Just quickly caught up...
Maggs, hope you have a lovely visit with your brother and SIL!
Greats, making stuff ahead of time and freezing it is definitely the way to go! We did that last time. We also had my Mom stay with us for two weeks and she did all of the cooking and grocery shopping which was amazing. Friends also brought food for us when they came to visit which was nice; we barely did any ordering in after Isla was born
We just had a normal Graco monitor, (not even a video one). She was always near by us when she slept though for the first 6 months of her life. I also checked on her when she wasn't in our room to make sure she was OK. With our monitor I can actually hear her breathing so I always felt reassured by that and if she cried out I went to her.
One of my friends had twins who were in the NICU for months and was going to get the Angelcare monitor but the nurses actually advised against it; I think it was because a lot of people had false alarms with it and there was something to do with the wires on the pad or something (I can't remember all the details). This was three years ago now so newer models might be improved...That is a terrible story about the twins you watched Kyla
Kyla, hope you feel better, take advantage of the opportunity to rest when you can!
We had a busy weekend away visiting friends and family. Got to visit with one of my best friends and her new baby daughter. She is so cute and made me very excited to have little Ethan. Was also interesting watching Isla interact with baby (she did really well) and watching my friend's older son and how he's handling being a big brother (her kids have the exact age difference that Isla and Ethan will have). Apparently, he's been acting up a lot to get extra attention; I totally expect Isla will be the same. We made sure to bring a present for him and baby girl so he wouldn't feel left out...
Also, leant her some baby girl clothes, am happy that they will get some more use!