* 2016 Bfp's * >> 7 BFP's and counting!!

[j1405]

Hi ladies!

Sorry I'm so late to the party but would love to join you please!

I'm TTC#2 since July 2015, I've had two BFPs and both unfortunately ended in loss. The most recent one was a missed miscarriage so had to be forced with medical management just past 10 weeks, and it seems to have messed my cycle up as I'm nearly 7 weeks since the last loss now but only just got negative HPTs this week and no sign of ovulation or AF yet. Was hoping to wait for a fresh cycle to TTC full swing again but no idea when AF is going to show now so just a waiting game for me. I've literally been pregnant for the last 6 months of 2015 with two different pregnancies and nothing to show for it now apart from my messed up cycle, so really hoping 2016 is our year!

Good luck to you all, may this year bring us all our bundles of joy!

Hi Bubbles!! Welcome

I have also been ttc #2 since May 2015 and unfortunately, no luck yet I'm so sorry to hear about your losses! I'd take my 7 months without bfp's any day over a loss

I really hope that your cycle normalises soon and that you would get a sticky bean!! Do you know what could be the cause of your early losses?

Looking forward to see a sticky bean for you!!

 

[bubbles82]

Unfortunately no idea on the cause, I've now had three losses altogether as I had one with my very first pregnancy before I had my DD, but until I've had three in a row I don't qualify for any testing or anything. It's hard to think I'd have to go through another before anyone would do anything to help if it's going to keep happening to us. Hopefully it was just bad luck and we'll be OK next time but it's going to be a worry either way!

 

[j1405]

Hi all! Can I join in hoping for a 2016 BFP?

Officially TTC #2 (as soon as AF is done lol)

You are more than welcome!!! Hope you get a bfp soon!

Would love to join you all here! We aren't starting to try until April but would love to root you all on in the meantime. I have one DS who is almost 2...this next baby will be our last so its all little bittersweet

Hi!! Ahhhh I know how you feel. I'm also ttc #2 and it will also be our last so I completely get how you feel. Its going to be a special pregnancy for me knowing its my last!!

Hope we get our bfp's soon!

I'm back, I last posted on page 2! Been off the forums over the christmas break but catching up now!

I'm on CD 22 and still no ovulation ... RAH! I've had 3 days of partial ferning on my scope OPK though so it must be close. I had a dip in temperature this morning, but opk was negative. So confusing, I'm hoping this afternoon I'll get a positive. We are BD'ing every day to catch it, I'm just impatient and don't want long cycles anymore!

Hope you're all well!

ugh!! know how you feel! Same here! Normally I get a positive opk when I test mid day after 12 however for some reason, this cycle, i'm getting negatives but I've noticed my temp dropped quite a bit this morning and I have also noticed some EWCM which I rarely ever get, so i'm a bit more excited today!! will bd tonight and hope we still in time to catch the egg!!

We also tried the every 2nd day be and it was going quite well but dh just needed a day or so off so really hoping it was worth the few days and that tonight isn't too late!!

Good luck to you and hope you O soon!!

 

[j1405]

Unfortunately no idea on the cause, I've now had three losses altogether as I had one with my very first pregnancy before I had my DD, but until I've had three in a row I don't qualify for any testing or anything. It's hard to think I'd have to go through another before anyone would do anything to help if it's going to keep happening to us. Hopefully it was just bad luck and we'll be OK next time but it's going to be a worry either way!

That's crazy!! I would say at least 2 mc's should qualify you especially if they are consecutively!! I do hope that its just bad luck and that you will be blessed with a super sticky bean!! x

 

[AshNAmber]

Welcome to all our new ladies Party is getting bigger!!

I got another blinky today I looked at the test and this is the darkest I have seen it.. How dark does it have to be to get my peak already I'm kinda happy seeing we didn't get our AI in last night. So going to tell them tonight and tomorrow are a must to stay in the game FX we can do this.

 

[MDW]

I'd like to join if that's okay? I'm on my first cycle of trying, after only just agreeing to go for #3. Good luck everyone!

 

[j1405]

Welcome MDW!!

@ash... Looks pretty dark to me, but its like you say, would probably be in the next day or so! Hoping you get to AI for both days!

So I have no more opk's left and since its stressing me out, I decided to not go and buy some more and just go with the fact that my temp dropped quite a bit this morning and I have a little EWCM. Going to bd tonight and hope for the best! Also been getting stinging pains near my ovaries so hoping its ovulation at last!!

 

[kksy9b]

Thank you for the welcome ladies!

Ash- hope you get your solid smiley in the next day or two!

J14- OPKs stress me out too! I opted not to use them last time and Dont think I will this time either. Good luck hun

 

[AshNAmber]

So I got home and used a good old fashion OPK and it came back so dark so fast I saved the cup and went get my digi and dipped it and yep just as I suspected I got my peak!! so I called donors wife and told her tonight is a must so I'll either O tonight or tomorrow but either way AI will be done tonight FX and

J looking at your FF I think you got it covered! We got this! FX

 

[Smille24]

So I got home and used a good old fashion OPK and it came back so dark so fast I saved the cup and went get my digi and dipped it and yep just as I suspected I got my peak!! so I called donors wife and told her tonight is a must so I'll either O tonight or tomorrow but either way AI will be done tonight FX and

J looking at your FF I think you got it covered! We got this! FX

Yay that's awesome news. Fxd for you!! Catch that egg.

 

[kksy9b]

Awesome news about getting your peak!! FX'd for you!!

 

[Sheece]

So last night I had more partial ferning, this morning I had 0. Might just stick to testing after work! Temp still lwo though so waiting game still on.

I'm starting to feel like OPKs are too stressful for me too,and this is only my first cycle trying them ha ha. I like the added knowledge of when Ov might happen, but i think the confusion might not be worth it hmmm.

FX for you AshandAmber!!

 

[j1405]

Yay!! Take a look at my FF chart!! Got the biggest temp shift this morning!! And we got to bd last night so there was for sure an egg waiting when we bd'd! Hoping we got it!!

Since we did not bd since saturday, dh had a sperm build up of 3 days which is great as there were more spermies in the race to the egg!!

@Ash.. great to see you got your peak and hope you got the AI!!

now I can relax and wait for ff to confirm o yesterday!

 

[kksy9b]

Awesome news J14!!! Fingers crossed you catch that eggie! When do you think you will start testing?

Sheece- temping and OPKs were way too stressful for me too. I found monitoring CM and BD'ing every day there was fertile mucus kept me relaxed and not stressed (which you Dont want to be stressed when trying to get preggo!)

 

[j1405]

No idea. Will try hold off untill 12 dpo. My lp is normally 11 days. However I will probably cave and test earlier hehe

 

[AshNAmber]

Yay!! Take a look at my FF chart!! Got the biggest temp shift this morning!! And we got to bd last night so there was for sure an egg waiting when we bd'd! Hoping we got it!!

Since we did not bd since saturday, dh had a sperm build up of 3 days which is great as there were more spermies in the race to the egg!!

@Ash.. great to see you got your peak and hope you got the AI!!

now I can relax and wait for ff to confirm o yesterday!

Thanks ladies

Oh J!! Look at that jump It sounds like you hit it perfect!! I hope this is your month FX!! TWW here we come!!

I did get my AI in last night as well I had a very little shift in temp so I believe I O'd last night.. I'm going to take a reg OPK when I get home if its even a faint bit dark I'm going to do an AI tonight but if its stark white I wont worry about it because I know that O happened already.. Or should we do it any way? I'm just happy I got it last night on peak.. I'm feeling it ladies!!

 

[Smille24]

Yay!! Take a look at my FF chart!! Got the biggest temp shift this morning!! And we got to bd last night so there was for sure an egg waiting when we bd'd! Hoping we got it!!

Since we did not bd since saturday, dh had a sperm build up of 3 days which is great as there were more spermies in the race to the egg!!

@Ash.. great to see you got your peak and hope you got the AI!!

now I can relax and wait for ff to confirm o yesterday!

Thanks ladies

Oh J!! Look at that jump It sounds like you hit it perfect!! I hope this is your month FX!! TWW here we come!!

I did get my AI in last night as well I had a very little shift in temp so I believe I O'd last night.. I'm going to take a reg OPK when I get home if its even a faint bit dark I'm going to do an AI tonight but if its stark white I wont worry about it because I know that O happened already.. Or should we do it any way? I'm just happy I got it last night on peak.. I'm feeling it ladies!!

If it's still positive, I'd do AI tonight just in case. That's my opinion though. If your temp rises again tomorrow you'll know you're in the tww.

 

[LilacPetal]

Hello ladies. Good luck to everyone ovulating right around now, it looks like there are a lot who are!

AFM - I had cramping all day CD 10 & 11 and starting spotting last night. I woke up at 4am this morning with terrible cramps and full flow On to another cycle, not really a surprise at this point. We've got doctor appointments scheduled for a couple weeks from now and so hopefully will begin the journey of finding out what is wrong with us. In the mean time I'm going to try and make plans and preparations for fun things to do this summer - I love summer and cannot wait for winter to be over. I think this next cycle I'm going to eliminate red raspberry leaves and progesterone cream and add B vitamins to the routine.

~LilacPetal~

 

[krissie328]

AshNAmber- Looking good so far! I think if the donor is willing I would go ahead and do another AI.

LilacPetal- How frustrating. I hope you get some answers soon.

j1405- Lovely temp shift!!

Afm, not much to report. I have been having some cramps today so thinking might be trying to show. I forgot my progesterone last night so probably falling now. If its the same as my previous cycles af should be here within three days. I am sitting on the fence with what to do. I am leaning towards getting two cycles of clomid in before March and seeing what happens. I am nervous but on the other hand I know another baby would be so welcomed. And if I don't have any success I will have two months to get sorted with my doctor before trying again in May. Which is the latest I wanted to wait before trying.

 

[Sheece]

last night it was almost a negative result on the scope too so I'm wondering if my body tried to ovulate and didn't :/ Temp did go up a little bit this morning but not enough to be ovulation.

I do try to monitor CM too kksy9b, i seem to only have one day of EWCM, with a couple of watery CM.

However I've decided OH and I are going to have a boozy night tonight to take our minds off it and relax a bit I like knowing whats going on but I don't like stressing about it!

J14 - Perfect timing!! Fingers crossed