Your visability on this forum

[karlilay]

It really depends which forum. I think some people are uncomfortable with those of us that have lost our babies late in pregnancy. I guess it's kind of a reminder that you're never guaranteed a healthy baby in the end. We have to deal with it day in and day out, yet most people want to know nothing about our beautiful babies that didn't get a chance in this world.

Big hugs Hunni, I don't feel uncomftable at all.

 

[pinklightbulb]

Pretty invisible!

 

[Natasha2605]

I really don't think anybody is invisible I recognise most of the names in this thread and I reply to every thread that I think I can offer something to unless I have to run off to do something!

I never feel ignored or invisible. If I don't get many replies I know it's because either nobody can help or I posted at the wrong time when not many people are on.

 

[Siyren]

Was thinking about this since my first reply and yeah I'd say I'm invisible outside of those I "know"
But I wouldn't think it an issue- I've never not had a reply but id say om invisible in thst I'm not well known. Sometimes it just takes longer to get a reply x

 

[dani_tinks]

Sometimes I feel invisible, sometimes I dont . Been here so long now i'm kindof used some of my threads getting replys and some not etc

 

[discoclare]

I'm not really a member who has "friends" so I don't think people know of me or recognise my username. I reply to a thread where I think I can answer the question, I don't care who the OP is, some I recognise and some I don't. If I start a thread I tend to get replies. I would say I am reasonably invisible!

 

[Mammatotwo]

I would say invisible, but not in a negative way. I could choose to be more visible by staying in one area, but seem to look at 'unread posts' and reply to those that I can help or am interested in. I rarely if ever start a thread.

 

[Midnight_Fairy]

Sometimes I feel invisible, sometimes I dont . Been here so long now i'm kindof used some of my threads getting replys and some not etc

Same as

 

[embo216]

Ive been here 4 years but still have a low post count for that amount of time I wouldn't say Im well recognised

 

[Nats21]

I wouldn't say invisible but there are times when I post a thread and its not answered but then a similar thread comes along a few days later and it get lots of replies! I tend to think its probably the time of day I posted it though more then anything else. I recognise most of the people that have replied to this thread though xx

 

[Siyren]

lol id be intrigued to know who are the recognised people? theres a few names i know but not many i must admit. im awful at looking at op's x

 

[LoraLoo]

Some threads i get no replies or maybe 1 or 2, others i get lots, just depends whos around and what the subject is, and if anyone feels they can add anything, i think. I dont get offended if i dont get many replies, people wont ignore you deliberately

 

[Sarahcake]

I think im pretty ignored I always try and post to try and help others out but when its me that could do with a bit of advice, I get like 1 reply.

I remember I posted about going for my 12 week scan, I was so nervous and just needed to chat really. I got zero replies on that, yet one of the more 'vocal' members here got like 3 pages for the same topic the same day.

Its fine though, I dont offer advice so that people will talk to me, it would just be nice to not feel like the 'thread killer' sometimes.

 

[LoraLoo]

It really depends which forum. I think some people are uncomfortable with those of us that have lost our babies late in pregnancy. I guess it's kind of a reminder that you're never guaranteed a healthy baby in the end. We have to deal with it day in and day out, yet most people want to know nothing about our beautiful babies that didn't get a chance in this world.

I dont agree with that, Eve died neonatally but Ive had nothing but support and lovely messages from the ladies on this forum, if anyone is uncomfortable i think they are in the minority

 

[AP]

I've found it's been the time of day, for sure, and even the day of the week, seems to make a difference!

 

[Siyren]

lol now AP is a name i know!

i seem to have a habit of posting threads really late, so i dont usually get a reply til the next day x

 

[AP]

Yeah... No doubt for the wrong reasons

 

[Siyren]

im thinking purely from a septembryo point of view and nothing to do with your partner in crime or shoe obssession at all.... really x

 

[AP]

She really IS a partner in crime I know, septembryo days were not the good ones for me, but nice to have such a nice bunch of friends from it!

I recognise everyone in this thread, again I normally post because of the subject matter rather than who posted.

 

[Siyren]

you guys need your own tv show!
and hmmm friends..... bunch of mad loonies that happen to adore each other! so yes friends.


well of the people viewing this i recognise one!