Well, I told you guys about Pete giving my resume to his job. Pete just called and HR called him saying I would be perfect for an Executive Assistant

They said I have all the experience and requirements for an EA. Executive Assistants make good money. This particular position would pay $20,000 more a year than my previous job.
The only problem is that this job is at the tip of Manhattan and would mean a 2 hour commute (each way) to work with not getting home until at least 7:30 at night and waking up at about 4:30 every morning.
The money is great and in fact, I'd be making more than DH if I accept it
I just HATE HATE HATE HATE Manhattan...and the idea of having to take a train for an hour and a half and then walking to the subway for another 30 minute ride is quite daunting.
The money is good, but I'd have to get a train pass and then a subway pass, which with the MTA rates going up, will probably be more money than my monthly gas. BUT I'd still be coming home with more money tha I made at my last job.
Pete said to think about it and we'll talk about it tonight when he gets home. He said, "yes, it's alot of money, but it's going to be a very very long day for you and if it's going to effect us negatively, I don't want you to do it b/c the money won't be worth anything that way."
But if I DO take the job, we'll be making enough money together so that we could move back to Westchester County (where we were both born and raised and also where all my family lives but it's also a VERY expensive place to live) and would cut my commute in half.
So I dunno....I'd love to get over my fear of Manhattan and make good money and be DH's "sugar momma"

I just don't know if I'm strong enough to do it.