WTT number 2, only just had number 1!!

[Kiwi2307]

Another one to join you, but slightly different situation. Our little girl was born on 15/2/13 but my wife carried her and we will be TTC with me this time fingers crossed next month when we clarify with our donor (we are away in my fertile window so may just miss out)

I sometimes think we are mad trying so early as my OH caught on her first cycle, but ever the pessimist me is adament I will take longer.

Hi to all.

 

[baileybubs]

Have a great time on the coast katy, and wow you had such a tiny bump!! And I'm very jealous of your slim figure!!

Welcome mannymoo, I had a mmc as well so I feel the same about thinking it will take longer, not necessarily to concieve, but to have a healthy pregnancy.
When are you thinking of ttc or are you going to ntnp? How was your pregnancy and birth? And congratulations!

And welcome kiwi! Will you be ttc soon then hun? Congratulations to you and your wife! If you dont mind me asking, is it expensive to use a sperm donor? And will you be using the same one?

 

[baileybubs]

Sorry just re-read that kiwi and notice you mention that you will start ttc next month lol.
Have you been tracking your cycles?

 

[bbygurl719]

Hi ladies. I'm not ttc. Anytime soon. But when I read Bailey's first post I wanted to respond. On November 18th 2011 I was induced with my first daughter. The day before my due date I ended up having an emcs on my due date. The doctors never told me how long to wait to try again. Well five months later I got my second bfp. So I got pregnant when dd1 was only four months. Went to the same doctors and they never once told me anything bad could happen. So I don't now y they told u a year and that this stuff could happen.I went on to have a healthy baby dd2. I had her by a scheduled c section. And I can say I healed alot better this time and my scar looks a million times better too. Bit my whole reason for posting is that if u feel like u want to ttc sooner than I would say go for it. My babies r only 13 months 3 days apart. Dd1 was born 11/19/11 n dd2 was born 12/22/12

 

[baileybubs]

Thanks for that bbygurl. I've seen different views on whether its safe or not to get pregnant so soon after a c section. My doctor told me a year is best, but ideally 18 months (there's no way I'd wait that long!). I am dying to start ttc again, it's strange how different people are given different advice!!
It's good to hear a positive story though about having 2 c sections so close together, thank you!

 

[bbygurl719]

Your so welcome. If I could I would be ttc already but our situation right now we can't by in five years I plan on having two close again. Whether I get my vbac or another c section.

 

[Firefox]

Hi all, I'd like to join you!

I could have written some of the posts in this thread!

A little about me, I'm currently wtt#3. I am blessed with two lo's: DS1 is 20months and DS2 is 6months old. It took over 2 years to conceive DS1 (ovarian drilling and clomid did the trick ) & DS 2 was conceived naturally (never went on bc after DS1) both little miracles

I've got pcos and don't ovulate regularly at all (I think I may have been super lucky and caught the 2 times that I have!!!) I am super lucky to have my two boys & never ever dreamed i'd be in the position of wanting another baby but I absolutely do! My dh doesn't want to have another so I've got some work to do there but I hope that I can convince him it would be a good thing to try I'm currently on micronor bcp. No idea when to come off it and see what happens...

I hope my post will give hope to those who had problems ttc#1 that #2 can happen

 

[besty]

I hope you are all hvinh a lovely weekend ladies and looking forward to Father's Day tomorrow. What have you all got planned? We are just going to have a quiet day in just the three of us and I'm going to cook a roast dinner.

I've had a super busy few days so looking forward to a relaxing eve tonight and relaxing day tomorrow.

All I seem to be able to think about at the moment is being pregnant again I really miss my bump and cannot wait to do it all again

 

[baileybubs]

Welcome Firefox! When are you WTT til or does that depend on whether you can get dh's approval?
How was your pregnancy and labour this time?

Besty I know what you mean, all I seem to think about is getting pregnant again, even though I know I need to give my body the break and let my scar heal. It will be April before we know it though I'm sure!
Me and df are gonna go visit my parents tomorrow but otherwise nothing much planned.

 

[baileybubs]

Hey everyone,

How are you all doing? My df is killing me lol, he keeps saying he cant wait to ttc again and last night he rubbed my belly and said he missed my bump argh!!1 You and me both fella lol!!

 

[besty]

Hey we are doing well hope you are too.

Ahh your df sounds like my DH he's desperate to try again now!!! He said the other day I just have to tell him when to stop using the condoms! I miss my bump too! I had my friend over this morning she's 34 weeks preg and I could see her tummy moving when baby was kicking and it made me miss being pregnant even more!

 

[baileybubs]

Aw bless! It's weird really coz when I was pregnant I kept saying I wouldn't miss it much lol!

 

[Firefox]

Welcome Firefox! When are you WTT til or does that depend on whether you can get dh's approval?
How was your pregnancy and labour this time?

Hiya baileybubs, yeah it depends on whether can get dh's approval, which is looking very unlikely going by the conversation we had last night Have you thought how many children you would like/ have you and your df agreed? It must be soo hard not to just go for it now if he is really keen!

My pregnancy and labour were good, I was really sick until 25weeks with ds1 and this time around it was 15weeks so alot better! Not many other problems other than tiredness looking after a toddler and being preggers was really hard! Labour was good too, I gave birth after being in hospital 2 hours. Total labour was about 6hours which was about the same time as DS1. I think I slept through alot of the early contractions with ds1!

 

[baileybubs]

I think my df would have a whole football team of kids if he could lol! But I would like 3 or 4, I'd even say 5 lol, would all depend how I'm coping and age, job etc. It is really hard not ttc or NTNP when df is so keen! I'm just too scared about increases risks with having a c section. There's mixed reviews about it really but I wanna play it safe.

Aw that's a shame you oh doesn't want any more Firefox. Do you think he'll change his mind? Has he said why he doesn't want anymore?

 

[besty]

Was wondering if u made a secret group on Facebook those ladies who have it would you be interested? We can wait it out and post (find it harder to go on bnb) as I use my phone most of the time let me know if you want to join and what your names are and I will add you

 

[baileybubs]

I would join, I'm already in one group that started from bnb and has then moved to fb lol.

 

[besty]

Same here and I find the group so helpful what's your name and profile pic and I will make the group tomorrow and add you x

 

[bbygurl719]

I know I posted in her about not ttc soon but I would like to join to as I'm wtt until late 2016 or 2017 for #3 for me. #4 that I'll b raising and #6 for she. My name is Amanda Kemp and my pic is of my 19 month old sitting on edge of pool with her back to camera in a purple tank top.

 

[bbygurl719]

#6 for dh ***

 

[besty]

Bbygurl I can't seem to find you on fb my name is Katie cobb and I've got the same profile pic as I have on here see if you can add me then I can add you to the group