mandaa1220
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If your OH had been like "damn that girl is so fine... I'd want a piece of that" or said it in a vulgar or demeaning way to you, it'd be really out of order and the fight would be acceptable IMO.
Hahaha, that made me laugh out loud.
I am well aware that I sound like a crazy controlling girlfriend, and rest assured I am really not. He regularly says "... is very attractive" and I will usually agree, or sometimes I will point out a smokin' woman to him and he will agree, but this morning just really grinded my gears. I guess I just didn't understand why he would have to say that instead of just "She's a lovely person and didn't deserve that". I think it's because I am more considerate of his feelings and wouldn't ever say anything like that to him.
hahaha glad I could lighten the mood!
I don't think you sound crazy or controlling... I think most women get sensitive by that stuff. Just personally, I don't understand it. I was hoping to just rationalize my perspective to you. I think it also depends what you're talking about and perhaps you were more sensitive in the moment than you typically are.
Hope you're feeling better