1 day DPO and in need of buddies :)

[Maddysmum]

Ok I have to catch up on some reading when I get home but thought I would update u while I'm at work. I know I'm out this month already. We have on bd 2 times and I still have not seen any Ewcm or had any cramps. I think I'm not ov this month which is maybe a first for me. I thought about buying some opk but I don't want to waste my money. Maybe it's because I have started work this month and it's been really hard on my body idk. But at the same time it's kinda nice to have a month off fully trying.

 

[babydust818]

AF is fully here. I am out. I knew it with all the BFN's. I'm REALLY hopeful for next month. I had a psychic reading in November and the lady told me if i didn't get pregnant that month then i would in March. I have everything crossed. If not, i def need to go see a doctor and find out WHY i've been unsuccessful for 6 months. I pray to God i don't need to do that. Then again if i am unsuccessful next month i should wait one more month incase that's what the 'psychic' meant. Since i get my AF in the middle of the month.

Eliza, You never know when you could be O'ing hunny! just keeping DTD whenever you want and if it happen... it happens!!!!!!! Would be AWESOME for an unexpected BFP. That's what happened to me last time!!!!!!!

 

[filipenko32]

Aww I'm sorry Rachel you will get there x x x

 

[korink26]

Omg I love how chatty our group is lately! I just gotta catch up now!
Rach that totally sucks AF came!!! Are you going to start temping tomorrow? Some people don't like to temp during AF, but I do just so I know my whole cycle. I remember when you got the psychic reading, and March seemed SOOO FAR AWAY then! Now it's almost here and it's about time we join Lindsay in her journey
Sam, that's crazy with your night sweats!? I get them now that I started clomid, so it must be something with our hormones. Weird....I can't wait to see what your temps are tomorrow---hope they keep climbing!
Lindsay any pictures to share?! I'm dying to see what it looks like when you're having a contraction! I can't believe you're having a boy, makes it so much more real to have the confirmation! Now it will be fun to toss around boys names for the next 25 weeks! DH and I can't agree much on names (we've now had like 1 1/2 years to think of names). We both really liked Caeden, but now it's so over used. I really like the name Caysen, but DH hates it. I went through a stage of loving Celton, but now I'm off that one. Ugg....the only thing we agree on is I Kyleigh for a girl.
Linds I'd like to take your DR. and my nurse and bang their heads together! Like Sam said, how the HELL did they make it as far as they have...
Eliza I NEVER have EWCM, but still ovulate. I forget, do you temp? Keep BD'ing hun, you really can ovulate without it!!
And yep Mel, on my 3rd round of Clomid. Took my 2nd of 5 pills tonight. I think AF has finally left the building, so I'm ready to rock. Will probably start BD'ing on CD 12 (only CD6 right now).

 

[korink26]

we have started thinking about names, so far we have:

Rylan - a boys name but has been used as a girl's name in recent years so DH is reluctant
Oakley - just worried about it also being the sunglass brand but I think this is my favorite right now
Kirk - DH's name and I just love it but not sure how he feels about it - been hard to read!
Oh and I just saw Quinlan that I like - haven't even mentioned that one to DH yet though.

middle name will definitely be Daniel to honor my dad - my brother is not going to have any kids (by choice) so we'd like to give some sort of tribute to my side of the family.

Oohhh I love all those, but really love RYLAN!!!

 

[babydust818]

who is sam and WHY can't i see any of her posts?

 

[korink26]

who is sam and WHY can't i see any of her posts?

Sam is our girl pink from our CBFM thread! You can't see any of her posts?!

 

[babydust818]

LOL omg... her name is Sam? I didn't know this! my bad

 

[filipenko32]

Kelsey you've just got to keep thinking you got pregnant before you can do it again, hang in there Hun x x x

 

[pinksmarties]

LOL omg... her name is Sam? I didn't know this! my bad[/QUOTE

 

[confusedprego]

I posted a pic of the baby from Monday - see the big bulge smushing the baby's face??? That's a contraction! Crazy! It let up some by the end of our scanning but that was probably the most profound picture. I love how the hand looks in that picture. melts my heart.

Thanks for the comments on the names! DH kinda shot down Quinlan last night - said it sounded weird but he'd think about it haha.

I have to run to a doc appt but Eliza I wouldn't count yourself out! I always get EWCM and I didn't this past cycle and obviously I got pregnant and everything is so far so good!! dont' lose hope hun!!

 

[pinksmarties]

Lindsey - what a fantastic scan picture. Look at his tiny little hand!! Just perfect!!

 

[confusedprego]

Back from the doc appt - things are still looking very well and I got the all clear to start prenatal yoga! pretty excited to get back to doing something active!

 

[korink26]

Glad your appt went well Linds! I LOVE the picture--almost looks like the lil guy is picking his nose! lol Happy 16 weeks!!!!! I hope I'm like you and want to stay active, I'll probably use it as an excuse to get out of my workouts! I guess that just means you'll probably me a "milf" and I'll just be a whale!
Sam---glad to see your temp stayed up today. When do you start testing?
Jessie--hope you're doing good! Hope all your trip planning is going good and it's helping time move quicker for you.
Rachael----watched Teen Mom last night, and I wanna smack Leah! How immature and needy to go do what she did a week before her damn wedding. Sorry, but what a lil whore (pardon my french). I really wanted her and Corey to make it, I liked them together. Still have to watch the Challenge from last night. So far it's not been too exciting---waiting for some more drama!

 

[babydust818]

Sam ughhh i totally forgot that was your name. I'm sooo sorry! I kept thinking there was someone else commented and i was blocked from them. When i think back to kels old thread i now remember that is your name! Ugh... i feel bad now. Sorry!!!

Kelsey omg i can't stand leah. Lil trashy biatch. Corey seems like such a sweet boy. Poor thing. The challenge was dull last night. Nothing good. I know drama is yet to come! Jersey is on tonight!!!!!! ooo and im gonna go buy a basal therm today. I reset my cbfm at 1030 this morning LOL. so i should be good.

Lindsay omg BEAUTIFUL sono pic. AWHH!!!!!!!!! He looks so big and healthy already LOL. I'm very happy for you and your hubby!!!!

 

[BeachChica]

Hey girls just a quick stop in to say hello! Work has been nuts this week so I have not had a chance to catch up but I will tonight!

The doctor told me today that the tissue from my MC could not be tested. I am sooooooo pissed!!!!!!
Anyway, she (the regular OB) suggested I try in vitro now so that everything could be tested for chromosomal problems before being implanted. I don't know I need to make an appt to speak to my specialist now about all this. Seems extreme and very expensive when I only have 1 set of tissue results that show a chromosomal problem and all of DH and I's tests have come back normal. What do you girls think?

 

[Maddysmum]

Oh Lindsay I love that pic. He is so cute already. Can I ask what the go is with the contraction. I feel silly asking but why was that happening.

 

[confusedprego]

I attached a photo from today where he doesn't have my uterus smushing his little face!

Eliza - I was told that is how your uterus expands. It contracts like that and then releases larger than it was before to make more room. I was relieved to see a nice round ball for baby to play around in today! He was much more active than last time but I assume that's because he actually had room to be.

Kelsey - I am usually really active but with my first pregnancy I did bootcamp 3-4 times a week and/or did workout videos a few times a week and I got a heartrate monitor and my heartrate would get really high so when I had the miscarriage I vowed to sit on my ass until I got to a safe point in the pregnancy and even then to only do Yoga and relaxation type exercise. So, I'm happy to start doing something but have honestly kind of enjoyed sitting on my ass!! haha

Sam and Rach - Thanks for the nice comments!! he sure melts my heart every time I see him! Hope you ladies are doing well!

Mel - hope you're doing well!! any news from your doc lately?

Jess - How aggravating the tissue couldn't be analyzed!! How much does in vitro cost?? If that could save you from going through this all again - maybe it is worth it??? I don't know! do they have any ideas of anything you could change next time to reduce your chances of going through this again?

 

[korink26]

Ohh nooo Jessie!!! I feel horrible for you! So you have had tissue tested in previous miscarriages? And if 1 time they found chromosonal problems, couldn't they tell from that if it's something that will be the case EVERY time you get pregnant or just a fluke? Idk about by you, but isn't IVF around $10000-20000? I've of course looked at that in case I for some reason don't get PG again....it will be the biggest decision we'll ever have to make, without having a guarantee it will work. Is DH good about talking about all this with you? I will def. be interested to see what your specialist says, because I think they have a way better grasp on these type of issues. When will you get to speak to him?
Love the picture Lindsay, can't wait until he's here and we can see him! Your post was so cute about being glad there was room for the baby to play....Have you announced it on facebook yet? You've got such restraint if you haven't yet!

 

[pinksmarties]

Lindsey - another lovely non squished picture. I could look at them all day!!

Jessie - that is soo bad about your tissue not being able to be tested, I'd be so angry too. It is a difficult one about going for IVF. It could have been just that one pg that had chromosomals isues the rest 'normal' and bad luck. Having this tissue tested would have given you more of an idea whats going on so no wonder you are pissed. Are all your other blood results okay? At least with IVF you would know the bean was good chromosomally.

Rachel - I just thought it was funny. TBH I had to write everyone names and their real names as I was struggling to remember who was who initally! Bummer that AF appeared but at least you know whats going on. Did you say you might start temping this month? I like the new pic!!

Kelsey - no idea about the TV programmes you are talking about. WE have a programme called One Born Every Minute which also has some right nutters on.

Hi Eliza, nearly the weekend. Anything planned.

afm - another crap nights sleep. This going to bed early is making things worse!! I took my temp after the longest bit of sleep but I can't be sure how accurate it is but I think it is still high. I got one of the nurses at work to take my Thryoid as the RCMC clinic don't do them anymore (!!) and I have been cold/tired etc. It was 4.27 (normal range 0.4 -4.0). This had freaked me out a bit especially reading how important having low TSH is for pg. Looking on the UK guidlelines the GP tend not to treat unless it is over 10! Do you think I am over reacting? I am worried the GP will just think I am daft.