chefamy1122
hating infertility
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okay ladies I think we have entertained this little girl long enough.
Mite i just add the "1st baby" has said that she has tried for so long, yet on her above paragraph has written that she was not meant to become pregnant.
Therefore i come to the conclusion that how can you say you have tried for so long, given the fact that your pregnancy was a mistake, because it was unplanned.
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i also suggest you change that part time job of yours to a full time one, in order to pay for your 'LIFETIME' commitment.x
Thanks 1st_baby and you're right we're not 100% financially ready but we'll do our best.
Thanks 1st_baby and you're right we're not 100% financially ready but we'll do our best.
dam right lol i myself thought my savings and our high paing jobs would be enough lol hell no this lil man is sucking me dry on funds lol
i am totally aware i am selfish..but at the end of the day. i am finacially stable. will have a brilliant job and guys will always come and go.. it doesnt matter as long as theres unconditional love.x
jayleighann.. HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY BE READY FOR A CHILD!!
FOR goodness sake!!
You are my age!
Can you cope with a baby on your own? Because being financially stable is one thing, being mentally stable is completely another..
I think that to risk getting pregnant by God knows how many men, is selfish to your child. I mean, what will you say when they're old enough to start enquiring about their father?
"Well, it may have been Number 1...or maybe number 2...or maybe 3..."
Your so right there jayleighann btu at least your friend understands what she did !
this girl dosent seem too lol
Jayleighann..you are just as naiive as me.
It will be practically imposible trying to get back into further education after having a child plus you are as young as me and i highly doubt a marriage proposal will be granted before the baby is born!
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Jayleighann..you are just as naiive as me.
It will be practically imposible trying to get back into further education after having a child plus you are as young as me and i highly doubt a marriage proposal will be granted before the baby is born!
x
WHAT THE F***?!
You are a selfish silly little girl. You need to grow up and realise that not everybody your age is as naive and selfish as you.
How dare you come on for advice and start telling other people how to live their lives?
GO AWAY.
Unis offer creches for young mums so they CAN get back into education, who needs marriage, just because I am not married does not mean I'm in a 'one night stand' type relationship. My partner would never leave me if I were pregnant.
I'm in a stable relationship at 18 too, just because you've got such issues that you feel you must sleep with everyone that shows an interest in you, doesn't mean everyone else does too. What does that scream little girl? What does that say about you?
I can't believe how ignorant you're being. Yes, some 18 year olds decide that they are in the position to have a baby, that's because we have stable relationships, stable jobs, and we are mentally ready. You risking getting pregnant says to me "I want a baby to make me feel special".
You're sleeping with anyone that comes near you and you want a baby...for what? So someone WILL love you unconditionally? So you can feel good about yourself because someone is reliant on YOU, instead of you relying on other men to make you feel good? And wanted?
Yes, I'm being very harsh, but as I say how dare someone as spoilt sounding as you start calling other people names and telling them that because they're your age they don't deserve a baby.
I suggest seeing a councillor.
Urgh.. some people make me so mad!