wife1stmum2nd
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I am 14 weeks pregnant tomorrow with my 2nd, we have a gorgeous DS already who is 2 1\2yrs. With our son we stayed team yellow but I had a feeling he was a boy all the way through but I don't know if that's because I wanted a boy first.
I am really worried about being disappointed if we find out we're having another boy and I hate thinking it and saying it. I think it would be a case of feeling disappointed for a few days and then feeling fine but I wondered if its normal to feel like this and if so what experiences have others had? Was it as bad as they thought when they found out?
I hate even thinking this way and I've talked to my husband about it and he says he understands but I'm not sure he totally gets it.
We've not set a limit on how many children we plan to have but I can't help but think this could be our last and I would love to have a daughter.
As we stayed team yellow with our son we would love to stay team yellow this time as it was a magical moment when my husband was the one to tell me what we'd had and we would love that again but I'm just worried that if it is a boy will I have disappointment and I don't want that when the baby arrives. It could be completely the opposite because I've got baby in my arms.
I'm just hoping there are some people who have felt the same or feeling the same as this is started to worry me and make me feel like a bad mother
All that matters is that baby is healthy and ultimately we got pregnant again because we wanted another baby not because I wanted a girl but I can't help how I'm feeling at this moment in time.
Any thoughts would be great
I am really worried about being disappointed if we find out we're having another boy and I hate thinking it and saying it. I think it would be a case of feeling disappointed for a few days and then feeling fine but I wondered if its normal to feel like this and if so what experiences have others had? Was it as bad as they thought when they found out?
I hate even thinking this way and I've talked to my husband about it and he says he understands but I'm not sure he totally gets it.
We've not set a limit on how many children we plan to have but I can't help but think this could be our last and I would love to have a daughter.
As we stayed team yellow with our son we would love to stay team yellow this time as it was a magical moment when my husband was the one to tell me what we'd had and we would love that again but I'm just worried that if it is a boy will I have disappointment and I don't want that when the baby arrives. It could be completely the opposite because I've got baby in my arms.
I'm just hoping there are some people who have felt the same or feeling the same as this is started to worry me and make me feel like a bad mother
All that matters is that baby is healthy and ultimately we got pregnant again because we wanted another baby not because I wanted a girl but I can't help how I'm feeling at this moment in time.
Any thoughts would be great