19, in Uni and trying for a baby.

[BullsBabe]

Just for fun....

Dunno If you girls like rugby, but my DH is fanatical about it, and since I saw few of you guys are from UK (not generalizing ) I thought I'd post these two

https://www.lovell-rugby.co.uk/products/18959.jpg

Sent it to DH as well. He loves it Cuteness overload!

 

[lerp2]

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Ladies!!!

Second day of AF,thought I would be depro, but feeling good, except AF cramps are killing me. Seeing this as another cycle to make a healthy lil peanut. Which is weird, coz I'm an extremely impatient person!! This is going to be it!!

@Kazine - I swear today I see a bit more of a line on that test!! Did you do another one??? I'm really excited for you girl!!

@ Wishing - Oh no! Maybe the spotting isn't all that bad? Is it dark brown or red? Don't give up girl. The witch hasn't shown up yet, so you are still in! How are the temps looking? I to sometimes get emotional when looking at the little ones.. Last night at a business league bowling match which my DH and I take part in, I saw this little baby girl with a pink tutu. Clearly oblivious to everyone around her..just starting to walk..was the cutest thing. I was staring so much, I forgot for that moment I still had to take part... She was just so beautiful...

@Lerp - How's things on your side? Anything new?

@ Jessica - Hi and welcome!! We have made this more into our personal chat room. Lol. We love having new ttc buddies!!

GUYS!
we all need to stay positive

I still haven't got the evil witch yet, but I keep having period like pains but nothing, not even slight spotting is occuring! I'm weeing constantly and am very constipated (sorry if TMI) so I don't know. My backs been hurting too but I don't know if thats just because I'm slumped over a table reading all day! So I really have no idea what's going on!

Bullsbabe! i really really hope it is for you, taken a test yet?

Kazine, do another if you aren't sure and hopefully the line will be more prominent!

Wishing, DON'T GIVE UP! I read that spotting can occur during pregnancy, so it may not be the end! Do a test anyway? Is it heavy?

and again Jessica welcome Please keep us informed!

 

[kazine]

this morning... Soooo upset :'(

 

[lerp2]

ohhhh girl

I'm soooo sorry! but this isn't the end of it!

Keep trying! You've got such a supportive OH and you need to stay positive we're all here if you need us!

 

[kazine]

And people keep looking at my chart and telling me I O'd on CD23 not CD20 and we had stopped BDing by then I'm sure theyre wrong because I got a +opk on cd19 and had watery cm which hasn't been back since CD19 but still its not helping my emotions right now

 

[lerp2]

mmm it wouldn't. I'm sooo sorry!

But you have a lot more years to try and hopefully it won't take more years! and it'll be very soon!

Just don't let this stop you girl!

 

[BullsBabe]

Ugh, I just wanna cry so badly. I'm tired of getting a BFN & my AF. I know I should be positive and keep trying but my spirit and motivation is undermined.

I'm going to be a young/old lady with 60 dogs!

I feel bad because I told my OH that I can't keep doing this so if he wants a baby he can knock someone else up. I'm horrible

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Ladies!!!

Second day of AF,thought I would be depro, but feeling good, except AF cramps are killing me. Seeing this as another cycle to make a healthy lil peanut. Which is weird, coz I'm an extremely impatient person!! This is going to be it!!

@Kazine - I swear today I see a bit more of a line on that test!! Did you do another one??? I'm really excited for you girl!!

@ Wishing - Oh no! Maybe the spotting isn't all that bad? Is it dark brown or red? Don't give up girl. The witch hasn't shown up yet, so you are still in! How are the temps looking? I to sometimes get emotional when looking at the little ones.. Last night at a business league bowling match which my DH and I take part in, I saw this little baby girl with a pink tutu. Clearly oblivious to everyone around her..just starting to walk..was the cutest thing. I was staring so much, I forgot for that moment I still had to take part... She was just so beautiful...

@Lerp - How's things on your side? Anything new?

@ Jessica - Hi and welcome!! We have made this more into our personal chat room. Lol. We love having new ttc buddies!!

GUYS!
we all need to stay positive

I still haven't got the evil witch yet, but I keep having period like pains but nothing, not even slight spotting is occuring! I'm weeing constantly and am very constipated (sorry if TMI) so I don't know. My backs been hurting too but I don't know if thats just because I'm slumped over a table reading all day! So I really have no idea what's going on!

Bullsbabe! i really really hope it is for you, taken a test yet?

Kazine, do another if you aren't sure and hopefully the line will be more prominent!

Wishing, DON'T GIVE UP! I read that spotting can occur during pregnancy, so it may not be the end! Do a test anyway? Is it heavy?

and again Jessica welcome Please keep us informed!

Lol Nooooooooo! Only started AF yesterday. Just having a positive feeling about this cycle. Hoping for the best! I also suffer from backaches because of sitting at the desk all day! When are you due to test?

@Kazine - I'm so sorry to hear But Af hasn't shown up yet, so you're not out yet! And even if it does, not the end of the world. I just know, by the end of this year, all 4 of us would have gotten our BFP's. We will get through this together

 

[Wishing_]

At first there was more red & brown mixed in watery cm but when I used the bathroom again sometime later it was more brownish and very little of it.

My OH is really supportive. He told me to shut up because he loves me and he is happy without a kid but I know he really wants one for he is always saying he wants kids. Due to me sounding depressed yesterday he called a aunt who recommended him a family specialist. She too wants to see us happy and she knows we been trying. I just don't know if I should do it. My aunt goes to specialist to conceive. She had so many fails and miscarriages it made her depressed. She even had to give her self shots! I don't wanna do that.

I'm scared to go pee & see the wicked witch from hell!!

 

[lerp2]

Good Keep feeling postitive!
I think I'm going to test next week!

Yes Kazine, we are all here and going through this together! so just keep ranting about it, we all listen and will try and help as much as we can! Although be aware, my advice is usually to cry and eat chocolate

 

[lerp2]

At first there was more red & brown mixed in watery cm but when I used the bathroom again sometime later it was more brownish and very little of it.

My OH is really supportive. He told me to shut up because he loves me and he is happy without a kid but I know he really wants one for he is always saying he wants kids. Due to me sounding depressed yesterday he called a aunt who recommended him a family specialist. She too wants to see us happy and she knows we been trying. I just don't know if I should do it. My aunt goes to specialist to conceive. She had so many fails and miscarriages it made her depressed. She even had to give her self shots! I don't wanna do that.

I'm scared to go pee & see the wicked witch from hell!!

do what you think is best for both of you, if thats seeing someone then do

But its only one month, you have next month to try! You're OH is there for you and loves and wants kids with YOU, so remember that. No matter how long it takes, he will stand by you and be happy that you have him by your side fingers are crossed for you!

 

[Wishing_]

The witch is light bit I feel super nauseous today!

I know he does. He felt so bad that he wanted to spend the night holding me. I am going to give him a big hug for being the strong one. We haven't been ttc for a month since I went to the ER on the 10th last month. I might consider going to see the specialiest but I know its going to cost a arm and a leg. I feel more fertile just because I got a normal cycle. Oh & I don't chart or day anything like that... Is that bad?

Anyways, enough about me. How is everyone?

 

[BullsBabe]

@Wishing - I'm beginning to think you put to much stress on yourself, and maybe that's why it's not happening? I know it is really hard, but I think you should just try to relax? I'm guessing you being tense, is making your OH tense and that can't be good for ttc? If you feel more fertile about having a good cycle, then focus on that. Get something positive to focus on if you start a new cycle, and try not to tense up about it? I feel like I'm giving shitty advice coz I know it's really hard just to relax. Remember, just because your aunt is having problems, doesn't mean you will to! I'm confident you are going to get pregnant soon girl! My gut feeling tells me we are all very very close! AND just remember, as lerp said, we are all here to help each other! We are in the same boat

@Lerp - Great! I'm keeping FX'd for next week Thinking this weekend will be an eternity hey? Lol. Love the advice on crying and eating chocolate! Sometimes all we need is a good cry, then we can face the world again

 

[lerp2]

Completely agree with what Bullsbabe said, maybe just try and forget about getting pregnant and just have fun with your OH, because once you do have a baby, you won't have time to just cuddle or even have sex when you want! so just have some fun, go see a movie, go out for a meal and have sex without thinking about conceiving, just be young!

And yes! I had a little cry last night and this morning I'm all good
It really does! But if I'm not, then I know I have a lot more time to try

 

[BullsBabe]

Completely agree with what Bullsbabe said, maybe just try and forget about getting pregnant and just have fun with your OH, because once you do have a baby, you won't have time to just cuddle or even have sex when you want! so just have some fun, go see a movie, go out for a meal and have sex without thinking about conceiving, just be young!

And yes! I had a little cry last night and this morning I'm all good
It really does! But if I'm not, then I know I have a lot more time to try

That's the spirit!! We are young, ladies!! We are supposed to be baby making machines!!! (just kidding!) We should relax, and be young, before we know it, we will have a little bump!

I know I'm out this month, and I'm positive as hell about my current cycle! We should just take it a cycle at a time! I'm already on my folic acid pills, and just ordered some Vitamin B complex (working at a hospital has it's advantages) so I'm preparing my body, getting the needed vitamins and I'm just going to take it chilled this month. Doing my temps daily, checking CM after AF, BD ALOT (WHOOO HOOOO) and I'm gonna get that darn at the end

 

[BullsBabe]

I think we all could use this

https://www.parents.com/getting-pregnant/trying-to-conceive/tips/stay-sane-while-trying/

 

[Wishing_]

I think we all could use this

https://www.parents.com/getting-pregnant/trying-to-conceive/tips/stay-sane-while-trying/

I like #4 & #7 and hate #5.

 

[Wishing_]

I am feeling really happy... the power of but I gotta say it was weird and nasty but yet amazing... It got lighter...

I'm in the mood for some icecream.

Cramps are a pain!

I cleaned the house, gave my pup a bath and finally was able to cute his hair that was around his eye. He can see! lol

I don't know what I'm in such a good mood!

Why are the smiley so cute?!

I still feel like testing! Mood swings is a symptom. My mood have been changing a lot!!

Maybe that's why I'm happy? There a possibility of me still being pregnant... uhm...

 

[Wishing_]

https://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/736x/81/d6/bd/81d6bdc6091db2300d3db43cd1ffb627.jpg
https://www.lolbrary.com/content/175/the-perfect-baby-costume-37175.jpg
https://tn.loljam.com/14/upload/post/201210/17/1314/28cfc48a6596a029cb306fa96183fa10.jpg
https://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/b5/85/a6/b585a60454fba79b3244190e603b1757.jpg
https://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/236x/fc/34/de/fc34de66a34ad5b034aec30b1ec03679.jpg
https://www.ryanseacrest.com/wp-content/gallery/baby-halloween-costumes/pinterest-com4_.jpg

 

[kazine]

https://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/736x/81/d6/bd/81d6bdc6091db2300d3db43cd1ffb627.jpg
https://www.lolbrary.com/content/175/the-perfect-baby-costume-37175.jpg
https://tn.loljam.com/14/upload/post/201210/17/1314/28cfc48a6596a029cb306fa96183fa10.jpg
https://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/b5/85/a6/b585a60454fba79b3244190e603b1757.jpg
https://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/236x/fc/34/de/fc34de66a34ad5b034aec30b1ec03679.jpg
https://www.ryanseacrest.com/wp-content/gallery/baby-halloween-costumes/pinterest-com4_.jpg

I sent that penguin one to OH the other day cause he loves penguins.

At OHs parents tonight so can't POAS til Sunday

 

[kazine]

Tonight I just got really really severe back cramps that had me nearly screaming... Don't know if it ties with my other back pains or pregnancy...