wanting big bellies'

'team pma'

sure there were some better ones serveral pages back but can't be bothered to go looking!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

LOL that is how mine is...I just hope eventually it gets us a BFP!

 

[caro103]

it will, it will happen! x

 

[MrsH1980]

Sorry to hear you freind was a bit insensitive hun - I had the same with my other sis-in-law - she knew we were ttc and she actually had the audacity to boast to me that she never had to bother 'trying' because they fell so quickly all 3 times
She also said it was probably coz I was much older and said how she was sooo glad that she had hers when she was young - erm... it wasn't exactly an informed choice if you fell by accident all 3 times?? and I am 29 - hardly ancient!!

Some people are just so clueless!

Glad your feeling a little better Caro xx

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Oh my gosh MrsH!! How did you not give her a good whack on the hiney you oooolllld lady you. hehe but really that is rude of her. Geez

 

[MrsH1980]

I did try and grab her but I wasn't fast enough on my zimmer frame LOL

Oh I tell you I've had all sorts of comments/tips/remarks that go from rude to downright hilarious... Marc's family are lovely but some of them are...well...lets just say not the sharpest tools in the the toolbox if you get my meaning.

Most people assumed there was something wrong with us because we've been together 11 years and married for 3 and still no little ones. One Uncle (who didn't know we were ttc) took me aside at a family party and told me he knew why we hadn't had kids yet - it was because I was tall (I am 6ft) which meant my womb was further up and more difficult to access! WTF! Oh yeah, followed by the classic line 'no, seriously - I know because I am a First Aid officer at work'.

Well. I nearly peed myself laughing.