Im sorry your having a hard time Cassie. I know what that stabbing pain feels like. I get that a lot. Actually, I got that even be4 I was pregnant all the time. Try and forget about the flea, take a nice shower or a bath with bubbles and listen to music. Maybe that will help you relax. And don't worry about complaining bc it's not complaining. Pregnancy is hard and we have every rt to voice what we are feeling. I hate when my doctor says "ok I have a list of your complaints rt here" UMMMMMMMMMMM EXCUSE ME a list of my complaints. Thats a nice way to put it. I have been trying not to complain. It was funny actually, someone asked me how I was feeling so I said oh pretty good and DH goes "OH NO, she is having lots back pain, her this her that hurts." LOL he had a DH moment of complaining for me.