My lo is 5 months old today and I love him to pieces and then some, he is coming on so so well and whilst he's only 11lb 5 at 5 months hes a proper little boy's boy IYKWIM, lately I have started thinking about when to add to the family I really want to keep my little family close together in age so they have each other to grow up and play with I cant believe its already been 5 months so far!
Having Matthew for me felt like a miracle as we had IVF April 2008 that sadly ended in a bio-chemical pregnancy and then fell preg natuarally 3 months later without even trying now I feel super-fertile haha and hoping that no2 does not take another 3 years to happen.
I had severe pre-eclamsia which no one is sure was worsened by a pre-existing duplex kidney that may or may not have scarring making it weaker and after 2 weeks of daycare 3-4 times a week I was sectioned at 33+4 which was really scarry as many of you can sympathise and may have been in similar circumstances.
I have been reassured my chances of getting ill again with my next pregnancy as slim although would be high risk and need regular monitoring. I feel that having this experience has prepared me should complications arise in my next pregnancy but ther'es still a niggle at the back of my mind, although not enough to stop me from TTC again when Matthew is say 9month-1year.
Has anyone else began to think about plans for more children either soon or in the future and concerned about delivering early again?. All thoughts welcome x x
Having Matthew for me felt like a miracle as we had IVF April 2008 that sadly ended in a bio-chemical pregnancy and then fell preg natuarally 3 months later without even trying now I feel super-fertile haha and hoping that no2 does not take another 3 years to happen.
I had severe pre-eclamsia which no one is sure was worsened by a pre-existing duplex kidney that may or may not have scarring making it weaker and after 2 weeks of daycare 3-4 times a week I was sectioned at 33+4 which was really scarry as many of you can sympathise and may have been in similar circumstances.
I have been reassured my chances of getting ill again with my next pregnancy as slim although would be high risk and need regular monitoring. I feel that having this experience has prepared me should complications arise in my next pregnancy but ther'es still a niggle at the back of my mind, although not enough to stop me from TTC again when Matthew is say 9month-1year.
Has anyone else began to think about plans for more children either soon or in the future and concerned about delivering early again?. All thoughts welcome x x