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Serene123
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Do you worry what family will think when you are TTC/pregnant?
Obviously I already have Caitlyn and I won't be having another one untill I am settled in my own home and sure that my relationship is stable enough, but I worry that because I'm so young, even though I already have Caitlyn, people will still be disappointed if I don't wait untill I'm older/married?
I know my Mum won't be disappointed. She knows I want my babies close together and she can't wait to be a Nana again, but I worry about my Nana and Grandad, and my brother. I think those 3 will be disappointed again. I would hate to feel like I disappointed people again.
I suppose the most important thing is that I'm smart about it, wait untill it's the right time for me, and their disappointment shouldn't matter? But it does matter. I hated feeling like I had disappointed everyone when I told them about being pregnant in the first place.
The only person that said "congratulations" to me without saying "you're not going to keep it are you?" first, was my SIL.
Obviously I already have Caitlyn and I won't be having another one untill I am settled in my own home and sure that my relationship is stable enough, but I worry that because I'm so young, even though I already have Caitlyn, people will still be disappointed if I don't wait untill I'm older/married?
I know my Mum won't be disappointed. She knows I want my babies close together and she can't wait to be a Nana again, but I worry about my Nana and Grandad, and my brother. I think those 3 will be disappointed again. I would hate to feel like I disappointed people again.
I suppose the most important thing is that I'm smart about it, wait untill it's the right time for me, and their disappointment shouldn't matter? But it does matter. I hated feeling like I had disappointed everyone when I told them about being pregnant in the first place.
The only person that said "congratulations" to me without saying "you're not going to keep it are you?" first, was my SIL.