Wishing, wanting, waiting.....TTC for a year PLUS!

[Ejay]

Oh Moon, I do agree with everyone else, He is a complete jerk, you are so much better off without him, you deserve so much more than someone who just wants to use and manipulate you.

Tryfor - good luck on the feel good plan, sounds fantastic to me.

Happy New Year to everyone, here's hoping for all our dreams to come true this year xx

 

[soph77]

Moon, I have to agree with the others, what a wanker! I have to say thank goodness you didn't fall pregnant with this jerk or you would have been tied to him for life. At least now you have the time to find someone how loves you and appreciates you for all the love you have to give. And when you do have a baby with someone special you will have the good fortune to have a loving family with a solid relationship. A good relationship with your partner is a wonderful gift for a child. You will find your happiness Moon, of that I am sure. Have you thought about joining eHarmony or RSVP? I am not ashamed to admit I met my husband online

 

[Lucie73821]

Moon, I have to agree with the others, what a wanker! I have to say thank goodness you didn't fall pregnant with this jerk or you would have been tied to him for life. At least now you have the time to find someone how loves you and appreciates you for all the love you have to give. And when you do have a baby with someone special you will have the good fortune to have a loving family with a solid relationship. A good relationship with your partner is a wonderful gift for a child. You will find your happiness Moon, of that I am sure. Have you thought about joining eHarmony or RSVP? I am not ashamed to admit I met my husband online

I have to second soph's suggestion. Dh and I met on eharmony.

Ladies, I just read this quote and wanted to share it with you. It really "spoke" to me if you know what I mean...

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."
— Marilyn Monroe

 

[tryforbaby2]

Wow Ladies you are very inspirational!!!!

Happy New Years to you all and May ALL of our deepest inner wishes come true!!!

 

[soph77]

Yay Lucie, high 5 for internet dating!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

LOL, me too, me too! Eharmony for us. Can I get a high five? Any more it seems like a pretty common way to meet people. I don't often mention it because I'm a bit embarrassed, but... look at how many people it works out for...

 

[soph77]

HIgh five Squirrel!!!

 

[Dee7509]

Happy New Year to you all!

 

[Lucie73821]

LOL, me too, me too! Eharmony for us. Can I get a high five? Any more it seems like a pretty common way to meet people. I don't often mention it because I'm a bit embarrassed, but... look at how many people it works out for...

It's great to hear from another Eharmony success! While we were planning our wedding, I'd joke with dh, telling him we should do one of their commercials, as it may help pay for the wedding...

 

[SquirrelGirl]

LOL, me too, me too! Eharmony for us. Can I get a high five? Any more it seems like a pretty common way to meet people. I don't often mention it because I'm a bit embarrassed, but... look at how many people it works out for...

It's great to hear from another Eharmony success! While we were planning our wedding, I'd joke with dh, telling him we should do one of their commercials, as it may help pay for the wedding...

That woulda been AWESOME!

Happy New Year to you too, Dee and to everyone else as well!

One of my goals for the year is to spend less time on BnB. Was going to take a little break, but for now I've decided so long as I keep it short and don't let it stress me out or make me obsess... well, then it's all right!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

oh my.....

Vaginal Steaming --

Some American women are turning to vaginal steam baths to treat a variety of health problems including stress, infections, hemorrhoids, regulating menstrual cycles and aiding fertility, The Los Angeles Times reported.


https://www.foxnews.com/health/2010/12/22/vaginal-steaming-just-bunch-hot-air/

 

[soph77]

Improvised version of vaginal steaming:
Just get dh to drink a cup of herbal tea and then 'breathe heavy' while he is 'down there'...

 

[soph77]

Improvised version of vaginal steaming:
Just get dh to drink a cup of herbal tea and then 'breathe heavy' while he is 'down there'...

 

[soph77]

Alternate version of vaginal steaming:

Get your dh to drink a cup of hot herbal tea and then breathe heavy while he is 'down there'...

 

[soph77]

Oops double post, I thought I lost the first one to cyber space.

 

[tryforbaby2]

 

[tryforbaby2]

....I have an interview this morning for Infection Control at our local hospital, its only a 6month position but its something!!!
Still no af......temp idling.....woke up with sore left boob pain......grrrr.....Either give me a bfp or give me af so I can start anew.......

Hope everyone is doing good!

 

[soph77]

Fingers crossed Julia!

I've entered the 2ww now and on 2dpo. I am really hopeful and excited for this cycle because we have had so much and because it has been 3 months since dh stopped smoking pot so his sperm should have recovered by now. He has really put in the extra effort this month, I think he is finally realising how hard this is for me. His ex (Jai's mum) is pregnant to a guy that she has only been with for a few months, she must have fell pregnant within weeks of getting together with him. That gutted me. It's not fair you know, we do everything right: wait, get married, finacially stable, both professional people with careers and we get nothing and she has an open door policy, moves guys in and out of her (and Jai's) life and gets what I want. And another thing that cuts me up about it, and this is probably not rational at all, is that she has already had a baby with my husband which is what I want and now she gets to have another one. Irrational I know. AND if I actually fall pregnant sometime soon, she is going to be all weird about it and think that I copied her!!!! Biiaaaatchhhhhh

But anyway, seriously, check out my chart, look at all the BD, it is the most ever!!!

 

[Lucie73821]

Squirrel- I'm not sure what to make of Vaginal Steaming...lol...thanks for the laugh.

Tryfor- Good luck!

Soph- Yeah for all the BD! And boo for the ex getting knocked up so quick! Life really just sucks sometimes, doesn't it! It just seems so unfair. I have an ex I dated for quite sometime in college, he cheated on me multiple times (once with my so-called "friend"), and then he married my "friend". I found out they had a beautiful baby shortly after getting married. I feel like I did the right thing, waited until I met the right man, and now we're being punished by not being able to have a little one of our own...

Sorry to bring the tone down..... I hope you lovely ladies are doing wonderful today!

 

[tryforbaby2]

Soph, I already noticed your bd parade yesterday morning! I was thinking to myself 'holy hormones'! Wishwe could go for days like that!

Fingers crossed for you babe!

Hate that the ex is pregnant....totally sucks....more sadening but happy news.....my sister is being induced today / (jeckel/hyde)......my due date is coming up.....Jan 22nd........blah......

Let's hug

what a nut I am today......why?......af came full force last night and I have got steaming bad cramps this morning...........

onto cycle # who gives a f*@%!