2009 March Mummies

[jojo1974]

thats so true claire

 

[Gwizz]

I agree Claire

Jo (Sorry I assume ur name is jo ? lol) I was on the mini pill for a while and it made me vile to the point that steve threw the rest of them out and refused to let me take them!

xxx

 

[claire-lou]

Cerezette did that to me, the best form of contraception ever cos he daren't come near me for fear of his life

 

[jojo1974]

yes its jo
i ve been quite down and hormonal so it could be that
got no sex drive etc (sorry if tmi ) most of the arguments are over this

 

[Gwizz]

Yeah thats the name claire Cerezette

 

[jojo1974]

thats what im takin
i was on the depo before and that gave me spots and i gained loads of weight
think a trip to drs is in order
ty

 

[Gwizz]

We've got it the other way - his sex drive has dropped and mines increased - thats causing issues here (plus all the pc games he plays on )

Have u thought about the implant hun? might help u feel better about yourself

xxx

 

[jojo1974]

lol dont get me started on games lol half of the time im a xbox widow
my oh was the opposite wen i was pregnant he wanted it more
will av a browse on google about the im plant other than that its going to be condoms or ttc lol

 

[claire-lou]

Jo that was exactly how I was no sex drive, hated myself, Joe thought I hated him and that was why I didn't want sex! Which just made me cry more and hate myself even more and cos he didn't understand I would just shout and throw things! He kept telling me I had post natal depression which did even less for my self esteem I googled it and found that it was really common so flushed them down loo and was back to my normal slightly more balanced self within a week or so! I'd def go to doc's and discuss your options

 

[jojo1974]

ty claire thats how ive been , i felt like locking my self away and crying , he thinks i dont fancy him and i gone off him and i felt likes hes gone off me ive been so paronoid of silly things , it all makes sense now ty again , the pills are now in the bin
its helped talking on here

 

[Gwizz]

Yeah defo claire

Family planning clinics are also good if u cant get in at docs
Sounds like the sooner the better to come off them - it really will make u feel better virtually instantly *hugs*

x

 

[Gwizz]

I thought it was postnatal depression claire at the time (although I think I did have extended baby blues for a few months following bens birth!) It was horrible, I cried alot

 

[claire-lou]

So did I but I put it down to the guilt from not bf'ing And then everyone got ill so it just kinda rollercoastered

 

[jojo1974]

they are in the bin
i just text him and told him lol
i feel better just talking on ere i mean it ty loads
i dont come on ere loads didnt mean to rant , was on ere just catching up with everyone and getting broodier lol

 

[Gwizz]

Lol my replies are in a different order to what I read on here ! really should refresh!

Seems we've all gone though similar experiences

Its good to talk!

 

[Gwizz]

they are in the bin
i just text him and told him lol
i feel better just talking on ere i mean it ty loads
i dont come on ere loads didnt mean to rant , was on ere just catching up with everyone and getting broodier lol

Jo dont apologise, u havent ranted and Im glad we were able to help (Also a little bit freaky how weve all experienced the same thing!)

x

 

[jojo1974]

i was on the depo after aving jaocob it gave me spots and the weight gain was loads didnt do much only killed my self esteem ,
the dr recomende the mini pill cause of my age (36 ) and i smoke
it must of been awfull for you both feeling like that after giving birth

 

[claire-lou]

Glad we can be of some help

 

[Gwizz]

Im off to work now, let us know how u get on Jo

x

 

[jojo1974]

i never thought the pill would have that affect , i was on the pill in my teens and seemed fine (not the mini pill )
ty both again